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This girl from bumble I started seeing found me on facebook after a miscommunication. You see, several months ago she hung up on me during our first phone call. Long story short I called her out on it and moved on. She was shocked. The details are complicated. Well, I guess she found me on facebook 2 months ago and sent me a message. I never saw it and didn't reply.

This week, I came across the message. I replied forgetting who she was and thinking it was some long lost relative reaching out. Well... it was her. Ever since I called her out and told her off she has been coming very strong and hard. Like.. very thirsty. Messaging me a lot. Apologizing for what she did.

She has openly admitted to liking me a lot. Now she's admitted that she has:

-Looked at my facebook pictures
-Read my facebook timeline the last few days
-She said she knows that I like to "sex text" because she saw a post I made a few days ago joking about it.

Now she wants to set up all these dates. She wants to know my schedule of when I am available. I joked that I was a "Shy guy turned ladies man". She now has been rather bristled by this and says she doesn't like a man with ego. I just ignored that and said it was just a "fact". Now she's being very aggressive asking about dates. She is asking if I will keep seeing all the ladies. I told her yes until I am officially dating a girl.

Anyway, is this all normal? Is it normal for a girl to want to know everything about a man? To study his social media and try to get a sense of what he's doing in life?

Read the details below before voting on the poll:

• You wouldn't be aware of the fact they don't love you, it wouldn't really cross your mind, when you're in the relationship.
• They'd never cheat on you or flirt with others, unless you agree to an open relationship or allow them to.
• Your potential partner is basically perfect in every way, aside from the fact they don't love you - they still like you as a person, but they won't love you like a partner would.
• As long as you're in a relationship with them, they'll treat you good and you'll be happy with them, 100% guaranteed.
• Before you enter the relationship with them, when they ask you, you'd know they don't love you, but if you agree to be with them, you'll forget about that.

The only catch is, when you're about to die, you'll find out that they never loved you, but did like you as a person - you'll only find that out in the last 60 seconds of your life, so no other catch about either or you dying young or something like that.

I've never been in this situation, as I've never been in a relationship, asked anyone out, nor been asked out. The main reason I'm saying this, aside from the fact that I've got a weird imagination, is because when I think about life, I think a lot of us are all chasing happiness, because I feel like that's the ultimate goal for us and this rather unusual situation came to mind, because of course it will in my brain.

Ultimately, would you take that relationship, if your happiness would pretty much be certain from now until the last 60 seconds of your life or would you just continue your life as usual and see how it goes anyway and if you can, explain the reason for your choice?

I am 33 years old. I am single, multi racial, and non religious.

There is a girl on facebook who is pretty, 32 years old, and a religious catholic who wants to wait to have sex until marriage.

I have a crush on her.

The thing is that we know each other. About 10 years ago we had mutual friends and would be at the same parties and such. We would talk for a little bit but we weren't "close". I went to a different college but we saw each other at parties due to the same network of friends. Does that make sense. So she isn't a complete stranger. We've met and know each other.

On facebook, I am a rather controversial person. I have a tendency to post random thoughts. These random thoughts are philosophical and political. The girl in question has pressed the like button on 20 to 50 of my posts over the last 2 weeks. some of the post have been political statements.

I am also in a rock band. From time to time I post clips of the band practicing or videos of songs I've written on instagram. She likes video clips of me just singing and playing my guitar. Love songs and such. She once commented that I should record one of the songs I've written.

Lastly, I take pictures of the city. She has started liking pictures of those posts as well.

I used to be able to search her on facebook and see the pictures on her profile. As of yesterday I cannot. She continues to like my posts though. Also, she sometimes comments on philosophical posts I make. When I reply she never responds.

What's going on here? Why doesn't she reply to my responses when she makes them? Why is she restrict what I can see on her profile?

I want to ask her out on a date but not if she thinks I am a creepy guy.