How to get over the fear of being cheated on?

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My first relationship ended with her cheating on me, then we get back together and she cheats with me on her old boyfriend. I'm scared shitless to get into another relationship.. It feels like cheating is the new normal nowadays, and its feels like a "If you can't beat em, join em." Kind of situation.

I honestly would never cheat. I couldnt. But its so easy for people though. How can i ever get over this? If i ever get into a relationship again, and all is good, i still feel like eventually i will get cheated on in the long run.

The stories of couples that were married with children for 15 years and then they get cheated on? I couldnt ever deal with that, i honestly dont know what i would do.

The statistics of cheaters in this world, it just seems like its bound to happen every single time, and im honestly scared shitless. Its the ultimate betrayal, and the worst possible emotional destroying thing that could happen to me.

Like seriously, i want to get married some day, and i want to be able to carry my name into the next generation and have children. But if cheating is so normal then what the fuck is the point?

I wish someone could convince me otherwise, but its just the sad truth. Everyone fucking cheats.
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How to get over the fear of being cheated on?
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