Would you marry a girl that isn’t a v*rgin?

[Anonymous]

For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me.

Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will never understand, and I don’t get how people relate it to insecurity either. Like I’m supposed to want this?

And look swear down I’ve got a huge tool, I know that but I wouldn’t want another potential man to have ‘piped’ her as good as me, I don’t want her to have shared an experience and comparing me to other loser dudes, I want no sloppy seconds either.
Again, am I supposed to want these things?

Yes, I am aware this standard does rule out most women.

It baffles me how a guy could get on one knee for a girl that isn’t a v*rgin.

I only want v*rgins

I don’t mind

[sportsman_MD]

I would only marry a virgin. I have no problem being sexual with non-virgins, as long as she isn't too promiscuous, due to risk of STDs. Having a few flings is different from spending the rest of your life with someone and creating a family.

They relate it to insecurity to try to make themselves look and feel better and to get out of accountability. But how could a man keep f*cking non-virgins if he's insecure? If he was small or insecure he would quickly know that with experience with non-virgins. When a man, such as myself, will be sexual with non-virgins and even tell them upfront that we're done afterward and they still keep coming to me for more, it's not my insecurity if I don't want that in a long-term family-oriented marriage.

[Kaneki05]

I don't want to marry because of how it screws over my benefits.
But for the sake of the idea I don't mind if anything I want them actually not to be, I'd rather her know how to do it to teach me. Plus I find confidence hot. How much confidence will a virgin have? But it's not like I care either way just a minor preference I would never reject a girl based on her sex life or lack of it.

[Anonymous]

Yawn, some clown trying to brag about his "huge tool" lol. It's obvious your hands are the only things it'll ever touch. Enjoy being single forever.

[Asker]

I’ve had plenty of interest from women.

Anyway, keep wishing bad on random people - shows how much you hate your own life.

[LazerBean]

I certainly wouldn't have wasted my virginity by being with a non virgin man.

[Lliam]

I don't care about virginity. I think it's weird to expect women to be sexually ascetic and to never have had any relationships.

I prefer girls who enjoy sex.
I wouldn't even consider marrying someone who was "saving herself" for marriage.

None of my girlfriends were virgins and neither was my wife, to whom I have been happily married for over 29 years.

[Alex-Snow]

Our pasts are our pasts. I actually think it is a good idea to have sex before marriage (at least for some people) We all have different values of course. What bothers me is when guys expect the girl to be a virgin at marriage but it is ok for the guy to have had sex before hand. Double standard maybe?

[egan3141]

What if I "expect" (hope) a virgin and it's not a double standard?

[TonyMetal___86]

Before getting married and having a divorce, that's what i have believed in, not only this, but me too i didn't have sex until marriage, even though i had many opportunities but now i still prefer a virgin girl but if not and she's good and felt that she's the one than i accept her but only if she had a situation similar to me, such a divorced or being dumped by a man whom she had loved, not a girl who had sex with every man she met!

[Berethor]

I don't want to marry a dirty girl, it would be an desperate thing to do, I don't want to do that.

[loveyouoak]

I'm wondering if you're a virgin. If you're, wanting a virgin woman is completely normal.

[Anonymous]

Why the hell would you want a virgin. Being a virgin means she hates sex and would be horrible in bed.

[Anonymous]

Shouldn’t a virgin girl deserve an virgin man?

[Asker]

If that’s what she wants

[sportsman_MD]

Except that's never what they want. They want us with experience. Every time.

[Opinion Owner]

@sportsman_MD I want a guy with no experience

[egan3141]

Fully agree. Everyone should want someone that actually values sex.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Why did you censor virgin?

[Nikki1989]

Are you really 25-29?

[Anonymous]

But how would u know if she’s virgin or not

[Asker]

Good point. You just got to pick up on her mannerisms and how conservative she is. There are circumstances where it can be very believable through culture that a girl hasn’t been messing around.

[Asker]

Like let’s say she has strict traditional parents

[Opinion Owner]

Dude trust me strict parents make no difference.

[Opinion Owner]

Are u a virgin?

[Asker]

No I’m not a virgin. I know you’re going to say that’s hypocritical, but men and women just view it differently.
No so what I mean is strict parents and like when they come from a traditional culture. Like you can just tell for example when Muslim women are virgins. You can tell when a girl is confident with a guy

[Opinion Owner]

Wdym confident. Am confident as fuck. Am Virgin. Personality is no indicator lol

[Opinion Owner]

How big is your tool

[Asker]

If a girl is very confident with men that alone is concerning. Like women should be shy of men.

[Asker]

It is a statistical outlier

[Opinion Owner]

What? Dude. What’s wrong with u.

[Opinion Owner]

No women must be shy of a man. We live in a world made of both women and man

[NathanDavis]

yeah