He then came up to me upset and said “[acquaintance’s name] tried to get me to hit on you and I told her no, it’s not like that” and walked away.
Do men get offended when women they don’t like, like them?
Some men and female do this , like how dare you find me attractive , how dare you show interest in me , they don’t really get offended , just annoyed that someone actually finds them attractive or interesting, the truth is some people are just selfish assholes that think their shit doesn’t stink , they think they are the best thing that walked on this planet , they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves, so just ignore them because they are actually a nobody , we aren’t mind readers and we don’t know what someone likes or dislikes , we don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads stating what we like or dislike , so people that are rude about someone finding them attractive or interesting , are complete asshole people , that think their shit doesn’t stink , so just ignore him , you got your answer that he is a POS
I think that's more of a woman thing to take offense by something like that. It doesn't offend me when a woman is attracted to me, who I'm not attracted to. Everyone likes someone, and they can't help that. It's harmless unless they seriously start stalking you.
Depends on the occasion. I'd wear boyshorts maybe going to the gym or if I'm wearing like a short skirt or sundress especially if windy.
Briefs if I'm on my period usually black.
G-string for like a figure hugging ball gown or some outfit I don't want a vpl. You can't wear a g string with jeans.
Slipshorts at times
Hipsters, Tanga and cheeky as well
Thongs because I like how my butt looks in them and for comfort. I like the reaction I get from my husband when I wear them. Good under jeans, young pants or tights. Normally thongs or boyshorts. I dont go in really for all that Victoria secret stuff, wallmart is fine.
Yes they do, when I was ugly, men felt the need to subconsciously tell me that they were not attracted to me. Even though I did not like them like that I was just being friendly. They would avoid me like the disease lol. I mean us women do that too but we’re not as bad. I heard that men’s brain associate women they don’t find attractive as annoying
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More of an annoyance than offended. I'm just trying to be friends and then all of a sudden the pig looking chick is trying to suck my dick.
by the way, this should be a perfect example about women to you even though you're a woman, you should learn this. You can't share things with them because they will set you up for failure and they do it on purpose. You can never ever trust a woman even though you're a woman... they don't have a gang or club... they just destroy each other. Don't ever share shit like that with a woman ever again unless you know what they're going to do and you're basically manipulating them.
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@Peridot25 As usual Miss Strawman shows up to make the argument about something entirely different than what I'm talking about.
See, what you're doing right now is why I shouldn't trust you as much as she shouldn't trust you. You took what I said and expanded it to "all women" as if the woman I'm talking to is also just like the ones I'm trying to warn her about. ... and for what? You made no point, and I guess your counterargument is a ad hominem attack on me. You feel better now? You get a point across about me that even the most retarded of retards and see for themselves? Congratulations... you get a participation trophy.
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not "and"
I can't catch every detail.
@Peridot25 Yeah... right. I've seen your responses too many times, memorized your MO, and I know exactly what you do.
You derail arguments that make perfect sense into a different topic entirely and you usually do it by just attacking the opinion owner as if that's some kind of own.
You're predictable and a perfect example of what I'm trying to warn this chick about, that is out there.
You do have a strong talent for making things that are a non-related topic the topic though... so I will assume that is what you are always trying to do. I mean your record of actions would match up with that nicely and I can respect that talent.
It's just fucking annoying. I'm making real arguments soaked in retardation... and then you just distract from the real argument. Change the topic to some other shit. What's your phucking point?
@Peridot25 You're not a moderator... I only block mods.
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LOL, no, but we don't like that junior high style behavior like your friend exhibited.
But I didn’t plan on acting on my attraction being that I prefer not to date within social groups.
Not usually. By your own admission you didn't have the sack to say anything to him. Well this is normal for guys. Women may be attracted but never say a thing. As a result some guys may remain single never knowing there are actually women attracted to them.
The point I'm making is since guys re used to getting little to no attention from women. When one shows attraction to him, even if he's not attracted to her, he takes it as a compliment.
The problem with this is like I said. Since guys are used to women not doing this. When one does it more often than not it her GAMING him in some way. So guys learn to. Naturally be suspicious of women that do this.
If you really are in the 30-35 age range, then two people are weirdos here lol. The acquaintance, for thinking it's a good thing to act as a (bad) dating agency and the edgy guy, being offended for absolutely nothing. In your age range, living in a non-filmed soap opera doesn't look like a good idea, please fix your social circle lol
If you're in the 12-16 age range then everything looks normal, daily life.
