Other than not dating at all, are there any ways to avoid being cheated on?

[Flower7]

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Look for someone who has some Christian values

[Flower7]

Very good idea!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Flower7 Thank you, Flower I agree

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thank you for Most Helpful Guy :)

[Shy_Steve]

Try getting to know Guys who are Shy.

[sirderpsalot123]

You can't avoid things that are out of your control. People are going to do what they want. It's easy to say "find a good person", but it takes awhile to really get to know someone. Even when you think you do know someone, you might not know then as well as you think you do.

[Flower7]

That’s so scary!

[sirderpsalot123]

I also feel like saying there is a way to avoid being cheated on, is just making excuses for the person who cheated. If someone has a problem, then they need to speak up about it. You also always have an option to end the relationship. There's never a justifiable reason to cheat.

[Flower7]

Very true!

[SimpleGuy95]

Take a longer time dating like get to know the other person on a deeper level so you get to know what he's looking for because not every guy is interested in an exclusive so to say classic relationship.
That's something Take for granted that everyone is oneday ready to settle down but that not every guy interested in doing so.
So if you date and look for a relationship you should avoid these guys at all costs because you won't change them with anything you do.
Besides that inform yourself about what guys actually look for in a relationship in terms what they desire and expect or you try to get to know that in dating because it could also be a reason for a guy to cheat that he feels like he doesn't get what he wants or needs to feel seen.
Like you could read a book or listen to Podcasts.

[midnightmoon05]

By taking time to get to lots of different people. Get to know their background, friends, values before you give your heart/commit. you never truly know… sometimes it’s a gamble.
trust your instincts, keep your standards, know what you want from a partner. then weed out those who doesn’t fit.

[Starlight007]

it's all about building trust, that's the healthy route otherwise you'll have to stalk your partner, stalk their social media, check their phone, call them to check in every 5 minutes to check up on them, insist on going everywhere with them and turn yourself into an insecure, anxious human being!

[Nonamesbetter18]

May be - be close to one another , trust each other and give enough space for the other person to have the freedom.. but sometimes even that does not work.. people tend to get bored after a while and if an opportunity presents itself they seem to grab it

[NathanDavis]

be with a decent person, that's all...

I've never been cheated on... because I was with someone who had the most basic decency (they were much more than that, of course) does not take much really

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Zero ways. A person that doesn't believe in their heart in exclusive relationship or that they just belong to one person only will cheat if the opportunity presents itself but they need to physically find the man or woman physically attractive with matching their personality and the other person feels the same way about them.

They won't turn down the opportunity because they are in a relationship already in their mind.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Building up a mental barrier that no one can cross across, and making sure to build it around that part of yourself that is most likely to get hurt when you get cheated on.

So that you don't get affected that much if you get cheated on.

[Reaper1985]

hate to say it but a pleasurable sex life between partners where their both able to regularly finish. is often the glue that holds a couple together between the good and bad times. once either starts denying the other or gets bored of the others the relationship slowly falls apart. which is why spicing things up once in a while and keeping an open mind to your partners ideas can help.

[slatyb]

Not really. Anyone can decide to cheat on you at any time. The only thing you can do is to not commit too deeply to a relationship with someone you don't know well.

[Jamie05rhs]

1. Pick a good man.
2. Claim him.
3. Nail him down.
4. Take care of him.
5. Take care of yourself.

(#1 is vitally important, because if you don't have that then none of the others will matter.)

[Flower7]

It seems hard to tell whether someone is a good person or not. Especially if the person lies to make themself appear that way.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Flower7 That's true, unfortunately. I guess that's why you have to do some background research on people.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am. Tease your boyfriend unmercifully and then refuse to let him have intercourse with you, other than for special occasions, etc. A well teased guy will never stray, because he'll be obsessed with you;)

[Berethor]

Make sure that the guy is satisfied.

[ArrowheadSW]

Choose who you date wisely, however that still isn't a guarantee.

[exitseven]

No, like many things in life you have to have faith and trust. No guts, no glory/

[Cubus]

Try to search for specific group of people that are less likely to cheat on you

[one1wild00]

Pick your partner wisely, and make sure all their needs are attended to by you.

[IsoUser]

Find a guy that truly loves you and treats you right.

[clampfan101]

Any good answer would sound too cheesy to believe, but it is possible.

[DonkeyDan]

I guess don't give the other person a reason to go elsewhere, other than that not really.

[Sam_25]

You can't baby... it's all about karma..
It's beyond your control.

Did anyone cheated you baby?

[Flower7]

What does karma have to do with it?

[ChiTown33]

Yeah, pick a faithful guy... but why do the obvious. Lol

[Flower7]

What ways are there to know that?

[ChiTown33]

There isn't. Sorry I wasn't suggesting that the faithful guys are obvious.
But I will say this, the way most women choose guys are to their detriment. You women are generally attracted to most unfaithful guys. Just like us guys are generally attracted to the worst women.

[ChiTown33]

Sometimes I think it'd be best to go opposite of our natural inclinations lol

[athlete_for_lyf]

See how people react. Know them about them from their freinds. Freinds know the darker stuff about the person especially the oldies.

[IsoUser]

You seriously ought to know, I may have been around when Velociraptors roamed the earth Lmao

[Twalli]

Yeah, find a good man/woman. Don't go for the "bad boy" hoping that you are "the prize" that he'll become good for.

[MrTaboo]

Yes, what you SO need? Find it and fill that need, every week, everyday.

[Flower7]

In my experience, the guy was making it seem like everything was fine in the relationship, but then he was cheating behind my back. I was never given the opportunity to correct anything, or to even know what the problem WAS.

[MrTaboo]

Then he was a asshole

[Flower7]

Very true, you’re right about that!

[Guardian45]

Yup, pick wisely. There are worthy candidates out there. The problem is finding them!

[EarthRealm]

Here take my hammer 🔨
If you can hold my hammer 🔨 then you are Worthy of being me

[Guardian45]

Thor?

[EarthRealm]

If you cannot Pick my hammer up then You are not worthy of Having my Power

[Guardian45]

Sounds like King David

[GingerGuy]

Picking the right guy.

[jjj101010]

Live on a dessert island

[KrakenAttackin]

Yeah, don't chase Chad Thundercock.

[msc545]

Not if you are a man