How to keep relationship together after a miscarriage?

[Courtney7u]

My boyfriend and I had an unplanned pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage. I feel like my emotions are all over the place and he has admitted that he has noticed that I have changed. I feel like this might destroy our relationship. How do we fix this?

[Summeroflove]

I’m so sorry for that. Just remember it’s not his fault and don’t take it out on him. Be able to appropriately express emotions. Get professional mental help as well.


If you feel like you need a break for the best of both of you. For yourself as well as for him. Then do what you feel like needs to be done. I wish you the best.

[Staximus]

Of course your emotions are all over the place, you just had a miscarriage. Plus your hormone levels are on a rollercoaster ride from getting pregnant and then not being pregnant, which also effects your emotions. You're just going to have to ride it out for a little bit. Maybe talk to a psychologist or counselor who specializes in miscarriages or postpartum depression issues. I'm not sure if some specialize in miscarriages. Maybe there's a miscarriage support group and some of the women can give you some tips or point you in the right direction.

[bobalife]

🥺 aw I’m so sorry, I think it’s hard because you both are experiencing a loss… you both are grieving on your own and it’s okay to grieve together… don’t let it break your relationship… it’s the time you both need each other the most.

[b_lova]

You recognize that you have gone through a loss but you both fix it by not letting that loss define your relationship. You dwell on the wonderful experiences you have had together rather than lingering on the bad and you ask yourself if you want to make more great memories together.

Also, don't be afraid of seeking out a good counselor together and individually to help you walk through this tough time.

[Zestyassmf1997]

By realizing it’s neither of your fault and that for it to get between you two makes no sense at all.

[jahaims]

Communicate and grieve together