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Hello everyone...
My fiancee and I will graduate next year... yay right haha. In Arab culture, you can't live with your fiancee until marriage, and of course, we won't have sex or even touch each other until marriage too because we are Muslims.

As you can see that getting a decent job after graduation isn't easy and sometimes it will take a while and it may reach one or a couple of years! so what I am trying to say is that it would be hard to collect money and then save it to have a wedding, an apartment and of course a decent monthly salary... by the way the wedding and the apartment would cost me about 6-10 thousand dollars and the income in Yemen is quite low. I am a dentist for the record.

I am 24 years old, and I want to marry my fiancee. The problem now is I should take one of those 2 options...
1- Waiting until I can collect all the money I need and set up everything and make sure I am ready for the next step which by the way will take some years...
or
2- I just prepare for the wedding, set an apartment, and just marry her, and we may face financial issues afterward because I am not 100% ready.
I really want to marry her because we were in a relationship for 4 years!! and I can't even hug her 😢...
So tell me which option you would choose and why...
And girls would marry your fiancee even if he is currently financially unstable? Why?

Just a basic question, in my experience my current girlfriend was talking to another guy behind my back, she was gonna go to a bar party with me for an event but I ended up not being able to go, she ended making a plan to go to a guys hotel room instead & I found out, we fought & we broke up that night & she tried to get back together again the next day, then the same guy invited her to a pre-game Christmas party & she said she was going & I told her I was uncomfortable, they showed up to the same bar together & I beat him up (wasn’t a good idea), she ended up sleeping with him that night (I know because I showed up to her house, they were both in their underpants when I showed up to her house for my clothes I’ve lent her) after the night at the bar. She tried taking me back the next day (& It’s a little gross I was with someone else & got her to answer the phone for me to say I’m busy lol) & I ended up taking her back. She being saying we weren’t together when these things happened for months but I still feel cheated on & betrayed & I don’t know what to do how to approach the situation because she doesn’t let me talk about it & says it’s a long time ago & pushed my feelings about it to the side for half a year & I’m very unhappy with her (but I’m more scared of being unhappy without her). Since the second issue happened I’ve been less committed to her & flirting with other girls & making new relationships (I have not had sex, kiss or physically cheat) because I don’t feel safe or happy in my relationship & she’s trying to tell me that me flirting with other girls is cheating though. I’m just wondering if what she did would be cheating because she says it’s not & expects me to forgive her for it but I don't know how too (& I feel more foolish by the day)?

Is it true that the child always comes first and a man will never be treated with the same attention, sex, and appreciation that single women without children can provide?

She is either single because she was the issue... or she is a single mom because the baby daddy was the issue... and if bsby daddy is the issue isn't a single mom too damaged by love to fully embrace a man in a relationship?