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I used to have a Girls ask Guys account in high school when I was just a confused little teen asking about my crushes. I felt like at the time it was mostly other confused teens and young adults trying to figure out what feeelings were. but that was an old account thar I have abandoned and forgotten how to login

I created this burner account to ask about my current social and some past mistakes but I feel like this site is a lot more toxic then it was 4-6 years ago. that's not to say it was great then. There were people asking for nudes or spilling there messy abusive relationships. but now this site seem more politized and angry. There are constant post on how feminism ruined everything or how every girl is a moody lying slut. there are very thinly veiled post about gender roles and society that try to pretend they're just about dating advice.

I know this kinda content isn't just on G@G, I always seen this on Youtube, Reddit and any densely male populated site. I also noticed that most of the replies to questions are more male. even on very popular questions. this entire place feels like I'm on r/redpill or r/askreddit or r/amI theasshole

I just feel like men have gotten angrier in general but I can especially see it on this site. I am wondering if it's the kinda of content I've been engaging with or if this is what everybody sees.

I'm currently on Match. The reason being around here "pickings" are slim. By this I mean drug abuse, alcoholism, welfare, cheating, etc. is quite common. It's a small very low-class town. I went on one date with a local & even that one date indicated he had a controlling persona.

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Now I work in medical & during COVID was insanely busy - I was overseeing not one but two pharmacy/clinic combinations - and there was also the fact that my gym closed down so exercise was more or less nonexistent.

I put on some weight but I am in the midst of taking it back off. And when I can hike for 2-3 hours a day on the weekend it won't take me long come the summer to do that.

My question is, should I wait until fit to rejoin Match or any online dating site? Or should I include something in my bio & let men decide?

The reason I ask is I am actually quite attractive - was approached in university by a modeling company - when I am fit & I don't want to be approached solely on looks. My cousin tried match & she found most of the men who approached her on looks to be boring dullards with little to offer except bank accounts.