I met a man few months ago. On our first date he mentioned t he was undergoing a divorce last year.
After a month of dating I learned that he's still married and that areason why he didn't fill for divorce was that he's wife is non-EU citizen who is waiting for a for citizenship and divorce would put that at risk. Later I found out that there were also other smaller lies that he told me. I confronted him this time and he apologized. Apart from these problems we didn't have issues, we still had a good connection, there was lot of love and affection in our interactions. He told me that he loves me and introduced me to his friends. He planned to introduce me to his mom. I felt happy, but also anxious, as I could not fully trust him.
I kept pushing him to consult with lawyers if divorce would stop the immigration process. We had several arguments about it, because I pushed him to prioritize this issue.
Recently he started to bring up an idea of a trip and he was showing me quite expensive hotels and suggested that we should split. Until now he was paying for accommodation when we occasionally decided to meet outside of my flat (given that his wife lives with him and we could not meet at his place). I didn't feel comfortable to pay for expensive trip. Later I made up my mind and agreed to go for the trip. He booked a hotel in a reasonable price range and I payed 1/2 of it. At the same time I felt it's not fair that he still supports his wife, he spoiled her in the past and now that he's squeezed, I felt like a "budget girlfriend". It felt like that I'm supporting their family budget, so that he can keep paying allowance his wife. I became even more aggressive about the divorce. I asked him to show me if he's talking to a lawyer and his response was that this is not my business.
I got angry and impulsively blocked him on social media. He got offended and he broke up with me. Tell me please what do you think about this situation? Is this my fault?
