How are unconfident men supposed to get confident?
What Girls & Guys Said1429
The same way you get good at anything else. By practice. Too many "unconfident" guys at GaG want a magic pill or something.
You have to put in hard work.
So practice. Get out, join social groups, force yourself to be socially active. And you can't use the excuse of you don't know anyone. There are internet meetup groups specifically created just for the purpose of teaching people to be more confident in social situations.
By doing things that are out of your comfort zone. By challenging yourself. That's what helped me. Try a new sport. Try to engage more in conversations with people you don't know well
Same one anyone gets confident:
Set yourself realistic and doable goals that will take hard work and then acheive them. The more you do, the more REAL confidence you will have (unless it's some competitive thing... comptition actually wrecks your self-confidence by making you always compare yourself to everyone else.)
Self-confidence is related to your appearance, with your attractiveness and your social skills. Guys who are short and less attractive can't do really much in those points, but they can at least improve their physics with training and proper diet as well as their mental horizon with knowledge.
I know how it is. There's like this standard for men that they're tough, and can get through anything when honestly they can be in pain and be insecure like everyone else, and I'm sorry ment have to go through that.
But always focusing on loving and forgiving yourself, confidence starts within yourself and your soul. Always have an open mind and be confident in your right decisions, and always be positive with everything that happens ❤
there is really no way you can other than just accept yourself. of course, you can't trust women and PUAs on everything they say.
if women were actually attracted to men with confidence then they sure as hell wouldn't be falling for bad boys and jerks that are flooded with nothing but insecurity.
Confident men are often delusional about their own abilities. Remember it's more important that others have confidence in you. Be competent man who steps in and sorts out the confident mans mess.
fake it untill you make it. also there's a way to build confidence. by setting yourself lots of small short term and some big long term goals with a set schedule with which to achieve them. with accomplishing those goals,. you litterally build your confidence like a stronghold, cause you learn to know what exactly you can do and what you can't.
@asker Come to me my love...
I can make you feel better😍
I know how you feel when you fancy a wonderful woman & your mate always gets her cos your mind goes blank in her company & when you finally get a word out you stutter or miss pronounce it & go brite red get hot & sweat beat your self up stay honest be interested in her don't big your self up complement her you will get shot down but there will be that 1 who sees you & not your faults
By pursuing your life goals and aspirations. The focus and work you put in will result in confidence, and understanding that no matter what happens you'll be fine.
Oh, and it's #3 on what men need to get the ladies. Do you know what #1 and 2 are?
Go to the gym, read more and get a hobie. You improve your body, your mind, you get out of your comfort zone and meet new people.
Groom yourself. ...
Dress nicely. ...
Photoshop your self-image. ...
Think positive. ...
Kill negative thoughts. ...
Get to know yourself. ...
From Google. 🖤
Improve yourself. More importantly realize that rejections are not the end of the world. I get rejected the vast majority of the time. I just ignore that and go on to the next.
As someone with no confidence, it's not that bad. I'm not popular so people don't bother me or call me. Which is kinda nice bcs I do t really enjoy ppls company
Hate yourself so much that you accidentally trigger a defense mechanism and develop a superiority complex
It's just a lie a woman uses when she doesn't want to admit that she's rejecting you because she is shallow and a bad person
By experiencing and advancing in life, overcoming failures, and reaching success. The things I’m most confident about myself today are some of the things that used to be my biggest insecurities. Seriously. When you’re faced with a problem in life and reach rock bottom because of it, and then climb your way back to the top overcoming it and kickings its ass, it will yield the utmost confidence. It shows you that you have control over your life and your life doesn’t have control over you. It’s one of the most empowering feelings you can ever come by in life. If you want to be confident and successful, you gotta live and breathe it. You have to be obsessed with it and do whatever it takes. After a while, success becomes addicting and therefore becomes who you are. Overcoming trials and tribulations is where real confidence comes from. So stop being a pussy and go conquer the damn world. Us men are at our best when we’re in this headspace and stay in it.
Go to do the bloody gym and lift weights ( cardio won’t do the job)
Dont listen to any of these girls how would they know how to be a man? Just play the be a man song from mulan.
Act like a man and be strong and will come naturally.
Knowledge is confidence.
So now you tell me the answer to your question
You can't. Darwinism is a selection process not a reform process.
Stop being afraid of making mistake, messing up things, and stuff like that. Find or make yourself environment that will punish your mistakes reasonably and meaningfully, so you can learn what to correct. How much of an impact does it have on your life. Distinguishing important from trivial is a key for learning. You will consequencially learn some important things. Up will become competent about that. That's start. The more you know, more you are competent. The more competent you are, more confident you will feel. Environment is important. You need friends that will not protect you from falling down, but always be ready to pick you up so you can keep fighting your way out of problems. And one more important thing is to take it like a sport. Train, qualify, compete, lose, or win. Wining and losing doesn't make to much deference. Maybe next time will be better, maybe worse. Don't drop to low, don't fly to high, and with real commitment, time will be your ally.
Have a dream , set a goal and achieve it. Achievement is where confidence is born.
If wanna cofident you to things that scary and stop being unsure about yourself think good about you
Fake it until you make it.
Love yourself :)
They should marry a sexy goat.
No way. - By an ugly guy...
Get rich as much as you can
there's no such thing as confident man. we all have our insecurities. just keep getting better at whatever you're good at and accept your flaws. your flaws control you because you take them seriously but as soon as you stop caring about them they'll lose their power. all those stuff about dressing fancily and hitting the gym won't make anyone confident. pompous maybe but not confident. those are the stuff that the so called confident guys do but acting like them won't make you confident.
Drink, you'll notice confidence comes with a little liquid encouragment
Take the long way: start by tackling the things that make you feel diffident. If you have poor self image, hire a stylist, get to the gym, see a motivational speaker, get your teeth fixed, whatever you think can help you. Start ticking away slowly at the things that have been holding you back to the point where they are non-issues. Understanding these and then acting on them can help you feel and be confident in your skin.
Short way: fake it until you make it. Bottle up the insecurities, ignore the crippling fear, take a couple deep breaths and just do what scares you. Talk to people like you own the room. Approach women five minutes ago you thought you never would. Project that you're already the guys you admire for having confidence and run with it. First time you do it, it's going to be hard, but the more you put yourself into that mindset, the more it will be less about faking it and more about actually believing it and becoming that truly confident person.
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.