How do you avoid getting cheated on in a relationship?

[pethouse]

[ohsheeT]

This is the best part of a relationship is you will talk to yourself and you ask yourself is this person really for me

And then you ask yourself how much you love that person could you see being with that person for the rest of your life

That's when you smile and say yes
And then in that moment all past relationships come fluttering in.

And you say here we Go again you have to understand a relationship a partnership of any sort is like a deal

You walk into it with everything you own heart soul spirit love passion desire commitment loyal trust

And you set it up on the table they walk in and they sit what they have on the same table

And you make that deal that I will put everything into this to make it work and they make the same deal

Knowing in your heart just because you're putting your part into it doesn't mean at any moment time of the day night week year that they might change their mind something might happen and they stray away you have no control that you have no power over that there's nothing you can do you have to accept it

And each and every day you give your part you do your best and at the end of the day there's love compassion and growth

But you have to remember when you make that deal it's a deal with two people and all it takes is one person to get caught up in something else and that whole Joe goes sideways

So it's basically you're taking a Gamble it's basically you believe in that person deep enough that you trust them and you just hope it all works out because honestly that's all you can do there's nothing else if it happens it happens and then you have to deal with that

But you can do anything and everything in the world to avoid it but only from yourself you can't control that other person the reason why you like them so much is because they make good choices sometimes they don't

So I say the only way to avoid it is going there with everything on the table and live that day live that way everyday doing the best you possibly can giving the best of you of yourself of your heart your soul your spirit your mind and do your part because that's all you have control of and if something happens you have to accept it right then and there there's no yes answer but you just drop it off accept it and then you make a choice my choice would be to walk I've been through so much crap watch too much crap seem too much crap to even deal with it I just walk because there's just too much other drama that comes with it but do your best is all I can say at least you know in your heart you gave your 100% and more

[BadApple69]

You can't avoid it.


Just be the best person you can be. Be the best boyfriend/husband.
Listen to the woman in your life, but not just with your ears… with your heart. The things that bother her aren’t always spoken… learn to read body language. If you sense a problem stop what you are doing no matter how important and talk with her.
Understand that what makes perfect sense to you can be gibberish to her, and Vice versa. Do your best to understand. Communications is key!


If it happens, be forgiving…. It doesn’t have to be the end.


Good luck!

[Turia]

There is inherent risk the moment you decide to enter a relationship. You don’t have any control what your partner does ultimately. However, certain things you can do is (this list isn’t exhaustive):

- Before entering the relationship, listen closely to how they spoke about all their ex’s. Was the other always to blame? Ask tough questions.
- Have then go through the vetting process with those whom you trust the most that can discern and ask tough questions. Then listen to what those loved ones had to say.
- Make sure you both communicate effectively to care for the relationship at all points of the relationship, and don’t build trust blindly by building it too quickly. Take it slow.
- Discuss consequences to cheating before becoming serious. Also define cheating. Cheating may be a non-negotiable for you, but not them. This doesn’t immediately mean they’re a cheater! But it’s important to know where you both stand and don’t change your value based on the other’s view.
- Pursue her even after you have won her! - Most importantly, ensure you have a healthy sense of self before entering any relationship (therapy helps), so you’re not allowing your partner to slowly manipulate you by violating or crossing your boundaries; and you can trust your gut.

[Ms_Facesitter]

There is no guarantee, but taking your time in finding out who you are actually dating and doing what you can to be a worthy partner is all I can think of.

[OlderAndWiser]

Get to know your partner before you start having sex. As soon as it becomes sexual, that is likely to cloud your judgment.

[inhua]

for men, it's by being the best option she has by far

that means taller than all her other options, more handsome than all other options, stronger than all her other options, more wealthier than all her other options etc.

when women cheat it's usually with a dose of superficiality and shallowness added on. don't buy into the notion it's all about emotional connection because it's not

[serious]

There is no clear cut and definite answer to this. You will have to be very alert and watch for even the slightest of signs that may indicate towards cheating.

It is not going to be easy but if you can catch the indications then chances are that you can avoid being cheated on.

[Pacquet]

Getting cheated on is painful but all one can do is learn from their mistakes. People cheat for different reasons so it’s impossible to give a definitive answer but I’d start with be certain about the person you’re getting into a relationship with and communicate as much as possible.

[Anonymous]

By not dating cheaters. Sorry to say, man, but it is that simple. Now the difficult part is determining which woman you meet is a cheater. Because odds are miniscule that she's going to tell you. But if you pay close attention she will show you red flags here and there and you can complete the picture of her, who she REALLY is and then you can get away in time before she does too much damage.

[exitseven]

There is no way you can be 100% sure. The only thing you can do is get to know somebody really well before you get into a serious relationship with them. Then you have to keep your eyes open.

[Fireguy17]

find the right person that doesn't cheat.
There are no guarantees in relationships, you just have to trust your partner.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

cheat on her with someone before she does💅💅💅

[SolitarySolace]

I just don’t have relationships. Because all of the women I choose to have relationships with have all cheated on me.

[jahaims]

You can't and that is a terrible mindset to have. If the only thing stopping someone from cheating opportunity then they are already a cheater.

[Unit1]

By not committing into a relationship. Easy.

[drwine]

I fuck her good. Sorry for being too honest but this is reality.

[Hoopz29]

Be with a good person who has morals and values. Get to know them first before you sleep with them and invest anything in them

[okkidokki]

If someone wants to cheat then he/she will do.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Avoid the type of personalities that cheat.

[aaron210419]

You don't, it happens more than you might think.

[Danael31]

You don't. It just happens.

[Katebfun]

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