How can any man be confident?

[Anonymous]

Like men are judged on are we rich, are we funny/confident, are we tall, are we in shape, are we good looking, are we well known and respected, are we ambitious, are we experienced with women, do we have a big package.

Social media changed the game. But we are judged 100X more harsher than women.

How can any guy be confident? In a world where there’s always more and more. No man can be good enough unless you’re drake.

All those attribute I mentioned I do well for myself and it’s just not enough.

I agree

I disagree

[DishLady]

Wake up... system check... daily goal reflection... coffee... and go.

Don't pay attention to all the noise. You're here, you're good. That's it.

I'll put it another way. This year has been tough af on me, but whenever I walk into a room I am the woman who owns the room. Over my dead body will anyone see me slumping and tired or heartbroken etc. I am... and that's it.

We're all cut from Divine Cloth and set on this earth to do something special. Remember that... Smile, back straight and keep moving forward. If I can do it, you sure fucking can.

[Zack-Bann]

Last time I told someone what to do about that the app removed my answer


Unfortunately you won’t get to hear it


But I will say this:
I am tall, in shape, and depending on someone’s type better looking than most
It’s still hard


I’ve lost girls to men who were shorter, fatter, uglier, and sometimes not even all the way straight.


Money is a huge element and I’m not talking about being rich (although that helps a lot)
Im talking about stability


If you’re a child in a man’s body you will lose every day


You need to be a man


A man like your father was (or should have been) and his father and his father


At some point excuses no longer matter
Even if they are valid


You make it work despite them

[Orion84]

The question is: why are you basing your self worth on what other people think?

Who gives a shit if a woman thinks you're broke? Who gives a shit if social media thinks you're too short? Why let others determine how you see yourself? How do YOU feel about yourself?

That's where confidence comes from; it's internal, not external. Some of the most worthless people on the planet are the most confident, because they think they're hot shit, even when they're really not. What they think about themselves is what gives them that confidence; they don't care if everyone else thinks they suck.

If you think you're a prize, then fuck everyone who disagrees. If you are happy with yourself, and proud of who you are, that should be all that matters.

[Screenwriter]

Know who you are, be comfortable about your attributes and improve where you think you NEED to. You can't have all the "assets" you list. That's internet guff. Ignore it. It's not possible.

And if some women/woman falls for that stuff, they're deluded. Don't let lies delude you. Love yourself. Work on your flaws. Be kind, emotionally available, a good worker. Inches in height and elsewhere are not so important unless you have micro personality and habits.

[Asker]

I do have all those attributes except I am not that experienced with women.
I see a wide variety of different realities but I think dating as a guy is a very weird experience

[Screenwriter]

Cultivate women as friends and you'll learn a lot. Drops the stress of "dating." Removes that chip from your shoulder. See if you can do that. Might be helpful.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

How?

• Probably because they've been raised by a not too dysfunctional family?
• Probably because they found a decent environment that made them believe in themselves?
• Probably because life events haven't been too rough?

That said, a lot of people pose as confident, a smokescreen. A famous dead Brit said something about the world being a stage... I believe him 100%

[Nikki1989]

Still flogging this dead horse for your trolling and clueless anon trolls, are we?

I am sure the usual anons will be stroking their peckers over a post like this, but the more sensible folk will just laugh at your juvenile bollocks as usual.

[CherryLove007]

Get up and go to work to provide a good life... for you and a future woman. If you like woman and want to be with one then forget about what you look like or how much judgement you think is happening. Build up your wealth by working job (s).

Men are providers in case it got lost in translation with mixed messages in the world aka social media. Women are the receivers... we take the sperm to fertilize the egg and boom a baby for the man to provide for his woman and child.

[Anonymous]

Because of what you just posted. I used to give a 💩 what women thought of me. But when you realize how little control of what the goblins in a woman's head tell her. You realize there really no good reason to be concerned what a woman actually thinks of you.

[Anonymous]

There are classes, or books, or videos, or support groups about this. Do as many as you can and you will improve over time.

[AngryCarl2]

Any man can be confident if he was loved by his mother.

[Anonymous]

Welcome back for more since yesterday's various crying sessions.

[LazerBean]

It just comes with being raised right.

[krabbbbbbbbbbbb]

I wish I knew.