He and I have known each other for years and just started to seriously talk. He asked me how I want to raise my kids, too values. He also has a buddy in town that he’s now at the bar with, he’s drunk texting me telling me he got kicked out trying to be a nice person lol and said “I was nice like @yeah in hot I’m over here” drunk babble…I thought he was flirting w bartender to get drinks I guess so I asked and he said “Like. Flirting with people who knew the bartender but they didn’t know”. I just didn’t know he was wanting to flirt with others I guess. We text everyday, have sex, give space and he invites me over. Is he still worth giving a chance?
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He asked if I could pick them up but I referred him to ask the girls he was flirting with or eat to sober up
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I so glad you like the tea lmao. I told him to get home safe, he knows I’m upset just by being short now. He did ask if I’d come see him tomorrow and that he is sorry for being a butthole to. You seem like nice guy to and I appreciate you giving me your point of view
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Coming to the topic..(Sips tea☕️)... I thing everyone deserves a second chance... observe if he is continuing this and if he does even after talking about this with him.. I would say naah.. not worth your time/energy..
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I so glad you like the tea lmao. I told him to get home safe, he knows I’m upset just by being short now. He did ask if I’d come see him tomorrow and that he is sorry for being a butthole to. You seem like nice guy to and I appreciate you giving me your point of view
Really glad if I was of any help!
Good luck and thanks for the tea ! ☕️
Sounds like he's got an alcohol problem. No, don't "give him a chance". He's got more problems than you need.
So, are you in a committed relationship with him?
We are talking it slow right now. I’m just surprised by his actions I guess
'taking it slow' doesn't involve sex. 😂😂 Come on really? You are already acting like the jealous girlfriend. I'm not sticking up for him, he was stupid for doing that to you. This is why you discuss and agree on a type of relationship BEFORE you have sex. This is why the 'talking stage' is a disaster waiting to happen.
I mean I’m not jealous at all. I’m just hurt and disappointed. How do you expect someone to act lol. I will take that advice though on discussing more about the relationship, not to say we haven’t but to be more clear on things. Thanks
If you're not jealous at all you wouldn't have made those comments... give me a break. Just own it. I understand (kind of) why you acted that way. Personally, I would feel out of line giving the response you did because there has been nothing discussed about any relationship. I wouldn't have any business saying that.
There has been lol I responded that way because their is. Which is why he apologized. I’m not saying the whole relationship or it’s story lol you’re assuming their wasn’t because he’s flirting…
No, I'm assuming there wasn't because you didn't say. You didn't provide that info. If you had, my opinion would have been a bit different.
That’s literally what I just said lol.
Instead of stating, you could have asked to build context clues. You just seem bored & trying to be rude any chance I say something really lol.
Oh please, I'm not fucking bored or being rude. Could you give an example?
Yeah you said it AFTER you made your post, way after. So I'm not sure what your point is. And the only reason I even found out is because you denied being jealous and I called you on it.
Contextual clues...😂 so it's our job to dig the facts out instead of just stating them in the beginning?