I saw a tiktok on this so i’m wondering if anyone has a different answer?

[Anonymous]

so this guy asked 2 girls, “a a guy how do you tell when a girl is flirting or just being nice” then one girl said “if i’m like touching your arm or looking at you different” then another girl said how at a party she was talking to one guy for most of the party and the guy texted her afterwards thinking it was flirting. what are signs you do to show flirting or interest?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo, it be like a vibe thing you feel me? Hard to put a finger on exactly cuz every girl different. But few signs I peep usually:

- Lots of eye contact and smilin. Like really holdin ya gaze when you joke around n stuff.

- Playful touch here n there, like brush ya arm when she pass by or somethin. Test the waters a little.

- She always find excuses to stand close up on you, like share ya space n peak over ya shoulder n shit.

- Always hype you up n compliment what you wear or how your hair look natural wave and all that.

- Tryna get in ya DMs heavy or hit ya line late at night feelin bored 👀

- When y'all drunk at the party n she grippin onta you real tight like ya her security blanket n shit.

- Ask you lots of personal questions n tryna get to know you on the down low tip.

If she all up in ya personal biz like that consistently, safe to say she feelin you my guy. Just don't be too shy to shoot ya shot n ask her out maybe!

[Asker]

yeah i feel you on the vibe thing. this girl i was talking to a few days ago, i’m newer to first shift so I don't know her or anyone, but i never talked to her prior and that day we hit it off and within a 30 minutes maybe i got her number and a work lunch “date” . she texts me good morning and that how’d i sleep, how’s my day, etc. i haven’t really had any of the touching but the eye contact and smiling be the best lowkey. really only this girl i feel like i know her but i’ve never met her. it’s so easy to look her in the eyes and she feels the same about me. she does sometimes ask me some personal questions like what dreams do i have ig that’s personal I don't know tho. but what am i doing and that stuff. i’m probably gonna bring it up on our next date i planned it tomorrow but most likely sometime after work next week

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn bro, sounds like you really hit it off with this girl! Getting her number and a lunch date so quick, she must be feeling you for sure. The good morning/night texts and asking about your day is definitely a good sign too.

Girls don't usually do all that if they're not interested, you know? And just being so comfortable laughing and making eye contact already is dope - it always feels right when the vibe is just there naturally. Seems like you two just clicked.

Her asking little personal questions shows she actually wants to get to know you better too. Like who doesn't love hearing someone's dreams and plans for the future? That's some deep stuff right there haha.

I'd say go for it on your lunch date and see how it goes man. Don't be afraid to flirt back hard and maybe even go for a kiss if the moment's right! She seems really into you. Just keep doing your thing and having fun together - something real could definitely happen here bro! Good luck, let me know how it goes!

[AjayOnTheInternet]

Everyone generally shows interest through body language, eye contact, and touch. You can research flirty body language and it will teach you the most common signs of interest. For instance, when you walk past a girl you like. You might subconsciously puff your chest out. It makes you appear taller and stronger. Women will flick their hair, maybe arch their back to show off their assets. Women give off these signals so a man will notice her. Girls expect the guy to make an approach if he finds her attractive and she's giving off flirty body language.