Would you date a bi-sexual person?

[YvanKarma]

There's a slight chance i probably would date a bi-girl, just don't fucking cheat on me and do shit behind my back, whether that be with a girl, just fucking don't lol.

Some dudes will tolerate their bi-partner making out with another girl (s) since it's a girl so it doesn't bother them much. I on the other hand do tolerate that. You much rather just stay single then and live a swinger life and make out with who you want, but don't do that shit when in a relationship lol

Also girls/women will less likely date a bi-guy, that's a fact. Call it double standards i guess I don't know 😂

Yes, it don't matter if he/she is bi

No, they are more likely to cheat

No, i rather just date the opposite sex

I'm not sure

Updates

+1 y

FOR FUCKS SAKE.

A PeRSon BeIng Bi doesn't MaKE ThEM LesS LiKElY To Be LOyaL

I KNOW THAT.

For you easily triggered human beings. I added that option because there are really people who think that way, not because I THINK THAT WAY. I literally just threw it in there for the heck of it.

Mind you however, i did get cheated on by a bi girl who did shit with another girl.
Does that make me believe all bi people are like that? NOOOOOO

Geeeesh

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+1 y

For those that go into other people their comments to talk shit because you got butthurt over someone's opinion will get BLOCKED.

If you have an opinion, comment your own, don't go into other people their opinion to talk shit. Unless you keep it calm and collective, then do so. But as soon as i notice you talk shit, i will block yo ass.

[Nagui]

I'm a cis girl, and I date a bisexual guy. It's not an issue to me at all. People that are bisexual are not exactly more likely to cheat than others. Cheating is about character, personality, values and commitment, not about your sexual orientation. For people saying that they will always miss one of the sexes if they settle for one of them, that doesn't make sense. An hetero man can like blonde girls and brunette girls, however he will settle with one of them. He will still find the other beautiful, but he will not cheat on his blonde wife just because he misses the brunettes, that's not how it works. You don't settle with someone just because of the sex you have with them so, or their looks, so why would bisexuals? Bisexuals are people that love just like the others do, if they love you, there's no reason they will cheat on you just because they miss the opposite sex.

[YvanKarma]

Read update, and thankU for your comment

[Nagui]

You're welcome, I did read it, I didn't leave here this statement as an attack to you anything. I know there is people that think that way and that's why I wanted to clarify it, not trying to say you think like that. :)

[YvanKarma]

its okay :) we good

[CherryRoseChampange]

I'm bisexual, and I'm not more likely to cheat. I'm super picky and more loyal than anything. I just so happen to like both genders.

I don't have a problem with my man being bisexual. But tbh no man I've ever been into has liked another man that way. I don't think it fits the personalities/characters I'm into ironically.

[Tru-陳]

That's true because bisexual men are generally unattractive masculine men, in the same way bisexual females are unattractive feminine females.

[Ellie-V]

Uh... that is a stretch

[CharlieBadger]

I love all the people saying he is more likely to cheat. I just separated from my wife and partner of 13 years for reasons unrelated to my sexuality.

Never cheated on her or any other partner. Though I have been cheated on before.

Believe it or not, a bisexual male can be happy with a single partner for years or decades. And if you are worried about him just looking at other people. Odds are your straight male partner;s eyes are checking out tits and asses all the time.

Just because I'm looking at more asses doesn't mean I am more likely to try t get one of them in bad with me.

Now when I'm single all bets are off.

Oh and yeah I would have no problem dating another bisexual. I'm looking for one currently so that they will have an understanding of what being Bi means.

[SjE78]

yes and have done 3 times before, and only one of those there were suspicion of cheating... couldn't prove it though...
but contrary to what the percentage of people said about them more likely to cheat, it is a known fact that it depends on the person not their orientation, and most bi women i have met, when in a relationship... they remain loyal and committed, whether monogamous or open relationships

whereas straight women (not all) but some have been more willing to cheat, so whether bi straight, gay or damned alien... it doesn't matter what their orientation is if it's in their nature to cheat then they will, if not then they won't

[ManOnFire]

Nope, never. I like women who are only interested in men and have the courage to be with only men. Women who will fuck anybody don't appeal to me.

