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He attacks India and the rest of the world yet failed to address the cultural attitudes of Pakistani men towards women and young homeless Pakistani boys, he never mentioned once Pakistan's problem with gang rape. But I guess the speech wouldn't have the same zing if it focused on Pakistani gang rape culture. All in all he's being a bit hypocritical considering how many Pakistani women are in bondage and how many young Pakistani homeless boys are gang raped.
So I say no he is not the Pakistani Nelson Mandela and will likely get called out for the same bullshit he called India out on as this is a political case of the pot calling the kettle black.
Pakistan is a country where women do not have basic freedoms, where mon-muslims are oppressed, criticising Islam is punishable by death, martial rape is legal, where forced conversion, rape, and forced marriages of non-muslim women regularly occurs, mass gang rape, where thousands Hindu families are forced to flee as refugees to India each year, of honour killings,
90% of women reported being subject to domestic violence, acid attacks, where the gang rape of homeless boys is not only seen as normal it's not even seen as a bad thing.

Pros and cons of dating a divorcee:

Pros
1. Time – divorce is often the result of a relationship where people rushed in too quickly and didn’t really take sufficient time to get to know each other. It is unlikely that someone who has been through this will want to make the same mistake again so they are more likely to take their time getting to know you.

2. Commitment – having already made a commitment a divorcee will often be much clearer about the realities of that decision and the problems that can arise.

3. Experience – when someone has been through the pain, loss and separation that divorce can entail, it can make them more rounded as a person.


Cons
1. Once bitten – for some divorcees the experience was so painful that they resolve to never make the same mistake again and therefore will not consider remarrying.

2. Emotional baggage – a bad divorce can leave people bitter, angry, resentful and with a skewed view of relationships. While their feelings may be entirely justified it may be impossible to break down the barriers and form a new relationship until they have worked through the issues. It takes time to heal and the more recent the divorce was the more likely it is that they are still working through their feelings.

3. Trust – although it is unfair to be judged because of someone else’s bad behavior, when a person has been badly hurt they are going to be wary of trusting again. You will need to be patient and over time trust will build as the painful past is replaced with healthier experiences in the here and now.

4. Family ties – if there are children from the marriage you have to accept, whatever the age of the children and whether they live with their parent or not, that this match comes as a package. Having children will usually also necessitate contact with the other parent to some degree and this can be difficult when a new relationship is developing.