Telling you what he thinks you want to hear so you'll have sex with him (or keep having sex with him). I'll tell you something I WISH I knew when I was your age. When a guy REALLY likes you and wants to make things work, he makes them work. There is no "I'm not ready", "I'm not sure", "bad timing", etc. A guy who wants to be with you will be with you. A guy who makes excuses is stringing you along.
When I was younger, I played into the "gray area". The what ifs, the maybes, the hope. But now I know that it's actually very black and white. They either step up or they don't. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to convince the guy who can't see for himself how amazing you are. Either he gets it or he doesn't. If he tells you he doesn't, then walk away and save yourself a bunch of time and heartache.
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Nothing wrong with that. Except he's wasting your time by being unsure and indecisive. I dated a guy like that, and I liked him too much and he didn't like me enough.
My gut assessment: He's trying to seduce you with a false hope of a possible committed relationship.
Translation = he's open to sex without strings / friends with benefits.
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