I watched ''Love is Blind'' and there is a male character who is bisexual and the girl who was dating him rejected him just because he is bisexual. I think that to be bisexual is not a problem, because if you love a person you don't care about anything else than the love you feel for him or her. Personally I won't have problem in dating a bisexual person, because if he chose me it means that in that moment he is attracted by me and want to pass time with me not with other boys or girls. Remember that love is love. What do you think? What would you do in this case?
Would you date a bisexual person?
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I'm a bi girl, and my boyfriend is also bi! I see it as having more options available! In reality though, like the example listed above, sometimes bi people have less dating options because of people not wanting to be with someone who is bi...
The way I view being bi is like I view being attracted to hair color. I would date someone who is blond, I'd date someone with black hair, that doesn't mean I'm going to cheat on a dark haired guy with a blond hair guy!
It's always great to hear from accepting people! A bi man is really not that much different than a straight man. The only difference is that they can potentially see themselves with a girl, and they could potentially see themselves with a guy. Like, to us bi people it's really not much different than being happy with someone with different hairstyles, different heights, or something along those lines. Gender is just a different trait!
Well, say we were dating, the moment I find out I’m ending it. It’s not attractive to me, it’s a severe turn-off. This is the kind of thing you DO disclose on the first date, so you don’t waste other people’s time, and your own time.
@Gavyn I still don't get it... so being bisexual turns u off (:_;) but how... and that's why I don't wanna say what... what if I really like you and you like me as well its simply sexuality that will cause us to break up (:_;)
@Nachowedgie I have two questions... Why do u accuse me of being deceitful.. and what do u define as deciteful coz maybe we have different definitions and that's why u say so
deliberately cause (someone) to believe something that is not true
If you're not honest about that to someone you're deceiving them. People don't like being misled and lied to, so either say it at the start or else you can't complain when people break up with you when they find out you've been lying to them. I mean as well as being deceitful it's also extremely selfish
U can have two definitions.. its possible.. humans are allowed to perceive things differently are they not... and not telling them is not lying and i reckon you would consider it as misleading but the Lord said "ask and you will receive" if you are truly interested in my sexuality and think its an important thing in our relationship then you will ask... I'm not gonna try to change the topic and stray away am not gonna lie and say "hey am straight" I will most definitely tell you am bisexual
No, that's the point of having a definition, so everyone knows what it means.
Not telling someone you're bisexual will mean they will assume you're straight because over 99% of people are. It's your responsibility to inform someone about that sort of thing. By not doing that you're being deceitful and selfish.
Damn your right lemme rephrase that people can have a different understanding of that one definition
But ur really not explaining exactly why its deceitful or selfish u just defined deciteful and said people don't like it but ur not telling me why me not telling someone I'm bisexual is lying or selfish... Like I said if ur really interested in knowing my sexuality ask.. if you don't care you'll probably assume
You already said why it's deceitful and selfish though
"I still don't get it... so being bisexual turns u off, but how... and that's why I don't wanna say what... what if I really like you and you like me as well its simply sexuality that will cause us to break up."
You literally said if being bisexual was a turn off to someone you wouldn't tell them and you'd continue to date them. That is literal deceit. It is also selfish because people should be allowed to date the people they want to date (as long as it's legal) and not have their time wasted by a deceitful person who would rather be dishonest to the person they apparently love and trust, instead of growing up and behaving like a responsible adult.
Hmm your right I see what u mean now (+_+) I guess it is selfish an a little deceitful (-_- ; ) tho I still won't accept the lying bit I'm not telling lies.. am just not saying anything... coz like its a little scary knowing that something u cherish cud end simply coz the other person doesn't fancy bisexuals but I guess I'm not really taking in the other person's feelings into consideration and that IS selfish my bad.. thanks for helping me realise that ( : _ ; )
Everyone have is own opinion but I think that to date a vi person is a problem for a lot of person because they didn't accept them. If I like a guy that is bi, I really don't care if he is bi or straight, if he loves me, if he respect me everything is ok. And I don't think that bi people have more options.