[joeshi]

I’m bi, and my boyfriend is completely uncomfortable with it. I barely even talk about it. But he has his own personally reasons why he has grown to be homophobic. But i don’t think i could date a guy that wants to take it up the ass. I mean i think it’s hot when a guy is open about his sexuality and is attracted to guys and girls but if he has a feminine side that makes me a little uneasy 😬

[YvanKarma]

So you;re still with this homophobe? gee, tell me, what is it that he has that makes you stay with him lol lol

[joeshi]

No because he has a good reason. If he’s uncomfortable then he just is but if it gets to a point where he’s judging then i will just defend the people. And we have been together for so long, and if that conversation starts a problem then i don’t want it. Also I’m not very openly gay, I’m just gay. If someone was to ask I’ll tell the truth but I’m not going to tell everyone that I’m gay.

[YvanKarma]

hmm i see

[roadrunnerbill]

Understood 😂

[joeshi]

Like he doesn’t like when guys put on makeup, it makes him uncomfortable

[YvanKarma]

he doesn't like the femboys then

[Guardian45]

You don't sound comfortable with yourself.

[joeshi]

I’ve never been open about it. Never have had a full on acceptance for it tbh

[ThisGuyDucks]

you're 'bisexual'but wouldn't like a bisexual guy?
The hypocrisy.

Lol would you still be bisexual if you were to only fuck and have relationships with women and not men ever in your life?
I think not.

Most of these self proclaimed 'bisexuals' couldn't actually be with a woman.

Also, I understand why your boyfriend is uncomfortable by you being bisexual, I'm also disgusted and 'boner killed' by bisexual women aka half lesbian faggots.

[YvanKarma]

@ThisGuyDucks Dude, chill

[ThisGuyDucks]

bro just let me rant.

[YvanKarma]

@ThisGuyDucks then do that in your own comment lol

[joeshi]

I like bisexual people but i don’t think i would date a bi dude because i prefer a guy who is very masculine. I don’t find it attractive in a sexual way when a guy takes it up the ass. If i was a hypocrite i would say that I’m bi but i hate bi women it just doesn’t make sense. It’s very hyrpocrite to call women half fags don’t you think? Don’t be bitchn about me sexual preferences. I’m not going to change it because you can’t take a fucking comment.

[ThisGuyDucks]

do you even know what hypocrisy is?
you're bisexual (half faggot) but won't date a man like you (a half faggot).

You're bisexual but if you had to have sex with and commit to a woman for the rest or your life your bisexuality would be gone.
You could never be with a woman, you will always want a man.
Such Hypocrisy.

Date your own kind.
As a straight man I'd rather be with a straight women that likes dick than a bisexual faggot that wants to suck lesbian pussy.

You like women? then go be with women and date your kind (bisexual men women and lesbians).

You're not entitled to any straight man when you're a fucking faggot yourself.
Go lick vaginas on periods and scissor with bisexual women and lesbians.

[joeshi]

I’m sorry i didn’t read most because it’s 5am over here but why am i going to date my kind when I’m not sEXUALLY ATTRACTED. It’s like saying “oh your gay?, you should date a lesbian because that’s your oWn kkINd” noooo if your not sexually attracted then your not. And then there’s all types of gays. There’s a lot a feminine gays and they won’t date eachother because THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE MASCULINE. Js

[ThisGuyDucks]

then find a masculine bisexual guy, a guy that likes to fuck men in the ass and dominate men and do the same stuff to women.
No straight men for you.

Go be bisexual with lesbians and other bisexual women.

[biancalovexo]

My bae is bi but leans more towards girls. Meaning he is mostly attracted to girls but he’s open to liking guys as well. He’s dated a guy before.. and had a crush on one several months before we started talking. It doesn’t mean anything to me if my partner is bi. It just means they have a wider range of what they’re attracted to. At the end of the day, as long as they are loyal and monogamous, they chose me and I’m happy.

[Victor007]

Me too

[LeeKenz]

I would date either a bi guy or bi girl. Idc. I'm bi. And everyone has such a bad opinion about bisexuals because we're "most likely to cheat" like no. I'm not. I've never cheated in my life. And I never will. But let me ask you this, why get so mad about bisexuals cheating, when there are people who define themselves as pansexual?

[Victor007]

I prefer bi girl because they are rather more open, positive and honest

[LeeKenz]

Okay

[YvanKarma]

get so mad? sweety, i just added the opinion there. Its not cos i think that way or such.

[sissyDj]

Pans don't cheat either

[LeeKenz]

It's not about their sexuality it's about the person themselves. My point is, people point and say bisexuals are more likely to cheat BUT there are people who will date anyone.

