How should I reply to a guy that asked me if I'm flexible?

[Anonymous]

I'm on an app to make new friends, I started talking to a guy a few days ago. We flirt a little but I'm no where near trying to hook up with anyone or get into a relationship. He initiates the flirting every time, today he sent me a message asking me if I'm flexible. I'm a little offended by the question as to it is kind of a sexual question & I'm not sure how to reply... any suggestions? I'm not trying to cut him off as a friend, we do have normal friendly conversations other than the times he starts flirting with me but I don't appreciate the sexual passive questions.

[genericname85]

well if you don't wanna be too playfull yet, don't be. but if you're interested in a guy, give him instructions on how to get you there mid to long term. see if he makes the attempt. like don't give him a "no". give him a how to.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Well, you're not sexually interested in him, but if you were and I were you, I'd respond with, "Yes, especially with a little assistance..."

[Asker]

But I'm not lol, so how should I reply?

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

He's clearly not your friend, so you have to decide.

(I don't believe that men and women can be friends if one or both parties feel sexual attraction.)

[Asker]

I assume you're right, a male friend who is respectful wouldn't ask something along those lines.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Yes. I'd say the same thing about a lesbian / bi friend.

I've had several thirsty female "friends". It was clear that they wanted someone else when I didn't.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

*wanted something else

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

Thanks for MHO.

[babycowboy]

straight up tell him that you’re not comfortable with sexual conversations that way he’ll know you don’t want anything romantic and neither will waste time if your interests aren’t similar

[BigDog1989]

If you're not into someone, or not looking for it, DO NOT FLIRT

THAT IS CALLED LEADING SOMEONE ON

[Ironic_Method]

Tell him that it's not an appropriate question and that he should stop.

[Anonymous]

I would say of course I am, I'm talking to you aren't I? The insinuation being that you could do much better than him. But you're flexible. You'll still work with his ugly mug.