I’m inviting all of the “dark corner of internet” gurus to weigh in here.
Although I am very very selective (albeit picky) and almost all my relationships/escapades were based on extensive and strategic thought... once I make up my mind that I’m attracted to someone, I begin planning some cat and mouse tease scenario to get him, worked up enough to get into heavy touching or bed.
I give the same amount of details to everything else (Likes/dislikes, treats, consistent teasing, support etc) but only after sexual stuff.
I feel like maybe this is wrong 🤷♀️
For example, if I’m into someone or the first date is going well, I have no issue making out, or if it’s really hot, going all the way.
Personally, I think it’s because I’m so picky and there are longggg periods in between relationships or dates, I ease into sexual stuff quickly. I just don’t see sex as a hang up, because it’s a miracle that I even like someone, so obviously I know enough for me to like them🤷♀️
In anticipation of the “those girls aren’t worth it” sayers.. just because I’m easy to bed doesn’t mean I’m easy to keep. I have the beauty, brain, body, and dumb silliness a lot of people are into. But this is why I take so long to find people. It’s boring being approached all the time, and who isn’t cliché and easy to figure out, becomes intimidated or a creep stalker.
what are your opinions on the impact of sexual speed on relationships? And “the easy girl”?
Although I am very very selective (albeit picky) and almost all my relationships/escapades were based on extensive and strategic thought... once I make up my mind that I’m attracted to someone, I begin planning some cat and mouse tease scenario to get him, worked up enough to get into heavy touching or bed.
I give the same amount of details to everything else (Likes/dislikes, treats, consistent teasing, support etc) but only after sexual stuff.
I feel like maybe this is wrong 🤷♀️
For example, if I’m into someone or the first date is going well, I have no issue making out, or if it’s really hot, going all the way.
Personally, I think it’s because I’m so picky and there are longggg periods in between relationships or dates, I ease into sexual stuff quickly. I just don’t see sex as a hang up, because it’s a miracle that I even like someone, so obviously I know enough for me to like them🤷♀️
In anticipation of the “those girls aren’t worth it” sayers.. just because I’m easy to bed doesn’t mean I’m easy to keep. I have the beauty, brain, body, and dumb silliness a lot of people are into. But this is why I take so long to find people. It’s boring being approached all the time, and who isn’t cliché and easy to figure out, becomes intimidated or a creep stalker.
what are your opinions on the impact of sexual speed on relationships? And “the easy girl”?
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