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Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

With Instagram now as it is. If you’re a really hot girl you’ve got 5-100k followers, you’re now competing with celebrities, because a famous guy will want to use her for a fun time and now that girl will think that is her new minimum acceptance.

Look at how many women worship male celebrities like drake, Chris brown and put them all on their stories. Women only truly desire the best men on the planet.
The best guy is no longer just tall, handsome and rich.

I think so.

Like I get people shocked all the time that I’m single. It is partly through choice but also a lot of the time I will match with loads of girls and they won’t respond, ghost….. they still looking for more when I already check every box. Like I can’t believe my fortunes in life. Yet still, not enough.

But also I never get to meet new girls in person. I am not complaining at all - I am just highlighting.

It’s easy if you have nil standards as a guy and undersell yourself.

For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me.

Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will never understand, and I don’t get how people relate it to insecurity either. Like I’m supposed to want this?

And look swear down I’ve got a huge tool, I know that but I wouldn’t want another potential man to have ‘piped’ her as good as me, I don’t want her to have shared an experience and comparing me to other loser dudes, I want no sloppy seconds either.
Again, am I supposed to want these things?

Yes, I am aware this standard does rule out most women.

It baffles me how a guy could get on one knee for a girl that isn’t a v*rgin.

Can you tell if a guy finds you attractive but doesn't want to come off as weird or creepy and is making an effort not to stare or look at you?