No, but I've felt a little offended when unattractive girls have flirted with me, because that means they thought we were on the same level, which means I'm unattractive. Or at least that was my thought process. At least it encouraged me to lose weight.
Odd take, you added a distorting filter on top of reality that is personal to you there, being flirted with doesn't attribute you any level. It just says that someone is attracted to you and bold enough to take action...
Women are more cautious than men. They don't typically chase after guys they don't believe they have a chance with. Unless they're celebrities or something. So they don't tend to waste time or risk embarrassment, the way guys do. This is according to my wife and sister. And my experiences don't really contradict that. After I lost weight, heavy girls never tried to fuck again.
I agree that it was odd of me though. Because I shouldn't have taken a compliment as an insult.
I have met several cases at this point, which makes me going relative. With different levels of attraction since subjectivity is involved, mine and theirs:
Shy girls, vaguely clueless, not knowing how to flirt but still trying.
Bold girls doing it fiercely, sometimes so fiercely that I was unbalanced lol
Subtle girls mastering the art of chessplay.
... And the more frequent case of collaborative flirting I would say.
He was likely upset that someone tried to meddle in his personal affairs.
If it was what you ask then only a really egotistical guy would be angry about it.
Perhaps he may actually be interested and feel things have been messed up with he said she said.
It's rare men don't give woman a shotnto at least get used like Kleenex. Not saying that's yiu, I'm just saying some men are vile opportunists.
No, I'm reasonably well adjusted and don't get triggered by such nonsense. Your coworker is a toolbag. Be glad you aren't dating him.
I do, I get offended just by looking at attractive women. Just remembering my experiences with them (being treated subhuman because of my face and sexuality, my 20s were hell). Knowing ill never be loved by them only hated illicit a lot of hatred in me. I keep asking God to remove this anger and bitterness from me but he has yet to deliver
@Peridot25 Uhm, nah.
I don’t think any man would be offended by someone finding him attractive, we don’t get that often so its a good feeling.
But if its not mutual then its not mutual. At least he let you know clearly
I've never heard of this happening ever.
Your situation is very simple: your bigmouth friend threw you under the bus. It's possible he liked you, but not after that bullshit. He acted like any reasonable person would.
Nope. Anytime a woman, any woman has shown any interest in me I've taken it as a compliment.
Even if I wasn't attracted to her, it would make me feel kind of great TBH. 😊
No, it's a confidence booster, but I'm not going to say or show that. I don't want to make the girl feel bad because I only like the attention that she's giving me.
Not usually. He wasn’t offended that you liked him, he was offended by your friend trying to get him to hit on you. But he does not like you that way.
Not offended but it could be frustrating in a way? Like wondering if thats all you can manage to pull.
More like he was annoyed with how you two handled this. The perception is that you used a go in between to let him know that he may make a move on you.
Would you have been happier with getting to reject him coming off as a cockteaser?
Some men are easily triggered by just about anything, so it all depends.
what is it with women these days and not having an ounce of empathy. when you get rejected, how do you feel? you're a human. men are human. they likely feel that exact way.
And if you're offended cause someone is into you, something is wrong with you I don't care if you're a man or a woman
No, we're not women
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Maybe your friend was bad at communicating. I don't think guys get upset in general.
In my experience, when I say no, they usually say something like "OK, then."
No I wouldn't.
It now sounds like he's annoyed at the other girl rather than you
I don't think so. Not offended. We just aren't interested.
Offended? I don't think you could ever understand that type of rejection from a male perspective. It's unique to our experience. It's devastating if you really like them.
Lol sometimes in my 20s I used to feel more immature about it all lol
Thats doesn't seems like normal behaviour, UNLESS, he has girlfriend that get jealous easy , and afraid that she found out about this.
I'm can't speak for all men... But at least for me, I do not find it offensive at all. I think it's the same for most men (if not virtually all).
I've never been offended by that. That's just silly.
No, we don't. If some fat, ugly chick found me attractive I wouldn't get offended by it.
I don't think so o. o it certainly wouldn't bother me. Although it's always a bit awkward.
He thought you had asked the other gal to approach him on your behalf. That's what he found offensive.
Why would anyone be offended with some being attracted to him or her?
No it is always good to have another friend.
It's troubling for sure...:)
No, not usually
Not at all. It’s always sweet to be appreciated.
Not really. Why would that be offensive?
This is so true.
NOT OFFENDED BUT AGGREVATING
Yes. Some do.
I don't care.
Nah, idc
Nope.