Is it possible to bring back the spark in relationship?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together for 3,5 years (living together for almost 3yrs). I’m 23, he is 25.
in the past year I feel like we’re stuck. Sometimes I find myself thinking that maybe it’s all over because we’re more like roommates than couple. I respect him, I care about him and etc but I do not feel desire or anything sexual to him. I think that he started to notice it and he’s trying to get touchy with me, engage in sexual stuff. But I just don’t feel it. Sex feels like an obligation. I really do adore him and he is a great man, pretty much like everything the girl can want. But the spark is just gone. How to bring it back?

I’ve tried going on dates with him like we did in beginning. But things been tight since covid, and we we have some financial issues (we’re not in debt but we had better times). We do not have money for fancy stuff, so no vacation or get away is possible right now. We can’t just run from routine.

All answers are appreciated!

[Pinay_ako]

You have to show him you want him if you still do. Or else don’t pretend…

[Asker]

The reason for this question.
I’m not ready to call it quits, and i really want to be with him. But I want to feel the excitement and desire. If there is nothing I can do to bring it back - I will not keep him hanging, I will let him go. But before that I need to try everything I can.

[Pinay_ako]

That’s what I am saying. Show him you want him bad and spice up things in the bedroom. It’s all up to you. Seduce him!

[IsoUser]

You're kind of at that stage where careers are taking off. I to be perfectly honest with you don't know how to answer your question my first marriage failed mainly because of careers we chose essentially we just grew apart. I just think that we were married to young essentially.

[Asker]

I see your point. It does feel like we are growing apart due to very different career choices.

[RedStealthOperative]

They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. If it ends up having the opposite effect, then maybe that would be the time to acknowledge the hurtful but necessary truth for both of you.

[Jaguarsxr051]

Then your eyes is on someone else who's kinda dramatic sense of bad boy this relationship is probably ended

[Guy13]

Get away together out of the mundane for a week...