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This older man (I'm 20, he's 60) emailed me saying he was interested in doing large scale business with me (I'm a small business owner). It was a great opportunity for me. He invited me formally through his organization and said his company would pay all travel and hotel expenses because they were really interested in my work. He also sent me an itinerary that included dinner and a tour. I did my research on him and he was legit. Since he was a married man with kids older than me, I asked to meet his family when I arrived. When he introduced me to them, it made me feel a little better since I would be touring with him.

He fed me a lot of bull about his family saying they didn't treat him right, etc. He also told me not to tell them about the dinner and tour because he claimed his wife didn't like him doing business dealings with other women. I figured it was his private matter so I didn't say anything to his wife. I also trusted he was so much older and had daughters of his own so he didn't see me in a sexual manner. He also kept emphasizing how much he liked helping young people like me because we were the answer to a better economy, etc.

Well, long story short, his wife and daughters ended up calling me after I left for home and started calling me all sorts of names. According to them, he loved and wanted to marry me. He also claimed he had made out with me even though nothing like that happened. His wife claims I broke their home. She and her daughters have been calling me multiple times everyday and have screamed all sorts of nasty things at me. That being said, they do admit that this is not his first time talking to other women. Why does the "other woman" always get blamed when a man cheats on their significant other? I didn't even have any bad intentions or pull any moves on him. He was the one who invited me. He was the one who lied to me and his family. He was the one with bad intentions.

Who do you think is to blame in this situation?

Is this a good sign?
We had a 3rd date yesterday. He won me a stuffed animal, we cuddled in the movie, and then we hung out with his best friend and brother. They were all very chill and nice from what I can see. His best friend was telling me some good advice and we talked a lot of intellectual stuff. My date was drunk but he was cute and running around. He would often come up to me as well and cuddle and hug me from behind. His best friend told me my date was a good guy. The whole time my date was kinda being touchy and his friends kinda looked away as being uncomfortable. So I'm a little nervous they felt bad because maybe he does this to all the girls he introduces to them. He also said he really sees us as something. Then, later I told my date I was a virgin. He's 25 and I'm 22. I felt very nervous because thats my skeleton in the closet and I normally dont tell my dates that because I'm scared it will make them run away. I told him I dont have experience in that field and I normally don't tell people this and asked if he was just looking for sex. He said no, I wanted to take things slowly, but if you thought I just wanted sex I should've just played you, in a joking manner. I asked him is it okay that I have no experience? He said okay, whatever. He thinks I'm judgmental on myself and that relationships are more than sex. He said sex is just a plus, that's all. He said that he asked his friend about me, he said his friend said I seem nice and chill, but only time will tell. So after that we kissed. He called me when we drove home and we fell asleep on the phone together. I'm nervous that by telling him im a virgin that things will go down hill.