I have in the past and would again. Then again, I'm bi myself 😂 But really... Don't see a problem. Bisexuals got preferences in people just like a straight guy does in girls. It's not like an bisexual want to sleep with any person they see
Yeah I know, some people think that if you date a bi person, the bi person will cheat on you because he or she have more option, but this is bullshit. I mean it can happen that a bi person cheat but he or she doesn't cheat because of his or her sexual orientation but because she or he is a stupid person.
I don't think that I would. I think I'd have a little bit of trust issues going on, which is on me to deal with. But I'd also worry that they'd be constantly asking for a threesome or something. For some reason, my brain related bisexuality with open types of relationships, which is not what I want.
No I don't think I would. The reason is because if they are attracted sexually to men as well as women, that's something I couldn't sexually fulfill for them. I want a partner that I can sexually satisfy and not worry if they are not really happy because they're denying a part of who they are to be with me. So bi-sexual friend, yes partner, no.
I'm sorry you had an experience like this. A cheater is a cheater, no matter what their sexual preference is, and I'm glad you acknowledge this. I'm bi, my boyfriend is bi, and we are both extremely loyal people! People can be shit no matter their sexual orientation
Well there was something wrong with her if she thought that way... Just so you know, almost ALL bi people would consider it cheating regardless of if it was with a man or woman! It sounds like they were a crazy, please don't let this bitch cloud the reality of most bi people. It's rare for a bi person to feel this way!
@Faerthurin oh, I know she had problems. For example, she kept making lots of homophobic remarks when we were together. Which is a big contradiction since she later cheated on me with that woman and now lives with her.
Really not... Having the idea I could be replaced or have been replaced by a girl is really odd to me... To me, the idea of coupling up is because the presence of the other person in my life will fill up the holes that exist in my life and I would fill up the holes that exist in their's. And being straight, I cannot think I am in competition with guys AND girls to be someone who means the most in someone's life... and to me, the sexual component is another process which couples do because it would be something that they wouldn't share with anyone else... That's the only reason why I date... (not having sex, but having a sexual component to it, otherwise it's basically friendship).
and I know how to be the best man in somebody's life, but I don't know what she looks for if she doesn't like men exclusively. I would also be consistently bothering myself whenever I do anything romantic or sexual because I know that I could just as easily be a girl to her and it wouldn't matter. Me being a man is something I am proud of and is something that I would want a woman to be... looking for, you know? Like potential being wasted? Let's say that I am actually talking about sex, she doesn't care that I am a man down there either... or even my body is that of a Man... why should I bother working on being attractive in those aspects if it could just as well have been a girl... A male attractiveness is different from female attractiveness... So I definitely know that she likes the female body and the male body in some aspects but I don't know which ones they would be...
A simpler way to put it is... if everything is special, it's the same as nothing is... and I don't just want to be a person to someone... I am straight and I can't handle bisexuality for said reasons... Being a person in a bisexuals life and a man in a woman's life... don't tell me that those aren't different
The only reason I wouldn't, as of right now, is that gay marriage, has been legalized
I'm not anti gay, I don't care what they do, however, when it comes to bi sexual, and I ask people on this site (GAG), the ones who are bi, which gender they are going to wind up marrying, most say "i don't know" or "i don't even want to get married"
I didn't ask that. I asked "which gender are you planning on marrying" (whether you marry at all or not, is not the question, so answer the fucking question god damnit). Anyway, the ones who do give me an answer, they'll say "man" or "woman" of course, but then they won't give me a reason why, so, I'll say, ok, well, why that one. And they'll say "i don't know".
So, my question is, now that gay marriage is legal.. are bi's, truly bi, or are they just "faking it", because gay marriage was illegal, forever, up until a few years ago, and now it sort of freaks them out that, their partner (man or woman), could eventually ask them to marry... and it would be OK, because it's legal now
I wouldn’t date a bisexual person. And before everyone jumps on me calling me homophobic, I want to let you know that I have many close friends who are openly gay and one that is an operated transgender. I’ve attended pride parades, and I have always supported LGBT+ rights both on the internet and on real life. However when it comes to who I date, I could never be with a guy that has been or wants to try out with another guy. Because the thought of him with another man - for me at least is a turnoff.
