Girls, what can I do to improve my attractiveness?

[themoz]

This probably violates some rule on this board but I don't know why I have so little success in online dating.

In person I get it. I'm not a partier. My personality is low key and I hate showing off. I'm horribly shy about asking people out.

But online I dont. You think that venue would be perfect for someone like me. I'm not even that picky. My only rule is she can't weigh more than me. I still haven't got many matches in months on multiple dating apps.

I think I have on paper what most women are looking for. I'm tall (6-2), athletic, have a good job and career making 6 figures with an MBA, have a good amount of hobbies and into volunteerism (not for getting anyone lol. These are passion projects for me), and can even whip up a good meal or joke. The only real knock is my lack of hair, but I think I pull off the bald look OK.

So either I'm a* ugly or I'm doing something horribly wrong. If I am really ugly, do I need cosmetic surgery? I'm toning myself even more to get a 6 pack and then bulking back up. I don't know if that's the difference maker. Example photo in the post (took a couple hrs ago)

[jennifer_bloom]

The only thing I can think is that your outfit is bright and does not match your hair colour and also that having a serious face will attract more woman. You have a friendly face, so wearing darker colours will make you look more focused and meditative.

[Nye221]

I would recommend trying out a different style, like the men who wear comfy slacks with nice button up shirts or nice sweaters? Facial hair also makes a huge difference. Next time you shape up your beard, try out a different style. And for my last tip, I think you might be able to pull off a good hat (not because you're bald but because it seems like you can actually pull off a good hat).

[TrueConfection]

That's a terrible angle for a picture. You should get someone to take your photo when you're smiling naturally.

[AsaKyo]

Just keep taking showers and smelling good and you'll be fine

You don't look bad anyway

[Anonymous]

You look nice already sir.

If you want to try something different, you can also try a trimmed beard or clean shaven.

[Anonymous]

First step, lose the facial hair.