For me if a girl has given herself to any other guy it’s a red flag. She would have to be truly phenomenal to ‘erase’ that at least for me.
Why would anyone want their partner to have been with another person I will never understand, and I don’t get how people relate it to insecurity either. Like I’m supposed to want this?
And look swear down I’ve got a huge tool, I know that but I wouldn’t want another potential man to have ‘piped’ her as good as me, I don’t want her to have shared an experience and comparing me to other loser dudes, I want no sloppy seconds either.
Again, am I supposed to want these things?
Yes, I am aware this standard does rule out most women.
It baffles me how a guy could get on one knee for a girl that isn’t a v*rgin.
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I would only marry a virgin. I have no problem being sexual with non-virgins, as long as she isn't too promiscuous, due to risk of STDs. Having a few flings is different from spending the rest of your life with someone and creating a family.
They relate it to insecurity to try to make themselves look and feel better and to get out of accountability. But how could a man keep f*cking non-virgins if he's insecure? If he was small or insecure he would quickly know that with experience with non-virgins. When a man, such as myself, will be sexual with non-virgins and even tell them upfront that we're done afterward and they still keep coming to me for more, it's not my insecurity if I don't want that in a long-term family-oriented marriage.
I don't care about virginity. I think it's weird to expect women to be sexually ascetic and to never have had any relationships.
I prefer girls who enjoy sex.
I wouldn't even consider marrying someone who was "saving herself" for marriage.
None of my girlfriends were virgins and neither was my wife, to whom I have been happily married for over 29 years.
I don't want to marry because of how it screws over my benefits.
But for the sake of the idea I don't mind if anything I want them actually not to be, I'd rather her know how to do it to teach me. Plus I find confidence hot. How much confidence will a virgin have? But it's not like I care either way just a minor preference I would never reject a girl based on her sex life or lack of it.
Our pasts are our pasts. I actually think it is a good idea to have sex before marriage (at least for some people) We all have different values of course. What bothers me is when guys expect the girl to be a virgin at marriage but it is ok for the guy to have had sex before hand. Double standard maybe?
Before getting married and having a divorce, that's what i have believed in, not only this, but me too i didn't have sex until marriage, even though i had many opportunities but now i still prefer a virgin girl but if not and she's good and felt that she's the one than i accept her but only if she had a situation similar to me, such a divorced or being dumped by a man whom she had loved, not a girl who had sex with every man she met!
I don't want to marry a dirty girl, it would be an desperate thing to do, I don't want to do that.
Yawn, some clown trying to brag about his "huge tool" lol. It's obvious your hands are the only things it'll ever touch. Enjoy being single forever.
I’ve had plenty of interest from women.
Anyway, keep wishing bad on random people - shows how much you hate your own life.
I certainly wouldn't have wasted my virginity by being with a non virgin man.
I'm wondering if you're a virgin. If you're, wanting a virgin woman is completely normal.
Why the hell would you want a virgin. Being a virgin means she hates sex and would be horrible in bed.
Shouldn’t a virgin girl deserve an virgin man?
If that’s what she wants
Except that's never what they want. They want us with experience. Every time.
@sportsman_MD I want a guy with no experience
Why did you censor virgin?
Are you really 25-29?
But how would u know if she’s virgin or not
Good point. You just got to pick up on her mannerisms and how conservative she is. There are circumstances where it can be very believable through culture that a girl hasn’t been messing around.
Like let’s say she has strict traditional parents
Dude trust me strict parents make no difference.
Are u a virgin?
No I’m not a virgin. I know you’re going to say that’s hypocritical, but men and women just view it differently.
No so what I mean is strict parents and like when they come from a traditional culture. Like you can just tell for example when Muslim women are virgins. You can tell when a girl is confident with a guy
Wdym confident. Am confident as fuck. Am Virgin. Personality is no indicator lol
How big is your tool
If a girl is very confident with men that alone is concerning. Like women should be shy of men.
It is a statistical outlier
What? Dude. What’s wrong with u.
No women must be shy of a man. We live in a world made of both women and man
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