Its sexist, but for some reason I'm ok dating a woman who has sex with other women, but I'm the only guy she fucks. Same for cheating spouses. If my wife kissed another woman, Id be upset, but not nearly as much as if she kissed another man.
Guess its the thing between my legs doing the thinking on this one.
I married one!!! Seriously though, Bisexuality is just a description of WHO a person can be attracted to, not an indicator of their lifestyle choices, so I can not figure out why someone WOULDN'T date a bi.
A bisexual partner is fine by me as long as she truly does love me I would allow her to be in another relationship as well as mine but it can't be another guy and I have to be completely sure the other woman is safe
Maybe. Its definitely not my preference. If she is open about finding women attractive aswell it would feel kind of like there is something that im lacking if you understand what I mean. Its like im not enough for her and there will always be something I can't do to please her other sexual need
Tough question. Already having trust issues, I honestly don’t think I could handle it. My late husband didn’t cheat but he lied about EVERYTHING!!! So for the time being, I’d have to go with a no.
NOPE Id prefer a heterosexual woman. It does seem like Bi-women are trending these days. But a lot of them seem to only date men and profess to be Bi. So I'm not sure how that works.
Yes, I don't see how that's would be a deal breaker? Either I trust her or I don't, that is the deal breaker not who else she might fancy and what they have between their legs.
Not for me... I want to make sure that we are on the same page. I would be friends with someone that’s bisexual but dating them means that you have to be committed to someone that has more love interests.
No F'ing way. Just hint of it and I'm gone. Sex is a choice and who you decide to lay down with is a choice. People who are blind to that fact are just fools.
Yes I would, however we would have to come to an understanding at the beginning of the relationship as to wether she would be committed to only me or if she was going to be seeking other females while she's with me.
No I would not. I know several biseuxal girls, they would not be candidates for dating. Which is why they have both been single for a long time. Im sure they want a girlfriend, then when they have it they want a boyfriend, etc.
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I have before, but while she never cheated on me, there was always this thing like, she was missing the other gender. It was unspoken, but it was there
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Tbh I don't know I get insecure with bi guys. They love to say they are over and over and I'm like okay? Does that mean you're still looking? I don't think you should be parading that around and rather be looking at only me?
@TheLittleInnocent Yes. I will feel lied to, led on, and to top it all off severely turned off. I would. And you have to say it, or you’re no better than a trap.
Because this is an extremely important thing. Your sexual preferences and lifestyle are extremely abnormal (compared to most of the population), therefore you are absolutely obligated to let someone know.
@TheLittleInnocent I mean they are uncommon. Abnormal has connotations I didn’t mean. However, your take on whether you should say or not IS abnormal, and selfish at that.
Bisexual lifestyles are common tbh I don't think there really is such a thing as bisexual lifestyles ur sexuality doesn't define everything about u and which connotation did u mean this time
Lol now I'm confused... you've lost me (≧▽≦) I thought we were talking about why u would feel lied to or led on... u said coz its an important thing to tell a Bisexual's preferences and lifestyle are abnormal u said u meant abnormal as in uncommon I'm telling u sexuality doesn't define entirely who you are and how u live buh now u talking about the amount they take up in the population... what exactly are u trying to say coz am lost (-ω- )
Being in the lifestyle we see a lot of bi men and their women seem to enjoy the fact their bi How ever outside the lifestyle I feel that being a bi or gay male is looked down upon far more that a bit or gay female
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Its sexist, but for some reason I'm ok dating a woman who has sex with other women, but I'm the only guy she fucks. Same for cheating spouses. If my wife kissed another woman, Id be upset, but not nearly as much as if she kissed another man.
Guess its the thing between my legs doing the thinking on this one.
I married one!!!
Seriously though, Bisexuality is just a description of WHO a person can be attracted to, not an indicator of their lifestyle choices, so I can not figure out why someone WOULDN'T date a bi.
A bisexual partner is fine by me as long as she truly does love me I would allow her to be in another relationship as well as mine but it can't be another guy and I have to be completely sure the other woman is safe
Maybe. Its definitely not my preference. If she is open about finding women attractive aswell it would feel kind of like there is something that im lacking if you understand what I mean. Its like im not enough for her and there will always be something I can't do to please her other sexual need
Tough question. Already having trust issues, I honestly don’t think I could handle it. My late husband didn’t cheat but he lied about EVERYTHING!!! So for the time being, I’d have to go with a no.
NOPE Id prefer a heterosexual woman. It does seem like Bi-women are trending these days. But a lot of them seem to only date men and profess to be Bi. So I'm not sure how that works.
me neither, so Im there too :)
Yes, I don't see how that's would be a deal breaker? Either I trust her or I don't, that is the deal breaker not who else she might fancy and what they have between their legs.
Yeah. Doesn't mean she's going to cheat just because she likes women as well - That has to do with her character.
Yes, dont judge sumone for what they like, but for who they are
As long as he's loyal to me I do not know why it should matter. But it could be fun to watch movies together and babble about hot looking actors 😅😂
Not for me... I want to make sure that we are on the same page. I would be friends with someone that’s bisexual but dating them means that you have to be committed to someone that has more love interests.
No F'ing way. Just hint of it and I'm gone. Sex is a choice and who you decide to lay down with is a choice. People who are blind to that fact are just fools.
Yes I would, however we would have to come to an understanding at the beginning of the relationship as to wether she would be committed to only me or if she was going to be seeking other females while she's with me.
No I would not. I know several biseuxal girls, they would not be candidates for dating. Which is why they have both been single for a long time. Im sure they want a girlfriend, then when they have it they want a boyfriend, etc.
I have before, but while she never cheated on me, there was always this thing like, she was missing the other gender. It was unspoken, but it was there
Tbh I don't know I get insecure with bi guys. They love to say they are over and over and I'm like okay? Does that mean you're still looking? I don't think you should be parading that around and rather be looking at only me?
Eh, I'm bisexual.
All I can say is that US society is A LOT more open to the idea of women being bi than men.
@TheLittleInnocent Yes. I will feel lied to, led on, and to top it all off severely turned off. I would. And you have to say it, or you’re no better than a trap.
But yo... if a person was straight but they didn't tell you they were straight would u still feel the same... If not why so
They wouldn’t date you if they weren’t attracted to you. As for me, if a woman was straight and didn’t tell me, I’d assume she was straight.
Another question... why would u feel lied to or led on if they didn't tell u
Because this is an extremely important thing. Your sexual preferences and lifestyle are extremely abnormal (compared to most of the population), therefore you are absolutely obligated to let someone know.
What do u mean they are abnormal (゜-゜)
@TheLittleInnocent I mean they are uncommon. Abnormal has connotations I didn’t mean. However, your take on whether you should say or not IS abnormal, and selfish at that.
Bisexual lifestyles are common tbh I don't think there really is such a thing as bisexual lifestyles ur sexuality doesn't define everything about u and which connotation did u mean this time
I just meant it’s not common. You don’t see it often. 85-95% of the population is solely heterosexual, so you can’t say they’re common.
Lol now I'm confused... you've lost me (≧▽≦) I thought we were talking about why u would feel lied to or led on... u said coz its an important thing to tell a Bisexual's preferences and lifestyle are abnormal u said u meant abnormal as in uncommon I'm telling u sexuality doesn't define entirely who you are and how u live buh now u talking about the amount they take up in the population... what exactly are u trying to say coz am lost (-ω- )
Being in the lifestyle we see a lot of bi men and their women seem to enjoy the fact their bi
How ever outside the lifestyle I feel that being a bi or gay male is looked down upon far more that a bit or gay female
Maybe... if she leaves her hands away of my other girls