Would you date a very #pretty female who identifies as non-binary (not male and not female)?

Question

Non-binary means  doesn’t identify as male or female . This person was assigned female at birth, but doesn’t care about what pronouns you call her. Sometimes he dresses up as a guy and sometimes she goes out all girly. This is described as two spirit.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

Hetero like Hetero - its the defining quality of being hetero

Gays like Gays - its the defining quality of being gay

Lesbians - like Lesbians its the defining quality of being a Lesbian.

I truly don't get what the confusion over sexuality is once you define yourself as a TRANs, or anything else you come up with then the answer is always NO.

Hetero can't get with Transgender... because that means they are not truly hetero... and Gay men can't be with a women or Trans... because that means they have to be more than just gay.

The only ones that could truthfully answer yes to any of these types of questions are Bisexuals because they literally can play it both ways, with a Trans or non-binary or any other self identifying type because that is what being bisexual means.

Get creative as you want but there is no 3rd sex... so non-binary is a fancy way of saying your Bisexual without having to claim you prefer a man over a women or that it doesn't matter to you, or that you don't subscribe to traditional gender or sex roles and therefore you want the rest of the world to indulge the fantasy in which you live.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

That's fine with me, I'd at least be open to having a date and see if there's any chemistry. I also identify as non-binary, and was assigned male at birth. I am sexually attracted to women, but not to men. Because of this, I often find trans women (mtf) attractive, but the fact they have a penis is a big turn off for me to do anything more than admire them.

As far as the person you are describing goes, I would be fine interacting with them whatever they were expressing, but it would be a turn off for me to have 'him' be physically/sexually assertive with me while giving off a strong male vibe. Usually the non-binary people I am attracted to are more androgynous, and have a vagina.

I still remember a person I thought was super cute at a party years ago, I didn't ask them their gender and it wasn't apparent, but there was definite chemistry. I could say for that particular instance, it does matter very much to me what genitalia a person has. If they had a vagina, I would have been happy to date them; a penis, no thanks.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Wow.. I see some people on here bashing you like crazy, calling you “mentally ill” and stuff. You know who is mentally ill? Racists, homophobes and jerks. They could just say “No, I would not like to date a non binary woman. I would like to date a feminine woman. I have my preferences, nothing wrong with it” now this is fine, but going all psycho isn’t.

You can do whatever you want. I do not care for it one bit. However, I would not date a non binary man/woman as I’m strictly into biological men who act like men. I have my preferences, just like everyone else. I’m not going to bash you for who you are. I hope you find a good partner who accepts you, and loves you for who you are. Good luck

MelonSoda · Accepted Answer

Non binary isn't real. Literally none of these other genders are real. They're fake and made up shit created by mentally ill people. Only male, female, and VERY RARE cases such as being a hermaphrodite or being born with no male or female parts exist. Take this imaginary bs elsewhere.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No, no, no. Hell fucking no. I want a girl who is a girl, knows she's a girl, acts like a girl, and loves the hell out of being a girl. I don't want a girl who stands up to pee.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

No, I like men, men who are assigned male at birth. I don’t have an attraction to transgenders or non-binary whatever.

hahahmm · Answer

Nope. First off that's like dating a person who announces that they're bi. They're basically telling you that they're open to OTHER PEOPLE BESIDES YOU. No thanks. If I want a whore I can go to the strip club. Secondly, I'm not into women who are fugly and as a straight man, I find a woman who looks like a man to be fugly. wth would I date someone who can show up looking like a dude any random time/day? No doubt she will claim that her preferences mean everything but the man she's with has no right to prefer women to look feminine.

Anonymous · Answer

I have some understanding of transgenderism because it's just the result of body dysmorphia. There are even those who want to hack off their limbs due to not feeling comfortable with their bodies and the limbs attached.

This Non-Binary stuff though... it's beyond me. It just came out of nowhere and so many people are now saying they're Non-Binary with weird made up pronouns. Many of them I think are making it up in order to fit in with the SJW crowd.

I have Schizophrenia and even I think these people are more messed up than I am.

