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Did I do the right thing?
Long story short I basically moved/ran away from my home state. I moved to Arizona for all of what I think is the right reasons; without telling most of the people "connected" to me. Before I left Atlanta I invested a...
Arias
Xper 4 Age: 39 How should you feel in a relationship?
I’m a 20 year old female who hasn’t had many relationships and the few I have had have not lasted very long. When I was a child I didn’t have parents who were affectionate or even pretend to like each other (most of the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Not sure what to do anymore?
With the way things these days, I find it very difficult to pursue relationships. I was told that I used to go after girls without a problem. Currently, I find it very difficult and just tired of being rejected and used...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I make him regret and come back?
Me and this one guy younger than me were talking for about 2 weeks. We liked each other a lot and he’s the one who liked me. We stopped talking because he said he lost interest and didn’t want a relationship but he said...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer
Exotic Dancers Are performers, like any other dancer/performer. Despite popular belief, they are not sex workers of any kind. While there are some cases of dancers who will accept offers for more, the majority do not. For...
How do I move on from someone who says he has to work through his issues without an emotionally romantic attachment?
We only dated for 2 months, no sex. He was very attentive and quick to respond to messages and initiate conversations. He told me that he was looking for long-term, and when we talked about apps, said that hopefully we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this a good sign?
Long story short, started seeing this guy couple of weeks ago and we got very passionate too quickly; we didn't have sex (he respected my wishes) but we would make out for hours. Very intensely. And he was very...
Anonymous
(36-45) She didn’t seem that keen when I asked her to become officially my girlfriend?
Hi, I have been seeing a woman almost every week for the past 4 months but texting daily and recently calling her daily to wake her up. I met her at a singles event, so we are both looking for something. The reason why it...
jazza96
Xper 5 Age: 29 My tinder date says she’s not looking for a relationship right now (over text) a few days after we had casual sex. What next?
After we hooked up, I refrained from texting her as I didn’t want to come on too strong. I was hesitant but I reached out to her a couple days later saying it would be nice to see her again. She messaged back saying “I...
superchicken21
Xper 2 Age: 28 I'm afraid to date? How do I overcome it?
I don't know how to get over this feeling but I believe it's relationship anxiety or commitment issues. Whenever it feels like things are starting to progress in the beginning stages of getting to know each other but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why am I so scared to date again?
I’m not young by any means and this is pretty embarrassing. But I was in a 3 year long relationship with someone I really cared about. Prob more than I should of. He cheated over and over again with the same girl. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) How would you handle this?
I joined Meetup groups during the pandemic to stay sane. I like languages so I joined one called Chinese Tea and Culture where I live. It was fine at first when the group online. The director and his wife met in person...
Amy10223
Yoda Age: 69 Is it normal to get into a relationship with someone you’ve never really had a crush on?
[18F] Im in a Relationship as of now, its the first one I've been in I dont like this guy to the extent that id get nervous around him. he's my type but there's not much spark. He still looks good to me. He talks and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Interview with a vampire: Feminism and gender from the male perspective, featuring a guy who thinks this all "sucks".
For most of my previous MyTakes on here I have focused on what I thought were injustices in this world when it came to gender equality. After my last recent few articles, I realized that it didn't really have the full...
Ez-Bri-Z
Editor Age: 46 What makes you feel more disrespect for myself with having a learning disability?
Hi, my name is Candace and here to talk about what I find disrespect online and offline . We shouldn't judge a book by a cover for people with a learning disability they all have to tell their story. If people just listen...
CandaceSims201
Xper 4 Age: 27 How do you get over a relationship where you clearly cared deeply about each other but want different things?
It’s in reference to an old relationship that I never quite got over. We were both in our early twenties at the time, but he wanted an open relationship and I wanted to be monogamous (for those who saw my question about...
silvermoon84
Yoda Age: 42 Should I give up on wanting marriage?
I desperately need help because I’m in a crisis to the point I’m crying on a daily basis. I’m 25, a virgin, have never been in a relationship or talked to guys. I originally promised myself that it’s best to stay single...
Anonymous
(25-29) Boyfriends who stare at other girls around their girl?
my boyfriend &I went on a break a while back &then we got back together as this was the plan. we went on the break because before it happened I did not trust my boyfriend due to his overwhelming habit of lying. I don’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) The difficult first love of a teenager :) Just a basic vent where I let out my emotions. Thanks for listening/reading.
There is this guy that I really like, but he has a lot of strugles and things going on in his life. He flirts with a lot of different girls, but that's like his personality. I have been talking with him for 9 months and...
LaureenVO
Xper 7 Age: 21 The ugly brother
In middle school I would always get made fun of the way that I look because of how big my head is and it did not stop till I graduated from middle school. Any name you can think of I’ve heard it all. Cartoons and movies....
Relux47
Xper 6 Age: 31 