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We were dating back when we were in our late teens and we were both in love. Shit happens and drama and we broke up really badly, i moved to an other country etc etc.

There have been a couple of times in the past that she would drunk text me and the next day she would be cold or straight ignore me. In 2019 I went back to visit my family and friends and a mutual friend told me she wanted to pick me up from the airport but he was against it and stopped her.

We talked slightly through social in 2023 since I talk with her brother rather frequently and she was pissed at me cause a girl was flirting me a lot. Most likely she heard about it from her brother.

Fast forward to this year, she suddenly sent me a message in February we had a rather long conversation, we talked about our lives how it is going, she told me about her relationship of eight years and how bad it was etc etc.

Three days ago she sent me a new message and almost right away she started talking about sex and such. I told her that this kind of behavior is stupid and she should be more considerate of her boyfriend, then she told me she broke up with her a few days after we talked on February.

I confronted her about the rather sudden sexual topic and she replied this is the best way to grab the attention of men and I replied yeah if they are desperate, otherwise it feels stupid and I was seriously thinking of blocking her.

The nest day she was asking me to talk on the phone and she was worried I wouldn't want to cause she was drunk last night and she blew it. The call was around thee hours long and she was telling me she liked my straightforward attitude, my humour etc etc.

It was rather fun I have to admit but she was really reserved cause she was worried I would get annoyed and hang up.

The day she sent me a few pics and was trying to revive a dead fb group that we both belong and included me in a post.

That night I sent her a message if she wanted to talk and she was rather distant.

What is going on?

• No one cares who you are or what you think unless you’re super successful/famous
• Don’t forget the nice guy finishes last. Being nice makes you lose at life/women
• Most men are slaves building the world while receiving minimal pay, minimal recognition for skilled work. Like a builder for example, even saying you’re an engineer wouldn’t impress many especially women.
• Most of the things women prioritise in men don’t even make a good person/man - like how much money he has, how tall/muscly he is, how handsome blah blah. Women are evolved to only care for the best specimen of man on the planet
• I myself am baffled how I haven’t managed to find a really nice pretty girl, because I often wonder - what don’t I have? I got it all
• Why do think it’s mostly men that tragically end themselves - because all the cards/odds are against us, the whole game is rigged and too insanely competitive.
• Not to mention, women are empowered whereas men are just toxic masculinity?
• As men we have to go through things on our own. There’s often just no other choice most of the time. Our frustrations and feelings mean nothing and are mostly disregarded and viewed as pathetic weakness. I’ve heard of women lose interest in a man when he cried or showed emotion

Rant over. What do you think? Fair?

I think women get really upset then a couple/few months they’re back to full swing, dating around again and happy.

I think men struggle with it because finding a girl that’s nice to us is rare. I think it takes us much much longer. One reason why I’ve been a bit afraid to date, also because men have to go through things on their own whereas women don’t. Women vent and their girls tell them how amazing they are then they just get over it.