Do you find the opposite sex more attractive when they're dressed casually or dressed more formal?

[Anonymous]

Last night, I saw a tweet where a woman was complaining that she gets more attention from men when she dresses like a bum (oversized t-shirt, messy hair, looks like she binges Netflix all day) than when she wears a sundress. This morning, one of my friends sent me a TikTok where a woman was complaining that she feels like she has to dress up to stay relevant in the dating world. The complete opposite of the first woman.

Personally, I'm more attracted to a woman who is dressed casually and has similar interests to me. In my case, a woman who will play pickup basketball with me and the guys is sexier to me than a woman who dresses up and shops all the time. I've been on way too many dates with women who just want an expensive meal and wine.

What attire on the opposite sex are you more attracted to?

Casual

Formal

Don't care either way

[thatshydork]

Depends on what he’s getting dressed to go do. If he’s getting dressed to go to church, go shopping, a party, or hang out with the boys then a more casual outfit (the churches in my area are fairly casual and no one gets dressed up to go) then just everyday clothes. If he’s going to a fancy event like a wedding, then I’d prefer him to get dressed up.

[Caroline91]

Either or both. I'm more interested in who the man inside the closes is.

[OtterMan68]

depends on the event: shopping - jeans and t-shirt. Church - dress or skirt or slacks and blouse

[egarcia1360]

It depends on the girl's figure, her vibes, the situation, and my mood lol.

[EzraIsShy76028]

It really all depends.

For chilling at home it'd be pretty weird if they were dressed up all fancy and perfect.

For a fancy restaurant it'd be pretty weird if they showed up in just a regular casual shirt and pants.

Casual would happen more often than formal though since outside of work we usually don't really deal with all that many formal occasions on a regular basis.

[Nikki1989]

Casual, please. Nothing worse than a man with an inverted noose around his neck.

[Keyboardkat]

Now, THAT's the most original name for a necktie that I've ever heard, or read! You realize that we HAVE to wear those things because we're too old to wear a bib to keep the barbecue sauce off our shirts, LOL! Also, in the British uppah clahss, one can get in much trouble for wearing the tie of a school you've not attended, or that of a regiment in which you've not served!

[debtfree_oneyear]

Finally, a woman who hates neckties as much as we men do

[Asker]

Not gonna lie, it took me a while to figure out what an inverted noose meant. 😂 I haven’t worn a tie in over 2 years.

[Keyboardkat]

You mean you've worn ties?

[Asker]

@Keyboardkat I have. The last time I put one on was in 2022.

[Keyboardkat]

Then how'd you keep the barbecue sauce off your shirts for the whole two years? Jes' buy new shirts all the time, LOL?

[paledreams]

Casual dressed - whether pants, skirts or dresses - shorts don't really do it for me and neither do leggings/activewear - uh uh ♀️

[Nifrayu]

It depends. A lot of formal wear just looks plain and dull to me, especially suits for men.

[convo_king89]

I simple jeans and a t shirt looks cuter than a formal business suit.

[Anonymous]

I prefer casual and sporty dressing on girls, I don't like forma at all.

[Flower7]

Guys look much better when they are dressed up.

[Jamie05rhs]

Casually. (Unless it's a REALLY good dress!)

[Nerdvana]

Both can be sexy on a woman.

[debtfree_oneyear]

depends on the situation

[thegreenyogi]

Both.

[LiamJHayden]

Casually.

[chocolatetwopointo]

neither