I try to be a really attentive girlfriend, & also give him space, but I feel like maybe my expectations are too high? Like when we hang out, it's sometimes just kind of awkward, he's a really serious guy, not much affection, he's okay w/ just chilling & watching Youtube etc. He likes a lot of alone time & his own space, so he'll kick me out a lot early, kiss me once, and he doesn't really like to cuddle or anything. Think that's just him.
Maybe there's something wrong w me or he's just a mellow guy. For example, every past boyfriend has said how pretty I am etc., or kind, but he's never complimented me once? Like it's just implied, but makes me feel strange. He likes so much space he doesn't really have the drive to be "around" me much. I just feel like he doesn't really "notice" me. I bring up all the time that I can't tell if he likes me, I'm a really funny person but he doesn't like to joke much.
Also, he never really thinks to invite me on trips. He goes with his friends a lot but I never get invited. He goes & does errands by himself all week, & checks in on me, but I think this is his personality too, & he likes being alone, doing his own thing etc.
He says he thinks his efforts are enough, & he really believes that. Are we just not a good match? I told him recently he should be w/someone else and he got offended. How do I bring up something like this?
I've started to hate myself. I just feel like I'm "too much" for him or any guy. I don't know what to do