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Teens like myself think of themselves with permanent traits (e. g. I am unconfident or he is always more funny than me).

What’s the adult way of seeing a romantic partner? Do you label people less, and think everyone is capable of doing anything?

E. g., this guy’s hot but isn't confident, he’s still really attractive and his lack of confidence can be fixed.

Last night, I saw a tweet where a woman was complaining that she gets more attention from men when she dresses like a bum (oversized t-shirt, messy hair, looks like she binges Netflix all day) than when she wears a sundress. This morning, one of my friends sent me a TikTok where a woman was complaining that she feels like she has to dress up to stay relevant in the dating world. The complete opposite of the first woman.

Personally, I'm more attracted to a woman who is dressed casually and has similar interests to me. In my case, a woman who will play pickup basketball with me and the guys is sexier to me than a woman who dresses up and shops all the time. I've been on way too many dates with women who just want an expensive meal and wine.

What attire on the opposite sex are you more attracted to?

Basically I’m in my mid 20’s and lost my hair to a condition. Rocked a shaved head but now I have a chronic form of eczema on my scalp so not only pasty white but now red blotches as well. I invested in a good quality wig and it’s totally unnoticeable. People are always very impressed by it. Of course the question relates to how women (of all ages although of course my dating target range is closer to my age) would react if they went on a few dates with a guy they liked and he revealed he wore a wig? It’s certainly not something I would try to hide long term. Please be honest, looks matter and I have my own fairly strict standards so I’m just looking for feedback. We have to be attracted to our partner.