I’m on tumblr, you can go live similar to TikTok IG and give gifts like money. there's a guy that joins, he’s my top gifter most times.
He’ll stay on my profile and chat with me until i end the conversation with everyone. I don’t talk about anything sexual mostly me having fun catching up to my followers maybe relationships.
He also messaged me with a casual conversation about photography and left his messages open ended so I’d need to respond ( I never did). I didn’t pay any attention much until I joined his live and seen his face. Now he had my attention. The guy is definitely my type, handsome a bit shy, creative. I told him he was cute he said thanks and I kept watching eventually through random questions I learned he lives a few states over and he also is engaged 🥶.
Once again he will still join and gift and talk to me for hours. He asked to learn about me I read him some poetry, seems like we could be really good friends if anything but I’m also attracted so I’d be too much for me to just stay friends.
I feel like it could turn into an emotional affair. Im trying to stay far away because I’ve been in his fiancés position before and I’m NOT down for being a home wrecker. Refuse to be the other woman but also maybe he’s just being “friendly”, looking for an escape? Bored? Thinks I’m interesting? I don't know is he flirting or not😭😭. If he’s flirting, he’s definitely not marriage material.
He’ll stay on my profile and chat with me until i end the conversation with everyone. I don’t talk about anything sexual mostly me having fun catching up to my followers maybe relationships.
He also messaged me with a casual conversation about photography and left his messages open ended so I’d need to respond ( I never did). I didn’t pay any attention much until I joined his live and seen his face. Now he had my attention. The guy is definitely my type, handsome a bit shy, creative. I told him he was cute he said thanks and I kept watching eventually through random questions I learned he lives a few states over and he also is engaged 🥶.
Once again he will still join and gift and talk to me for hours. He asked to learn about me I read him some poetry, seems like we could be really good friends if anything but I’m also attracted so I’d be too much for me to just stay friends.
I feel like it could turn into an emotional affair. Im trying to stay far away because I’ve been in his fiancés position before and I’m NOT down for being a home wrecker. Refuse to be the other woman but also maybe he’s just being “friendly”, looking for an escape? Bored? Thinks I’m interesting? I don't know is he flirting or not😭😭. If he’s flirting, he’s definitely not marriage material.
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If you’re attracted to him, feel like it could turn into an emotional affair, and have been in the fiancés position, and are trying to distance yourself then just block him?
Sounds like you don’t want to let him go because you like him, but don’t want to be “that girl”.
I don’t know if he’s flirting or not based on that information.
Why is he talking to you for hours and not the woman he is engaged to? The guy is buttering you up like a buttermilk biscuit.
Oh nooo😭 it’s late hours when his fiancé is asleep. Maybe 1-5am.
So he's obviously doing this behind her back. Nevermind Mister shady shy guy
Very typical of men to do that.