[sissyDj]

We do not date just anyone we do have some standards

[LeeKenz]

For fucks sake stop getting so offended. There's always that one person. I'm saying that pansexual shave more dating and fucking potentianlbthan being bi... boyfriend yet people don't say anything about them being more likely to cheat.

[JiveSoulBro]

They can call themselves pansexual all they want but cheating is still cheating.

[sissyDj]

@JiveSoulBro it's the person not the origination

[Jackieboi]

wasn't this up a couple of days ago? No never, is more than enough having to compete with other guys, having to compete with gals too is too much. And ofc gals are less likely to date bi guys, im guessing for something similar to the reason i just said. Not to mension a bi guy is not a real guy, rather just someone with so low standards they willing to let anyone play with their dong as long as its homo sapiens... I bet that will change in 10 years too, then itll prob be allright to throw pets into the mix too...

[Anonymous]

For bisexuals, a lot of them say they’re bi when in reality they’re more leaned towards gay or lesbian but it’s more “safe/socially acceptable” to say bi as you’re not “completely gay” technically so it’s not as scary to come out...

but for me, I’d personally wanna date someone I know is completely straight, and 100% attracted to me and only me. I wanna be sure they’re happy to be with me and not “hiding who they are” and living miserably with me.

[Paul09]

Not sure if you are human or not. But it is impossible to find just 1 person in the whole world attractive..

[Opinion Owner]

@Paul09 no id want someone attracted to one sex not two completely different genders - where I can’t even be sure which gender he’s more attracted to. No need to make dating complicated.

[Opinion Owner]

@Herelbe lmao you seem too emotional. calm down. where did I say straight men can’t cheat? the only absolute moron here is you trying to attack someone for their dating preferences which are none of your fucking business ty.

[YvanKarma]

I blocked him because he seems to go in other people their comments and talk shit cos they disagree. Won't tolerate that shit. So he won't be responding to you, sorry. I assume he must be gay therefor feels butthurt with some comments I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

@YvanKarma thank you lol he was annoying as fuck.

[Paul09]

Nothing is complicated. You just look at it in that way. You can not generalize. It's no different from being straight. You want a relationship, you tell them. Just like anyone else. Everyone just has différents tastes. Everyone can be loyal to everyone, and bisexuality should not be looked at as bad thing. I'm not bisexual, and it doesn't not bother me one bit. Good for them tho, they have more choices to choose from. Unless they are singers they will not cheat on you. You just have to be more open and optimistic.

[Opinion Owner]

@Paul09 stop pushing your own beliefs on to me. I have my own preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that. I don’t have to be “open” to anything. I can date whomever I want period.

[Paul09]

I never pushed anything on you. Like that other idiot. I'm just explaining the reality of it. Yes you are allowed to choose whom you want, duh. But you generalizing, and pretty much its like rascism. Those people! There's plenty of straight for you. Just do not disrespect people on who they are.

[Opinion Owner]

So I’m being disrespectful bi people because I don’t wanna date someone who’s bisexual. Lmao ok!

[Anonymous]

I married s bisexual girl and she cheated on me with another girl. I won't ever let that happen again.

[YvanKarma]

sorry man

[Opinion Owner]

I learned a lot from that experience!

[holograph]

I don't see bi as someone being more likely to cheat. Yes the pool of potential people they could cheat with would increase, but even if they're straight, the pool of potentials is still huge. Whether they cheat just comes down to whether they respect our relationship or not. I think it has nothing to do with being straight or bi.

[PinkMichae]

It's ridiculous to assume just because someone is attracted to 2 genders they are less likely to be loyal.

[Tru-陳]

No it's not. The temptation is higher, that's a fact. If I only like Pizza, I can choose my favorite Pizza and I can live quite happily. If I like both Pizza and Burgers, I can choose my favorite pizza, but that won't satisfy my desire for burgers.

[Ripper_E]

@Tru-陳 How is the temptation higher? If you like one gender, there are essentially an infinite amount of options because there are too many women in the world to ever see them all. Immeasurable is a better word. The same goes for men. If you are attracted to both, it's still immeasurable. It doesn't become less likely. You are either attracted or you aren't and temptation works the same regardless. People aren't food.

[Tru-陳]

@Ripper_E Incorrect. I've clearly explained it. There is only one type of woman that I'm attracted to. With that type of woman I would have no desire for others. Now some might like different types of women, however either way they're still going to be satisfied with heterosexual sex.

