Literally the same thing happened to me. It took 15 years and 3 kids but still found out she lied about us. Found out that I was a tool to move out of her moms house. She tried to “love” me because I was a great guy but in the end it was not enough. Learn from us and stay away.
She got the nerve to leave after I made a successful company that she could steal from. So if your going to try make sure you stay a loser so they can’t use your success to get someone else.
Quick note: while yes, what those women did to both you were extremely shitty, not all bi people will cheat and are not "more likely" to cheat because of their sexuality.
@myassisiconic Okay, that is your opinion.
But the chances of betrayal double. That can't be denied!
@Desconhecida ya, here is the way I see it. When you give up your principals and look to others to social define you it’s only a matter of time before they become a god and don’t see others as useful. Also look at the culture around bi and even gay people. Sexual promiscuity is ramped and supported, to the point that a lot of them feel useless or unwanted leading to suicidal behaviors. It’s really sad how people are supported in bad behaviors all the way to feeling lost and then left there without help.
Seriously, that's not the point here.
@Desconhecida well we are explaining why we would not date a bi, so I sent that the point? Or is it that you don’t like our answers that you say that?
I don’t mind your opinions, I think your arguments are a bit extreme though. It's a simple reason of insecurity regarding to be cheated on, not prejudice. Stop being so dramatic.
@Desconhecida lol like I said in the beginning it takes time to see nature. It always plays out if you stick around long enough. I am telling thoughts that care how to save time. Don’t be like me and wait 15 years trying to fix someone when you can find someone that actually loves you.
Thanks for the advice.
@Desconhecida If I marry a woman who is heterosexual and she is happy with me, I can satisfy her sexual needs and desires. If I marry a woman who is bisexual and she feels the need to have sex with another woman, I can't do anything to satisfy that need. So she feels tempted in ways that a heterosexual woman would not be tempted.
@OlderAndWiser my thoughts exactly
Yeah that’s the ugly truth. A immature part of me gets turned on if a girl is bi. But the mature part of me knows the very real danger of that happening.
Twice the chance? How the fuck did you get that.
@Kisama there are more people out there to tempt you. That’s not to say bi people can’t be loyal. But the risk is definitely much higher. Also with all due respect the bisexual women I’ve met in the past are usually more promiscuous in general. I know me saying that pisses you off but for real that’s what I’ve observed.
@Kisama no need to curse. It's only my opinion - one person. You should respect that. I'm sorry if it offends you but that's how I'd feel dating someone who is attracted to both genders. It's challenging not to feel insecure.
'More people to tempt you' according to whom? On individual basis, it varies from person to person. Here's a reasonable argument, female lack the biological component to give them that sexual drive nearer to that of a man. So could this logic be applied? Not really. It differs. The chances of one cheating is dependent on countless of variables, your observation - or anecdote - is utterly useless in statistical point of view.
@Kisama I know this gets under your skin because you don’t want people thinking that way about you. I am sure there are plenty of loyal people and plenty of promiscuous straight people. But I form my opinions by logic (bi people can do it with both genders) and my own past observations. Nothing against them. Hell a part of me is really turned by bi woman to be honest. However for long term I need to factor this in. I can’t afford to be naive because I’ve been cheated on before and it absolutely sucked. I also believe that another woman could be better at poisoning my gf’s mind against me. It would be more sneaky too because I would think they are just friends when they hang out. However that’s just my and @Desconhecida opinion. It’s not “homophobic” but we got to guard our hearts as well.
*loyal bi people
The premise that women have less sexual drive than men is so ironically untrue. I have a super high sex drive. There's always exceptions to the rule @Kisama even if you don’t like it.
@DesconhecidaIn other words, the point you're trying to make is so insignificant that it doesn't even support your argument. Woah, what a surprise.
@globetrotter22I'm not arguing out of personal belief- that would only make my argument subjective and not objective. You form your opinions on logic? You can anecdotes logic?
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Jokes on you you’re already boring and lame 😆
I still love bisexual women more