: Did I (22M) ruined the relationship with my (25F) now ex girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Gia and I were dating for 3 years. My birthday was coming up, I asked her if she had a spare phone, since my old phone was not working. Gia had a spare iPhone 11! A couple of weeks after I asked her if she can buy me Machine gun Kelly merch on Amazon, Gia bought it, gave me the iPhone, two Nike hats and a call of duty game for ps5. She later on offered to give me money to buy a new phone, I didn’t want the iPhone, I gave it to my cousin, she doesn’t know. Around February, I asked her to help with my aunts sick cat, Gia only gave me $15, I called her a liar and she started saying that she couldn’t send more. Weeks later I asked her if she can give me money to go to a concert. I told her to talk to men online , act single, so they can give her money. She couldn’t afford 1k. In May, Gia bought me gifts, she bought Nintendo switches for me and my brothers, clothes, a bracelet for the both of us, shoes, video games, etc. By May, she sent them, which was a lie, she didn’t send it, Gia told me she couldn’t pay for shipping.
She found out I commented on a girls picture saying “ I took those pictures🙈” I told Gia that she was dating my brother. Gia found out I was telling her and her friend that I was going to buy them roses , I didn’t have no one, she found out I was still following and liking OF girls on ig, I told Gia she was imagining things. Gia tells me one of the girls said I kissed one of her friends, I told her that they wanted to be with everyone and were h0es. she still didn’t believe me after I told her it was a joke. Gia spoke to them and one of them told her she wasn’t dating my brother , kissed one of her friends , the other girl told her she wasn’t the only one I’ve lied too, I got mad she ruined everything! I told her I rather go with the girl I kissed, if she wanted someone to love her she has to stop being immature. Gia would only send a little amount of money. I asked for $400 dollars to help with my cousins funeral, she couldn’t help me because she lied

[Danielle93]

Are you sure you're 25-29 years old? Even a child would know this is messed up. Honestly, she's just a girlfriend you were dating. It isn't a he's responsibility to give you money, esp for nonsense. In fact, not even a wife will give you money for a concert nor new cell phone. Get your money and pay your ex girlfriend back.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

You're certainly one first class fucking pathetic lowlife parasite. smh

Thank fuck she kicked you firmly into touch.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Lliam]

Based on this story, you are an immature, parasitic, man-boy. You lack character and ethics.

[AI Opinion]

Hey there, sounds like quite the rollercoaster, huh? 😅 From what you're saying, it seems like things got tangled in misunderstandings and maybe some red flags popped up along the way. Relationships thrive on honest communication and mutual respect—it's a two-way street, after all. Focusing on building trust and understanding in your next relationship might lead to a happier ending. Remember, learning from past experiences can guide you toward future success. Good luck! 🌟

[Anonymous]

You’re fucking trash if this is a real story. She’s not your fucking bank! Pay the woman back and apologize