Well the thing is that guy kind of cheated the system by not disclosing he was bisexual in the beginning he kind of robbed her of the time to even decide if she was okay with it and just told her on the "honeymoon". And then when she was trying to just talk to him and understand when he got defensive and started insulting and yelling at her. Then it blew up from there. Personally, I kind of associate men that like other men with being more feminine and not as attractive because I'm into manly men. And I just keep imagining him sticking it into a guy's dirty butt which is a turn off (even when my own boyfriend wants anal I think it's just gross).
I think guys that are not 100% often have traits that I don’t find attractive - I even dated a guy who was a closet bisexual - and he also had these traits (I can’t quite explain what these traits are, but you can tell me by looking at the person that they’re not straight) anyway although we dated I never felt that attracted to him and then once he told me he kissed a guy and liked it and despite dating him I told him he should explore his sexuality 😂 - but it did put me off when he said that.
I’m 100% straight and I think I’d only be compatible with a 100% straight guy.
I don't know if I'm bi. I will say I don't know if I am asked. If people just assume I am 100% straight, that's on them, as with all assumptions. My question is, what turns people off with bi sexuality? I doubt that 99% of people are straight, like someone claimed here. I can imagine a lot of women being too shameful of their sexuality to reveal they might be on the spectrum of bi sexuality. Have you seen how beautiful the female body is? Can't we both appreciate that, without it being a deal breaker? And if it is a deal breaker, you should definitly speak up about that.
Several respondents to this question are guilty of committing a Hasty generalization fallacy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faulty_generalization#Hasty_generalization Just because in one incident of a partner cheating they were bi is no justification for treating all bi persons as being a cheating risk. What if you then have a partner who is not bi cheat on you? If your consistent you would then have to right off dating all together.
No because I would have to deal with her being attracted to women as well as men, if she were only attracted to men then her choosing to be with me over any other means that there is less chance that she is going to cheat but being attracted to women also means that chance increases greatly.
Also there is the issue that she might just want to be in a relationship with me for a while but in a year she's going to wake up and decide she wants to go back to women.
Sorry but there's just no point in investing time and energy and emotional intelligence into somebody like that.
Yes, I myself am a bisexual. The way that girl reacted was bad tbh. If she doesn’t want to date him because he’s bisexual, that’s fine I guess. But the fact she was assuming that it would make him more promiscuous or willing to cheat or leave her was very ignorant.
I say so also but let me say this if they don't like u then don't wast your time by being upset with them. So yes I love fucking a Man's nice tight ass an getting head from a Man I'm a Man an the thing I want to do yet is to have a Man an a Women in bed with me at the same time an let them both suck my dick then fuck one after another in the ass then make him suck my dick again then fuck her pussey from behind then make both suck my dick again an keep repeating this all over again time after time. God Bless
Sure. I don't care who you like so long as you don't cheat on me. I'm also open to threesomes or my partner doing something but letting me agree to it before.
Well my fiancé is bisexual so I think that speaks for itself. I don’t have an issue with it because them being bisexual changes nothing. They’re still the same person as they were before I found out they were bi.
I agree with your premise - I think some people believe being bisexual increases the chance of cheating or getting an STI twofold - As you said we are all individuals who hopefully fall in love and there will always be a group who are morally inferior who will cheat, sleep around possibly catching something whether they are straight , gay or bi.
I have been in relationships with bisexual women. They way that all three explained themselves was: men are for relationships, other women are for fun. All three were turned on by having an audience, so more often than not I was invited to watch and, occasionally, join in. I always 'finished' her after the other female/s left. So, from a male point of view, I do not have a problem with bisexual females.
I want to date a straight girl. I dont want to be dating a girl that would come up to me one day and tell me”hey, listen i think i have to break up as i realised that Jessica’s boobs are way bigger than yours. And her genitals ain't sagging like yours, and yeah she is prettier than yo hairy ass...🤯
It's a bull question, sorry. If he's monogamous then this isn't an issue (outside of kinks which is personal). If you are wondering if it is socially acceptable for polyamory I don't know. If you are cool with it and they both are more power to you.
Here's the deal though, if he does go for a third party. You need to be able to do the same. If he is not cool with that, then he doesn't consider you his equal. Which I would then kick bricks.
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