If a guy asks you out and you reject them, will the attraction continue to remain in some cases?
Like- does that feeling ever really go away?
If a guy asks you out and you reject them, will the attraction continue to remain in some cases?
Like- does that feeling ever really go away?
yes i keep rejecting my ex before but still keep coming back. but in the end he is the one who left me, in the long run he became my boyfriend. when he became my boyfriend he was my world and i would from time to time cry everytime i remember the times i rejected him. but i aldo cannot blame myself i was just being honesy with myself. it's like that when you are so in love eith your SO I don't know i just get so senti its pathetic. i feel like when we became together i love him more than he love me. but maybe that's just my imagination maybe it is just equal
Yup physical attraction will still be there. They will keep trying to get in ur pants. My male co worker literally said “so when are u gonna leave ur mans because u found someone better?” Bruh. I was ticked off.
nope, you reject me, I'm gone. there's way to many women to keep wasting time on you and to keep coming back for more rejection is just plain stupid, I refuse to do it no matter how good you look. I value the time and effort I spend on a woman and refuse to play games with women who show they don't deserve my time and attention. You get one chance and that's it. How you use it is up to you.
Sometimes they keep liking you.
Sometimes they resent you for rejecting them.
Sometimes they get over you, and wonder what they ever saw in you.
Sometimes all three at once.
It really depends on how much they liked you, and what kind of "like" it was. Was it a mostly sexual like, or emotional, or what?
Opinion
22Opinion
I asked out my crush and she rejected me after she flirted with me for weeks and weeks. The only reason I made Amy move at all was because of how much she flirted with me.
I am still hurting after days and days. I still want her. I still like her very very much although I really don't want to anymore.
His interest doesn't disappear immediately upon rejection. It takes time for 5he feelings to fade, but they do.
I wish I could give you a better example, but I met a girl who I really liked in highschool 15 years later. My feelings were completely gone by then, although I remember the feelings I had.
Oh, absolutely. In fact, we often become even more attracted to you after you've dismissed us. Why that is, I'm not entirely sure, but I love it;)
For Some of us... No means NO! For some (who don't know what No means) becomes a Stalking system, an Obsession, that can Turn Dangerous if they become Infatuated with you...
That's harassment. Some people are like that. They are immature. Young men do that if they dont understand how attraction works. The Hormones take control during puberty and they dont know what to do. Some people were taught the wrong way and never learn.
It's more extreme in some. But also a lot of guys will beat themselves up and go into a deep depression. Because they fantasize and then it doesn't happen and then it crumbles
Sorry I could have misunderstood
No.
They move on, or become stalkers. But there is no "liking". They will either now ignore you, seek revenge or become infatuated and take it all too far.
It is not something that can be turned on or off like a switch sometimes it can be like an open sore
Sometimes it does and there’s nothing you can do about it other than to just stay away.
Depends if u actually reject them like some chick's don't even really reject you. So guys will stick around but if u out right rejected them, then no I'll block you or ignore you.
Well yeah... it's not like you just flip a switch in the person's brain.
Mostly no, they'll just move on
Chasing girls after getting rejected is not a trend these days
If they have any self respect, then it won't. If they don't... well...
yes, unless they're bitter. They should be mature enough to like you as a person and just realize they're not the one for you
Some guys want to be your friend after you reject them, hoping you'll change your mind after some time passes.
Probably for some. I approach when interested. If she is not interested, I just move on.
If a guy has any sense he immediately puts you out of his mind.
Well it doesn't go away completely, but if they lose touch after it, it gets easier to move on.
They still find you attractive. Like? It depends on the circumstances.
I like girls till they reject me for absolutely no reason.
Most guys will move on after being rejected.
With time we move on...
No the attraction goes away instantly.
I can't speak for evert guy but I don't.
Yes.
I will not ask again.
Why does it matter?
You can also add your opinion below!