Add a whole new completely different sex into the mix that spending one's time with one sex alone will NEVER satisfy... And you're CLEARLY adding another higher level of temptation. Note: I didn't say one will definitely cheat, but you cannot say that the temptation wouldn't be higher.

I've also found that these "bisexuals" are far more prone to open relationships or swinging, which explains the above. But that's just anecdotal.

[Tru-陳]

@HereIbe That classic identity politics. The absolutely simpleton belief that one cannot possibly comment about something unless they happen to be something.

If you don't have the intelligence to refute the arguments I've made, don't bother.

[cavmanier]

I don't see how people don't understand that a lot of cheating depends on opportunity. Whenever you look for a partner whether it's a hookup or boyfriend you need to find the opportunity of finding a person you want to do that with. Given that bisexual people effectively have twice the options, that increases their opportunity for cheating. Am I wrong about this? I don't see how I would be wrong.

[PinkMichae]

Temptation doesn't make a person unloyal no matter how much there is. It's a choice to be unloyal. And no matter how much temptation a person is surrounded by they can choose to be a loyal person. Someone could have only one temptation and act on it by cheating. Then another could have several temptations yet choose not to act on it and be loyal. Loyalty has to do with morals. Not temptation.

[cavmanier]

Well if they are choosing to be loyal, that implies they are using will or restraint. Given that, the more desirable the cheating looks, the more likely their will is broken.

If they are 100% loyal by nature without even choosing then I would agree. First though, there may be some people like that, but most people are not. Most people always have some degree of openness to something better or for an extra pursuit of pleasure their partner will never know about. Second, I'm not sure if a person can be 100% loyal without any possibility of cheating. To imagine the unlikeness, honestly imagine you or a person in general living their lives 1 billion times, each with different paths. You can increase that number to an infinity amount of lives. Is it not more likely that in one of those lives they would cheat given all the possible outcomes? With bi people, you have to increase the odds due to their higher amount of options to cheat.

I don't see any other way around that. It's no different than if a husband works with 5 secretaries vs 10. With 10, he's more likely to find one into him while finding her desirable enough.

[PinkMichae]

@Yvankarma Just saw your update and want to make sure you didn't think my comment was directed at you. You never said you believe bi people cheat more nor would I assume you thought that. My comment was directed at anyone who did choose the option that they are more likely to cheat. Just to be clear.

[PinkMichae]

@camanier a bi person could only be tempted by a few people whether an or woman because not every man and woman are attractive to them. But yet a straight person could be attracted to several people of the opposite sex therefore them having more temptation. So if you want to use the temptation argument it still doesn't make bi people a higher risk. Most people don't just want to sleep with someone simply because they are a man or woman. There's a lot more to attraction that would cause the temptation to cheat than that. So I don't agree that bi people are a higher risk. In order for that to be true bi people would have to be attracted to all men and women. But realistically they are only attracted to a select few just like straight people.

[PinkMichae]

@cavemanier I meant

[PinkMichae]

@cavmanier I can't seem to get your name right lol! Think I got it now.

[cavmanier]

Yes it means bi people more options. If a person has 10 options vs 15 options, they obviously will statistically more likely find something they desire as numbers increase. You are assuming straight people are attracted to more people than bi people which there's no proof of. If anything, (if you want to go here) bi women tend to have higher sex drives which increases temptation. That is totally off topic though.

I'm just trying to be factually correct. I wouldn't necessarily worry about cheating. My real issue is I just find women only into men more attractive. It feels super feminine to me for her to like my parts and not mine and womens' parts. They would need something really big to make up for that for me.

[YvanKarma]

@PinkMichae oh no it's okay m'lady, i just had to point that out in my update. we good :)

[PinkMichae]

@cavmanier Omfg! Now you're saying bi people have a higher sex drive.🤣And you know this how? Please show me some proof that bi people not only have a higher number of attractions to people and that they have a higher sex drive too. Lol! Something tells me you can't. You can only assume. And that's your problem. You can have one bi person attracted to many and one attracted to few. You can have one bi person with a high sex drive and one with a little sex drive. Just like straight people. This is why you can't say bi people will cheat more. Not that a higher sex drive makes you more likely to cheat anyway. Lol! Please dude. You are making a blanket statement instead of looking at people as individuals. Move along.

[cavmanier]

I said bi women, not bi men. Bi men have been shown to have lower sex drives on average than straight men.

