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In my life, I have seen a lot of single moms. My mom was also a single mom. She had her first kid when she was 18 with a guy she new for less than 5 months. She then had another kid at age 21 with another guy she knew less than a year. She eventually met my dad 5 years down the road, they dated for 5 years, had me, and they are still together.

My mom told me about her struggles as a single, young mom and even though she loves all her children, she regrets having kids so young. She didn't get to go to college, she didn't get to travel, she didn't get really experience life because she had kids so young.

My older sister did the same thing as my mom. So did my female cousins. They all had kids with men they weren't dating very long and ended up being single mom at a young age.

I am currently 27. I finished college. I have a great job. I'm financially secure... and I have my own home. Getting into the dating world, I keep meeting a lot of single moms who are in my age range with 5-6 year old kids.

I guess I am throwing all this out there, because I don't get the rush to have kids. I understand women have to race against the clock as they age... but it seems people have no chill. What ever happened to finding the right partner, dating for years, enjoying your partner, travelling with your partner, really getting to know your partner and making sure both of you are financially stable to provide for a child?

It seems like people date for a few months before having a kid and they don't get to experience having a fun time with their partner or focus on providing a stable atmosphere for their kid...

So there is this girl in my life who I really care and love for and I kinda know she loves me too (maybe, at least that's what she confesses).
So here are the problems:

1. i lost my girl best friend because I talked too much cheesily with her, and my girlfriend didn't like that. Ok understood I stopped talking to my best friend.(and here I bitched about my girlfriend so it was my fault)

2. when we went in long distance relationship, we had time constraints and I went to see my parents so I couldn't constantly keep a check on her the way I used to. So she cried and told me that I don't love her, but I really did.. this went on till the last day of my visit or LDR.

3. I once accidentally told her that I used to have a crush in my class, now she keeps dwelling on that talk and keeps taunting me about... I know that you will go to her if I am not there and all that bullshit.. even though I told her nothing is gonna happen.

And now today I was talking to my girl-friend and I didn't pick her (gf) call till I was talking... when I finished in 4 mins and called her (gf) instantly and now she tells me goodbye and tells me you put your friends before me. You live your own life

GUYS TELL ME WHAT TO DO.
P. S. ITS BEEN AN YEAR.