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There's a slight chance i probably would date a bi-girl, just don't fucking cheat on me and do shit behind my back, whether that be with a girl, just fucking don't lol.

Some dudes will tolerate their bi-partner making out with another girl (s) since it's a girl so it doesn't bother them much. I on the other hand do tolerate that. You much rather just stay single then and live a swinger life and make out with who you want, but don't do that shit when in a relationship lol

Also girls/women will less likely date a bi-guy, that's a fact. Call it double standards i guess I don't know 😂

I'm having a debate with two people on here that are saying that women should be walking around topless in public over here in the US. I explained to them that women have mammary glands, and large breasts indicate high amounts of estrogen and therefore high fertility, and this is why breasts are seen as sexual organs and make men sexually excited. I told them even if they deny the biology as to why, then they should still abide to societal standards to some extent, as everyone will think you're trash if you're walking around topless in a city to prove some point out there in the ether.

The girl told me it's a double standard, and I told her that men don't have mammary glands or organs to showcase high fertility. The primary male sex hormone is testosterone, and high amounts of testosterone mean a lot of muscle mass, which is sexually attractive to women, because again, it represents strong fertility. Estrogen in men is not sexually attractive.

I literally explained all of this, and these two are still telling me I'm wrong and how I'm this prude religious nut and how they shouldn't have to go out of their way to care about people's opinions like mine lol. I told them they don't need to care, as that's their prerogative, but I'm not the only one who will think they're dirty hippies for the reasons why this is not normal is literally set within our biology, not evil sexist men with an agenda out there in the ether.

So I've finally resolved myself to start dating this year, but I feel my views on relationships these days is very pessimistic. Basically I feel that it's completely one-sided on the woman's part, and is little different from the relationship between a master and their servent

For example: If a woman hits a man, She's being strong and is encouraged to do so, if a man hits a woman for any reason even if his life is in danger, he is completely at fault for it.

Some women will cringe at the mere mention of splitting the bill let alone a woman paying for the whole thing, but it's almost expected for a man to foot the entire bill even if he makes less.

If a man cheats on a woman, he is a horrible unfaithful human being. If a woman cheats on a man, it's because the man didn't love her enough and give her enough attention.

If a woman doesn't want sex then pressuring her to do so would be sexual harassment, if a man doesn't want sex there is something fundamentally wrong with him as a person, cause men ALWAYS want sex right?

I could go on but the point im trying to make is this, modern day double standards, make it so how relationships go is entirely dependent on how benevolent the female party is.

So if I genuinely believe that, why bother dating at all? Well 2 reasons.

1. Being fully aware of this reality, means I have the freedom to at least choose who my master is going to be.

And

2. Being someone's subservient boytoy, is still better then spending your life alone provided you get to choose your master as stated above.

So is this an overly cynical view of dating?