Raidernation01 · Answer

Well The person pictured is not "very pretty". What I never understood is If someone is neither a male or a female then why don't they dress in their own way? They are either dressed traditionally male or traditionally female like the picture. I'm straight and I don't believe in all the genders but if I did I would want to showcase how much of a unique person I am and I would not dress the way that society tells me a male or a female should dress. I don't want to look like Fred durst from limp Bizkit on one day, and Avril Lavigne the next day. I would be a completely unique person every single day. But I'm what's known as a non-conformist, and as far as I know I'm the only one that's ever existed.

I'm biracial, You won't see me wearing vans with a blonde wig one day and Jordan's with a Gucci belt the next day.

TruthBringer · Answer

No.

I don't date people with mental issues. It's not hard finding an attractive woman with a good head on her shoulders in regards to stuff like this. And to be honest, many I've seen who hold such beliefs are either just average or batshit ugly. I haven't encountered an actual attractive woman who identifies as non-binary outside of the internet.

MCheetah · Answer

Never. I don't date mentally ill people are pathetic attention whores. And "non-binary" is as bad as you can get regarding either one of those things. I wouldn't even want to date half-assed lesbians ("bi") so why would I ever pretend to date a "non binary" person, let alone respect them? I live in reality, not "My Parents Failed Me Land."

Julielamar2 · Answer

Absolutely not. Besides, I don't understand how we can be "Non-binary" it doesn't really make sense to me.

Self you are a man, be you a woman. Then you may want to change sex, but in the end you become either a man or a woman, which is always only two genders. There are also crossdressers, but he rest men.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well i'm genderfluid myself but don't change myself in pretty much anyway so anyone including my gfs saw me as a guy. Which obviously my Gfs knew i am genderfluid but it's not a big deal to me. Just a fact of life.

But i'm solely only attracted to women. So a Non-binary woman would still have to be of the sex of woman and pretty much still come across as female. If she has a masculine side that bothers me not. Dressing as a guy tho? a turn off.

lilyanony1 · Answer

I like men. Men assigned at birth. i like men with all the bells and whistles.
I like men who know and life being a man
And a man that wants to date me a woman who knows and likes being a woman with all the feminine attributes of being a woman

Staximus · Answer

Assigned? They were not given a job to do. They were born a girl. Born female. I can identify as a tree but that doesn't make me a tree. All this "I was born this but I identify as that" stuff is bullshit. All these people with dysmorphic disorders are trying to rationalize their mental illness.

kitty71 · Answer

Absolutely no. I wotn want to date a person who has identity issues and mental issues that could lead to problems. I want a guy who is a guy likes to be a guy and is a guy and acts like a guy!! Plain and simple.

-Asca- · Answer

I would be open to it, the person in the picture is not of my taste, but in general I wouldn't be against it, just because the person is non binary. Although non binary is a very broad term that can mean a lot of things, so it really needs to be looked at individually for every nb person. I wouldn't be very attracted to someone who behaves more like a man than a woman.

Ms_Vanderquack · Answer

I’m confused, you said “very #pretty” but then posted those pictures... do you think that’s what pretty means?

Desire-for-Greatness · Answer

I don't want to date someone with a mental disorder. I would love to refer them to a psychiatrist who can help treat them though.

You're either male or female. There's no other gender.

Gender is biological and is synonymous with sex.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah if I really like the person I don't really care what they were assigned at Birth or what they identify as, that's not important compared to how important it is if I really like the person. I would have to say I am bisexual so it really doesn't matter it's just do you love the persons soul or not

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

She has deeper unresolved issues within herself if your ok with accepting that then date her.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Sounds totally freaky to me. Why don't they call themselves as they really are:  transvestite : a person who wears clothes designed for the opposite sex : a cross-dresser

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I’ve literally never knowingly met a nonbinary person (except one trans girl). They look attractive in both forms so yeah maybe if we got along in other ways.

RoccRaider241 · Answer

I'm pretty much confused at this cuz someone can do that without having to identify as non binary. just be yourself. Balance between you feminine and masculine energy. But to each heir own.

