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So me and my ex dated for 13 months. It was a fun but also rocky situation. She had mental issues that I tried to fix and I was bad at communicating my feelings to not make her feel bad.
We broke up about 4 months ago and she got with someone from a Christian dating app because she was lonely and I had to block her for awhile to help myself get over her.
2 months ago I reached out to her and she had a new boyfriend shortly after the break up. She thought he was great because he helped her find Jesus. But he was a very controlling and egocentric person. He even told her to “get off her meds” and Jesus will make her less depressed. They recent broke up because he felt like she was holding him back and he didn’t like how depressed she was.
That whole situation infuriated me because she’s gullible and he was basically just using her as he has no money no car etc. On top of this apparently she still had feelings for me this whole time during their relationship. Hence why I know what I know.
Something deep down is telling me to avoid her and not go back to that. Mainly so she can get through this break up. I’m not desperate in anyway. What we had was special but I’ve been and currently happily single. I am over her but deep down I’m really not.
There’s a lot more in said context but does anyone have any advice on this?
We broke up about 4 months ago and she got with someone from a Christian dating app because she was lonely and I had to block her for awhile to help myself get over her.
2 months ago I reached out to her and she had a new boyfriend shortly after the break up. She thought he was great because he helped her find Jesus. But he was a very controlling and egocentric person. He even told her to “get off her meds” and Jesus will make her less depressed. They recent broke up because he felt like she was holding him back and he didn’t like how depressed she was.
That whole situation infuriated me because she’s gullible and he was basically just using her as he has no money no car etc. On top of this apparently she still had feelings for me this whole time during their relationship. Hence why I know what I know.
Something deep down is telling me to avoid her and not go back to that. Mainly so she can get through this break up. I’m not desperate in anyway. What we had was special but I’ve been and currently happily single. I am over her but deep down I’m really not.
There’s a lot more in said context but does anyone have any advice on this?
What Girls Said
Sounds like a decision only you can make for yourself.
Sure. And ig I'm jus asking what would be best?
No one here can tell you what’s best. You have a lot of mixed emotions going on, and I think the best thing you can do with yourself is sit on this topic for a little bit, do some thinking and see what taking time with this topic does for yourself.
Trust that instinct to keep your distance, because going back now will likely repeat the same cycle. She needs to work on herself without relying on you or another relationship to cope. You can care about her and still choose not to get involved again.
Oh wow she landed a fanatic nutcase... good for her. Will he make her drink coolaid too?
You shouldn't bug her for a relationship because you didn't know what to do with her to begin with... It's just going to be more of the same.