Search Results: getting guys to notice

Is it just me, or is the thought of getting drunk in the wrong setting terrifying? What was your first time drunk like?

So basically I was drunk with my two friends and they could've easily stolen everything I had but they didn’t. I had to pay my friend back for Pizza so I told him where my wallet was and a few hours later, when I wake...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

What am I supposed to do?

So, a few weeks ago I met this guy in a shop. I gave him my snap and we started snapping back and forth. One day he went to a sleepover and I assume he shared my snap with his friends since one of them offered to help me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

He used me, how can I get away?

I was close friends with this guy for over 10 years to the point where I put my full trust in him that someday he's going to ask for my hand (I'm from a culture where arranged marriage is the norme). Years ago he moved to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does this guy like me, or is this a more friendly approach?

I work with this guy, and most the time we’ll work a few days in the week together on the same shift. (Just us on the shift) Well anyways, I can’t exactly tell how he feels and I’ve been hiding my feelings because...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Guy always turns his head my direction when I walk pass/behind him, why?

I've noticed its an almost everyday thing. He is usually in the breakroom when I go on break and when I leave for the night and He always sits in the same seat and table everyday (the one closest to the coat cubbie) so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why do I keep feeling the ick towards the men I try to date?

I didn’t know what it was until today but The ick is basically when someone your dating does/says something that gives you an uncontrollable feeling of cringe towards them. Some reasons for getting the ick could be really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Would this be a could message to send to my cousin?

I already made a similar post but I want to make sure i do the right thing and dont come off as a weirdo. This was over a year ago but I was on Facebook and my cousins wife posted before and after photos of their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Valentine's Day

Reruns When Lacking Valentine Fun

Here is a few films and television episodes that often come on for V-Day. I like to cuddle up on the couch with my basket of Valentine’s Day goodies and watch away. Don’t worry, I brought plenty of “gifs” below for you...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Dating

Help on getting over my boyfriend’ ex?

Hi, lately (past few months) I have been struggling with getting over my current boyfriends’ ex. I feel obsessed, she’s nothing like me except we’re both tall I’m 5’8 and she’s 5’7, she has dark skin and I have light...

Strokes56

Xper 4 Age: 35

Dating

Is it okay to go on dates with people you’re not physically attracted to or don’t see a future with?

I don’t see any harm on going on a date with someone new to get to know them, however, I was also wandering if it’s in any way ‘leading someone on’ if you go out on a date with them? I’m asking because over the...

nocturnalbaby

Xper 5 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

I love my boyfriend but I feel like he doesn't appreciate me? What should I do?

I love my boyfriend a lot, I would honestly do a lot for him. I'm a really caring & generous person, & I feel like I do a lot of little things for him like getting little gifts etc, checking up on him, supporting him in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My friends with benefits is confusing me?

So it was my decision to be casual as he works away a lot out of the country and I didn’t want to get attached, he agreed to be casual too. However I noticed he would try and make me jealous by telling me he had girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Minority Report: What it's like to 'Cruise' around the US and abroad as a minority

At the end of last year, I had written an article using an informal interview with my friend Ari about feminism to add a second point of view to help really bring in more perspectives to MyTakes especially when writing...

Ez-Bri-Z

Editor Age: 46

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Guy's Behavior

Why do men routinely at my jobs over the years including now always constantly sexually harass me?

First they usually start of annoying me or pretending to wanna just be friendly. Yeah ok. I can see the thirst in their eyes half the time. Then they get comfortable and start the sexual harassment. And it never ends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How much notice would you give if you were going to cancel a FIRST date?

I had a date last night, spent a decent amount of time getting ready, and drove to the place to meet up. Once I got there, I checked my phone and had a text exactly one hour before our date from him, saying something came...

Jasmine-Darkfire

Xper 4 Age: 24

Flirting

How do I stop being a jerk to my crushes and just act like a normal girl?

Okay so. This is going to sound so stupid. And it’s a problem I face often. I meet a guy, he’s remotely nice and doesn’t make fun of me, we hang out, I like him, I notice, I start being a jerk. i basically make snide...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Guys, If you got suckered in and taken advantage of via friéndzone bs should you keep quiet about (to not look stupid) or privately admit to someone?

Getting taken advantage of in the friéndzone is similar to falling for a scam. You are the victim but you were also dumb enough to go along with the setup. You hear about people being financially swindled and you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Men don't like big women. Why am I never good enough?

There's a lot better out there. men follow half naked women online. I don't blame anyone for not noticing me, I truly don't. It sucks when your friends are always noticed and talked to and you just sit back and watch...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

This is really upsetting me? Why am I never good enough anymore?

dreams8291

Xper 1 Age: 28

Dating

How to get over the stress of when your date won’t open your message in 24 hours?

I recently met a guy I like and he said he really liked me too. We also went on a date earlier this week and the day after, we he was sending me pics of himself getting vaccinated and making jokes about giving Covid to...

Anonymous

(25-29)