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I first seen this girl last year, I immediately asked about her because she caught my eye. Someone said ‘she’s straight, I wouldn’t even try’. Which is fine, if someone’s straight I respect that and won’t even try it on with them.
The other week, this girl rang my friend whilst I was out drinking with him. Then said to him ‘I’m bisexual not straight’ then said ‘tell *me* to go round hers now and me, her and her boyfriend will have a threesome’. I explained I’ve got work in the morning and already being drunk is irresponsible of me, so I need to sober up for work.
That night, she added me on social media and tried calling me 8-10 times. Then messaging, telling me to go round (I went sleep).
When she sobered up, I confronted her about that night. Her reply ‘I only did it to wind my boyfriend up, he’s angry with me now’. Which I thought ‘fair enough, you were drunk and we all make mistakes when we’re drunk’.
Her and her boyfriend have split up and now she's asked me several times to go around hers for drinks. I’ve recently been unwell so had to refuse her offer.
I’m going around hers when I’m better for a drink. But now I’m questioning ‘is it friendship or something else she wants’.
She says she’s straight but her recent behaviour just doesn’t make sense.
We’ve never spoken before, apart from the night she was drunk and took an interest in me. Which was out of the blue.
Please no negativity, yes I like girls. I can’t help it.
Do you think she wants friendship or something more?

I'm not asking if you think workplace relationships are appropriate. I'm only at that location for the summer anyway but this dude never says anything bad about me but I'm the coworker he talks to the least & when we talk he normally just talks about himself. He sometimes stares at me & if I look he'll look away. 1 time someone was asking about me & he said" why are you looking for her? I can do it." It's no secret I'm more liked but I talk to everybody & he only talks to the same 4 girls. We work at a 4 level school & he's only ever on the 1st & 2nd floors while I patrol the rest (we're security.) I've asked before if he has social media (knowing the answer) & he lied & said no even when I see him use them. I was telling him about my favorite YouTuber & I brought up that I can't send any links to him because I don't have his number so he gave it to me & said "I can give it to you for work." He used to say good morning when I would walk in but now he won't say anything unless I say it 1st ( this happened on Monday. Friday was when I got the number & I only sent the links with his permission & Monday was the same day he got offended by someone asking about me.) That day he really treated me like a pariah & he still kind of does but not as bad. He still says "have a wonderful night" & I showed him pictures of my kid (got brought up) & he said "cute" & "baby laughs are the best" He wouldn't mind dating a girl with kids but I don't know if that matters. He was in a bad relationship where he got slapped & I said "if it's any consolation I was in a abusive relationship." He said "no 1 should have to go through that. People don't understand that men can be in abusive relationships too." I don't know why he brought that up but he doesn't get staff emails & I don't either so I brought up that we're both misfits & he agreed. We don't disagree about anything.