Hi, I have been seeing a woman almost every week for the past 4 months but texting daily and recently calling her daily to wake her up. I met her at a singles event, so we are both looking for something. The reason why it has taken so long to become official is that our city was in lockdown so we could only do simple walking dates. But since we are out of lockdown, we have been going on proper dates together and have had fun together. We have kissed once.
About 6 weeks ago, we have spoken about what we want and how our relationship will progress into the future. We also told each other our ages. I am 25M and she’s 38F. We both agreed that we should take it slow and go on a few proper dates when lockdown was lifted. And since we are out of lockdown, we have been going out properly on fun dates.
To be honest I thought she was thinking we were in a relationship because she has invited me to spend Christmas lunch with her family (I said no because I always spend Christmas with my Family), holding hands in movies and making plans about our financials.
So tonight I asked her if she wanted to make it official and become my girlfriend. She said `Yeah sure’ but then had doubts about the age difference. We didn’t really talk about it any further and we continued about the night like nothing happened… And then when we were saying goodbye I was expecting to kiss but all we did was a cheek kiss and a long hug. To be honest it was 2am and we were both tired but still…
This did not go the way I thought it would...
I am honestly so confused as to whether I have a girlfriend or a friend right now.
What should I do?
About 6 weeks ago, we have spoken about what we want and how our relationship will progress into the future. We also told each other our ages. I am 25M and she’s 38F. We both agreed that we should take it slow and go on a few proper dates when lockdown was lifted. And since we are out of lockdown, we have been going out properly on fun dates.
To be honest I thought she was thinking we were in a relationship because she has invited me to spend Christmas lunch with her family (I said no because I always spend Christmas with my Family), holding hands in movies and making plans about our financials.
So tonight I asked her if she wanted to make it official and become my girlfriend. She said `Yeah sure’ but then had doubts about the age difference. We didn’t really talk about it any further and we continued about the night like nothing happened… And then when we were saying goodbye I was expecting to kiss but all we did was a cheek kiss and a long hug. To be honest it was 2am and we were both tired but still…
This did not go the way I thought it would...
I am honestly so confused as to whether I have a girlfriend or a friend right now.
What should I do?
