Would you date someone who is bisexual?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The younger me used to say hell yes. But when I seriously questioned my motives I realize it was purely out of self serving sexual fantasy. I just wanted a girlfriend who could tell me about her sexual escapades with other women and/or open the potential of doing a 3some. I didn’t even consider it cheating if she messed around with another girl just as long I knew about.

But in retrospect I was being very selfish, naive and immature. All the porn I watched over the years had warped my mind (I quit this and am in a recovery group for it now).

In reality I would have a lot more to worry about dating a bisexual. They have a lot more temptation all around them. That doesn’t mean they are incapable of being loyal but still the it’s unnerving knowing they have many more options vs a truly hetero woman.

They could easily make seemingly platonic “friends” with another woman and being doing more then that behind my back. And the biggest threat would be if the other woman seduced her, poisoned her mind and ultimately took her away from me.

There is a really old story on GAG (can’t find it but it’s out there) how an engaged young woman who got involved with lesbians and it almost cost her entire marriage. Her fiancé did everything right too. He saved himself for her and their marriage.

Anyway I could still date one but if it was a full on committed relationship I would be on guard. I would express my concerns early on too.

sawno · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I don't have a problem with it at all. In the relationship i'd be open to a threesome if she needed to experience sex with a girl, but I would not be open to her having sex with others without me. As long as she's fine with that I don't see it as a problem at all.

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Oh, Hell No! Bisexual is a sexual preference, If a guy “also” prefers having sex with men AS-MUCH-AS women, then WHY would I EVER enter a relationship with him? I don’t have a penis! Sooner or later he’s gonna miss sucking cock, and cheat on me!
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He was likely NEVER bisexual in the first place!

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

Of course. Same rules apply to anybody Im going to date, as long as they're into me, and we're exclusive.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I married a bisexual woman and she cheated on me with another woman. Never again.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I prefer heterosexual men.

Account · Answer

It makes no difference.

meepmeeperton · Answer

Well, my girlfriend is sort of bisexual but doesn’t necessarily put a label on it. In my case she’s very loyal and monogamous, she won’t cheat on me with a woman or want a threesome or anything like that. But I understand she feels some sexual attraction to women, but to be honest I would much rather have that than her lusting over other guys. She also knows I don’t really like the LGBT politically but she’s not into politics.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Half the people on this site claim to be bi-sexuals. It's probably more like 3/4.

Curiositygotmehere · Answer

It’s difficult when you don’t know from the beginning of the relationship and get to make your own decision.. waiting 12 years later asking to hold his hand while he gets bent over and plowed by a guy is extremely difficult to deal with.. of course he doesn’t care about what he’s causing you it’s all about him and that’s when it’s a no for me..

alice55 · Answer

No, because I would not be bale to see him as a man anymore.

matchrestore · Answer

I'm married to a bisexual woman, and am bisexual myself

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nope considering gay men always catch the worst stuff since they don't wear condoms, no thanks.

just_a_potato · Answer

Well as a bisexual woman, it'd feel kind of odd for me not to be fine with dating other bi people.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Ah fuck, should've clicked already am. I'm bi, 2/3 of my partners are also bi and the last is heteroflexible.

NathanDavis · Answer

already have pretty much as good and as great as my previous relationships with straight women

Kelly6 · Answer

@extraterrestrial1999 I'm married and I'm bisexual too

patrick994 · Answer

Yes of course, as long as she is faithful to me, likes me on the whole and fulfils all my kinks in bed;

mrkdvsn · Answer

Back in my 80's dating years, I would've been very open to dating a female bisexual, of any skin color. But now, with my current marriage status, I can't see myself dating anyone, even if my wife passed away

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I did without knowing it, back in my mid-twenties. I found out years later.

BTigers96 · Answer

I would consider it, especially if I got to watch or join. 😁

RebelinSteel · Answer

I have before, no difference to dating a straight girl. It’s simply you and her.

Aubrey97 · Answer

Haven't before that I'm aware of but it would be fine

smahala1991 · Answer

My ex girlfriend was bisexual so she said, but never acted on it when I suggested bringing in a third woman for fun, although she had before with previous partners

RavVid · Answer

That would mean I have to watch everybody. More work.

dolemite58 · Answer

I would when I was younger but now that I’m older I don’t need drama or bs around me. Anytime a girl adds that she’s bi into the mix it means her body count is huge and 9/10 that her craziness is on another level.

HighValue · Answer

I don't want to deal with a person like that. I'm sure they would be liberal too.

paledreams · Answer

Nah. The chicks might though, that's on them however 👀👀👀😐

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I would hope for a threesome with one of her friends

36FS45 · Answer

Yeah, as I'm bisexual myself there would obviously be no issues

DrPepper12 · Answer

Bisexual is fine. Just like body count its irrelevant because they are you're present and future.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would but I'd want her to be open and honest with her sexual endeavors.

Jerre · Answer

Yes I would. Lot more fun when I have a FMF 3-sum.

XxXoXoXxX · Answer

I hate it when people feel they need to hide their sexuality from their partners, its heartbreaking really..

Wqeee · Answer

Fuck no that’s gross. I hate bisexual women.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes already have

Nikki1989 · Answer

Obviously, why wouldn't I?

RobT312 · Answer

Yeah im bisexual so i can appreciate it

MemeSupreme · Answer

sounds kinda cool ngl

midnightmoon05 · Answer

No. I would not want to.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I already do.

LordMadara · Answer

duck and dive

christheman1 · Answer

Don’t see why not

clampfan101 · Answer

If she was Christian, yes.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

For fun, sure, but not for anything more.

ChinaGrove · Answer

Sow your wild oats when you are single

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Ummm…no.

Anonymous · Answer

Been there, done that, never again.

QuietRunner · Answer

of course her friend might join us

loveslongnails · Answer

Already do.

MK1997 · Answer

Yes I am too

Anonymous · Answer

Nope

Dongie · Answer

Yes.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No..

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