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I was talking to this guy for about a month. We met online dating. I was in the process of moving during that month so I did give him a heads up for the first few weeks I wouldn't have been able to meet up. He still asked me to hang out the week I was moving and I thought I could have fit it in but I told him I was too busy. I asked if we could video chat or call over the phone. He said no.

Well, then when rescheduling a date. I asked if he wanted to meet before his nightshift for a quick coffee since it was the first time we were meeting each other. He said no. I asked if he wanted to do it on his day off and he said no, he is streaming and sleeping.

So literally the week I'm moving, he decides he wants to move too. I moved only like 5 miles and he was moving 30 miles away. So I told him since he was moving farther away we should talk on the phone more often... he said no.

Then I sent him a selfie all dolled up, trying to flirt with him. He goes I don't like your red lip stick.

Anyway, I thought since we had been talking so long I be respectful and end things because I was tired of him turning me down. I told him I thought it was best we go our separate ways.

Now, based upon how he constantly saying no and only wanting to text me wouldn't it make sense to think he wasn't that into me?

I know a few guys who did that but I don’t think it’s a common way of behaving for men.

A guy drove to an event to chase a girl he liked and when she appeared disinterested, he pretended to flirt with another girl in front of her, but when everybody left, he asked us detailed questions about the first girl’s relationships with other men so it was obvious his interest in the second girl was faked to hide his interest in the first girl that he drove to the party to chase and date.