Is it normal to get into a relationship with someone you’ve never really had a crush on?

[Anonymous]

[18F] Im in a Relationship as of now, its the first one I've been in

I dont like this guy to the extent that id get nervous around him. he's my type but there's not much spark. He still looks good to me. He talks and cares about me, he makes me happy sometimes and secure. He also has a promising future and he compliments me, wants to get to know me and respects my boundaries, most questions i ask he gives the right answer to and he wants a future together, we’re still in the honeymoon phase

Its just i dont have this obsession i usually do with guy i like. Is it normal.

I genuinely think he's a good guy i dont wanna breakup over this

[innerman]

I think since girls hardly ever take their shot on the guy they like... they learn to love the one who takes a shot at them
Give it time

[Wise4myage]

Obsessions are not good anyway, so I see no reason for not dating him, because you like him a lot.

[Soleil7001]

Not at all. That is 'lumping together', not relationship