Girls, What can I do if I hate women, for example I don't think it's fair that they have height standards?

[Anonymous]

It's a double standard, before you insult me and call me incel put yourself in a situation, most women are short, imagine being rejected by 90% of men for not being at least the same height, men approach short women but women do not approach short men. I don't mind women having superficial standards, but... height? what does height have to do with attractiveness? Why does man have to be the taller in the relationship? Women justify this by Sexual dimorphism... but if a man wants a beautiful woman who is prettier than he is, that's fine? For Sexual dimorphism the majority of women are more attractive than men, even men's standards are more affordable, I am not saying that it is wrong for women to be superficial but you can change your attractiveness, your style, body, face but you can't change your height... it is also hypocritical that women are the ones who wear heels if it is the men who have to be taller

[btbc92]

Um, the real question is WHY are you chasing after women you don't know and have a height preference? Why are you concerned with such women? Look to women who don't see your height as a problem. It's not really superficial standards, but for most women, we cannot be physically attracted to have sex with them because, for most, it would be like kissing and having sex with a little brother or god forbid a child. Men don't necessarily have to be taller, but he should at least be a few inches taller, no more than 4 around her height. It feels more romantic and comfortable on our level. Now some like my mother may not care, but even she pointed out about there would be problems with intimacy with my father. And yes, down there too.

I say the problem is the misguided intent with the questions at hand. If you want somebody who is physically attractive for the sake of it, then yes, your shallow. It doesn't matter if its a man or a woman. BUT when it comes to intimacy, height, weight, and personal health and hygiene is an absolute MUST. It shouldn't be the first thing you see to make such judgments. I at least let a shorter guy down politely that there is no way it can be. Remember that men have standards of height and breast size and butt size too. Should we then get into that conversation? I just would never be involved with somebody with that mentality.

[Asker]

But then you are confirming to me that evidently the man has to be taller and a man shorter than the women he finds is screwed.

[btbc92]

No. What I am saying is that if a man who is shorter has issues with women around him, he should go to a place where there is no issue.

[Asker]

One doesn't usually know where are issues and where are not

[btbc92]

No, because more than half of you are so focused on petty things you don't use your time in singleness to evaluate who you are as a human being. If you don't even know yourself, how can anybody else know you? The only ones who would probably know you are your biological parents or those who raised you. But that's about it.

[SHEKNOWS]

Honestly I agree with you it's pretty fucked up and it casts women in an extremely shallow light. It's actually my pet peeve to see girls shorter than me (5'5") with giants it's like dude wouldn't it be easier from a man's perspective to date tall women so as not to fuck his neck up over the years of kissing? Also, it would make more sense to date an average height guy as a short girl.
However, I think assertive short girls tend to want to feel more feminine by dating taller men.
I also think tall women have it pretty rough, not many men want a tall lady.

[thegirlfromthething]

Being tall makes guys seem more physically masculine, like having a deep voice or facial hair. And beauty standards, even hypocritical ones, are a pretty weak reason to hate someone. Try to keep things in perspective.

[Asker]

i understand but 99% of women are always about height, men dont have eugenics height standards on women

[ShellyShocked]

Peter dinklage fucks, your problem ain't height related.

[Asker]

I really love Tyrion but he pays the girls, and he is a Lannister, a noble... imagine the story if he was a commoner instead

[ShellyShocked]

So pay like he does then. Quit being a commoner.

[ChronicThinker]

Therapy.

[Asker]

Therapy dont change that 90% of women say they never date a man shorter than them. And that doesn't usually happen the other way around, men don't care so much if a woman is taller or shorter if she is attractive