Here's your proof

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17380375

"You can have one bi person attracted to many and one attracted to few. You can have one bi person with a high sex drive and one with a little sex drive. Just like straight people."

I never said one person can't vary from the average. I was speaking in averages. I figured that is obvious... Would anyone seriously claim all straight people have the same exact sex drives and are attracted to the same amount of people? No they wouldn't and I didn't.

[cavmanier]

In case you don't want to read

"Recent research suggests that, for most women, high sex drive is associated with increased sexual attraction to both women and men"

[Ripper_E]

Yes I would because whether or not they find one gender attractive or two has no affect on my feelings for them whatsoever.

Just because a woman is bi does not mean she is any more likely to cheat on you and there is no reason to believe there would be and no, it is not fact that women are less likely to have a bisexual significant other.

[SirRexington]

In my experience, and I know this is cliche and an stereotype but it seems accurate nonetheless, bisexual people are more sexual and more likely to cheat or have the desire to cheat/ be polyamourus.

Also, its just weird for me. Pick a side god damnit.

[Anonymous]

No, because people who are bi could never be truly happy settling down in a committed relationship with just one person. They'd always feel frustrated and confused about what they really wanted if they did settle down.

[Opinion Owner]

I view bi people as very confused. It would be a turn off to me if my boyfriend wanted to suck d*ck. I want a straight man.

[cavmanier]

I totally agree. I wouldn't want a girl that was into eating pussy either. I'd rather my girl just be into me...

[BrittBratt2416]

nah, not into men who are half/sorta kinda gay. The thought of him being with man before men is ehhhh so i can't. But we can be chill thou, go to the mall, eat some food, whatever.

[BrittBratt2416]

i already know why majority of the men said yes. lol A bi girl is a lot of dudes dream cause there already thinking/hoping a 3some with another girl will happen.

[YvanKarma]

I suppose. But not mine. I have dated a bi girl and she cheated on me with another girl. So i don't think i'd go with another again. Rather just go with a straight one. lol #trauma

[BrittBratt2416]

mm that's also another reason why I won't date a bi. He might start missing the other side and will want to start dating/sleep with another man.

[YvanKarma]

Perhaps lol

[sissyDj]

So your saying your not into any men what so ever

[HereIbe]

Because straight ment never EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER EVER cheat.

[BrittBratt2416]

@sissyDj I don't know where the hell you got that from but if you think all men are bi then you're kinda like those men on here who think all us females are bi when that's not the case at all. But to answer your question, im very much into men. So much that I'm going to marry one lol

[sissyDj]

The Kinsley scale

[sissyDj]

Kingston

[Daniela1982]

Why date someone of the opposite persuasion? They are doubly able to cheat on you. I got better things to deal with than some bisexual fuck tard. And remember, you asked for opinions and you got mine. If you block anyone from having an opinion then God help us all for speaking our mind.

[Chanel5xxx]

I dont get the phrase " opposite persuasion" ...
Love is love... whether its a guy& girl... girl&girl... guy&guy
We're all HUMAN BEINGS... with feelings of love.
Cheating is cheating-Period
How is it that they are /// as you mentioned//"Doubly able to cheat on you"?
Thats so dumb

[UnboxedDinners]

If they loved me just as much as I loved them, then yes I would date a bisexual man or woman. Just because they’re bisexual doesn’t mean they’re going to cheat or whatever.

[celin98]

NO, i wouldn't want to date with a bisexual, gay or transgender person.

[JMLover09]

Yes, only if they're more on the open side. Willing to bring others into the bedroom.

[YvanKarma]

loolll

[WolfsRoze]

Mmm sounds a bit kinky

[JustShattered]

It doesn't matter if someone is bisexual or pan or whatever they are. If they like more than one gender then great! They chose YOU out of all the people they could have fallen in love with, they chose you.

[Holistic]

I've dated a bi person before and I don't see a problem with it. I'm honestly not worried about people cheating on me, but obviously I would not be okay with her doing things with another girl.

[YvanKarma]

which anime is your dp pic?

[Holistic]

That's just Lucina from Fire Emblem.

[YvanKarma]

aaah ok

[mateynine]

Probably not. Bi people are more likely to have mental health issues and she likely wouldn't agree with my politics.

I might be okay with her sexuality if she were more conservative and less promiscuous, but if she has modern views on what a relationship should be and starts going off on me for my 'male privilege' then I don't want any part of that.