Leonharted · Answer

Nope. Nothing against them, I'm just not interested in that complication.

JCrockett · Answer

No. That's made up bullshit. She's obviously nuts, not to mention disgusting.

Xtcy2083 · Answer

No, because I'd think there was something seriously wrong with her (and I'd be right). I don't go on dates with mental patients.

Qdbrown · Answer

A non-binary person has more red flags than a Chinese Parade.  I know they're people, but no...

AdithyaR · Answer

I'm open to dating non binaries, gender fluid and trans people. I tend to be more attracted to softer masculine presenting or feminine presenting individuals though.

Berethor · Answer

Yea maybe, it's like dating a tomboy, for me she is still a girl if she was born as a girl.

Lionman95 · Answer

No because that would rather freak me out. I respect their decisions but that's not attractive to me

doopayo · Answer

you’re confusing gender fluid people with non-binary people?

Anonymous · Answer

I think I have that. Both are the same gender though. Anyway no I wouldn't because one I would want and the other I wouldn't. Unless someone is bi I don't think they would want this type

Juxtapose · Answer

No, I am not into masculine looking men or masculine looking women under any circumstances. I would totally fuck a feminine-looking man or woman but that is as far as I will go.

cth96190 · Answer

I would not go anywhere near such a woman, because she has serious mental health issues.

jshm2 · Answer

Nope. That is called "two moron," and fools no one in either guise.

Anonymous · Answer

There's really no such thing. People who go the non-binary route tend to be pretty unattractive either way. But even in the rare instance that someone manages to not be completely hideous. . . No.

blondfrog · Answer

No I don't date mentally ill patients. I wish them will and if they were to get treated then I'd consider it.

honeylover21 · Answer

No,😄😄. If she looks too much like a guy I'll think she's. Just a pretty Guy 🤣🙂

Anonymous · Answer

No that’s too weird for me. I might date a very feminine trans woman under the right circumstances, but the non binary thing just rubs me the wrong way.

joeldalton · Answer

If you’re saying someone is non-binary, that implies there are people who are binary. That in itself is a binary system.

Ninaface · Answer

I'm bisexual but I'm only attracted to people who are comfortable with their cis sexuality

TacosRAwesome · Answer

No also they're better looking as a man than woman.

najekim · Answer

Nope. Too immature, IMHO. Besides, when someone dress up like the opposite sex, they're called a cross-dresser. Or Drag dresser.

Anonymous · Answer

No I tend to keep my distance from women with severe mental disorders.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

No I want a girl that always looks and acts like a girl.

Nerdvana · Answer

I don't think I would. Wouldn't be sure who would lead when we went dancing.

Guanfei · Answer

Only if she was born female, look like a female, and behave like one.

Anonymous · Answer

Would you date a clown in costume everyday? No? Then you have your answer.

Wowboi · Answer

I just wanna date a kangaroo lol I'm tired of silly humans. Me and my kangaroo can havr awesome conversations lol

TsAubreyKate · Answer

That’s gonna get super annoying super fast I met a girl once who wanted me to call her they like dude gtfo

Anonymous · Answer

No idea. My non-binary child dates a man, so he's ok with it.

Honestguyopen · Answer

Clearly the person doesn't know who they are. Can't be in a relationship until you figure that out.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

NOOOOOO. I want a girl who’s female 100% of the time

Anonymous · Answer

This poll does nothing but show that there are 10 pathetic virgin males who are desperate to have anybody show them some affection

rowso · Answer

I almost exclusively date people with mental problems.

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no, I have a quality life outside of dating/sex/relationship. Don't want that much drama and confusion when it comes to dating.

Anonymous · Answer

"Sometimes he dresses up as a guy and sometimes she goes out all girly". What?

Anonymous · Answer

my significant other of 4 years my spouse the love of my life is non-binary

weeee · Answer

Yeah. I know a nb person they're wonderful.

ManOnFire · Answer

Nope.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's a person who can't make up their mind...

anon1903 · Answer

Yes, it'd be my pleasure

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