Would you date a girl who's not a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[BullShark]

With us guys, I don't think a lot of us here would have any issue with her being a virgin or not. For the most part, we aren't virgins either, and sometimes it's better if she knows what she's doing rather than being highly inexperienced, which would not only be unenjoyable for us, but also for her as well.

[hahahmm]

When you get older you tend to realize that sex isn't rocket science tho. Any idiot can do sex right with practice. But you know what a lot of people can't do? Be good relationship material. Be loyal. Be respectful. Be honest (when it counts) and so on. Also, yeah, lots of women today have body counts (!). But there's a difference between the woman who has 1-2 count and the one with 50+ or 100+ or 200+. Oh, yeah. One difference is mental baggage but that's just one of the differences. None of which matter if ALL you want is sex.

[Miristheiss]

I'm married. She was a virgin.

To sum up. I was never going to marry a woman who had slept around or had casual sex or ever had threesomes or had ever had a "hoe" phase.

Non-negotiable. I just personally find it disgusting.

[TrueConfection]

@mcheetah 15 guys say they would not date a girl of she's not a virgin. It's not "just girls on gag" that say that.

[MCheetah]

Wow, a whole whopping 16% of the ultra-conservative, slightly-psycho GAG male userbase! Such a huge number of guys! You're also assuming all men tell the truth at all times, as well.

[TrueConfection]

@MCheetah Who says they're ultra conservative? I didn't see that on the survey.

[TrueConfection]

How many gag girls were you talking about when you said only the gag girls claim they have to be virgins?

[MCheetah]

Girls like you on here only ever say that, and it's been at least fifteen of you. So at best; we're both 'half right.'

[TrueConfection]

@MCheetah ok, I can live with that

[MCheetah]

If most guys needed to marry a virgin, that would leave pretty much no actual women left in modern society, or guys grooming 15 and 16 year old girls. I think most of us know that VERY few women over 19 are still virgins out there.

[TrueConfection]

@MCheetah I haven't really seen women on gag complain that men don't want them because they're not virgins. I've seen it from a number of blue accounts in their 20s and 30s that say they are still virgins and want only a virgin woman (I doubt they are ultra conservative men, but what do I know) and a handful of others. Internet was not what it is today when I was a late teen/early 20s and I heard guys say that to eachother more than once.

I honestly don't care what their preferences are, but it just seems so unrealistic considering so many are also stating they want sex after ___ # of dates.

[MCheetah]

I've seen plenty of women complain on here that men don't want them cause they're not virgins. Not just this teenager on here, but this post, too (if they're not the same girl).
Why aren't men shamed for not being a virgin but women are? ↗

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Depends on the body count and why you're dating. Is this case, are you dating for marriage/ a LTR or just because?

[Asker]

Yes marriage.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Than a lower body count would be better. Not necessarily does it have to be virgin, unless that's what you're personally looking for.

[integrale77]

There comes a point when you can't be that picky and being or not bring is the least important thing.
For me at 45 I decided I'm not going to find a girlfriend who isn't a virgin, I also had to accept most girls I date might also have children.

My current girlfriend has a son I love her loads and get in well with her son.

So basically your priority in a relationship should be do you love them and not judging them for not saving there virginity for you.

[Asker]

You're a good man. I hope your wife and your step son will have a good life. :))

[Arowan]

I'm a virgin and I've been able to make good choices for my 17 years on earth, so I expect the same from whoever I date and eventually marry. I will NEVER shame, humiliate, degrade, or otherwise talk down to a girl who isn't a virgin, but I won't be able to be in a relationship with her. I know people are going to say I'm this way for "religious reasons", and in a way I am, but if I wasn't religious or belonged to a religion that approved of multiple sexual partners or premarital sex, I still wouldn't. I don't want to get some weird disease, and I don't think it's fair for my future wife to ever have to even think about me with another woman, and I expect to receive the same peace of mind in return.

[20yearsolder]

I'm not really sure why there is this emphasis on a girl's first. Typically it doesn't go well. It's not enjoyable for her. I would much rather be with someone that has already gone through that experience

[Asker]

Oh okay, even marry?

[20yearsolder]

What do you mean? When I marry someone that wasn't a virgin? If that's what you're asking, I'm married a woman that already had a child. Her vagina is still fantastic to this day. I just don't get it why some guy thinks it has to be untouched

[20yearsolder]

If you're comfortable doing it, follow me and let's have a conversation

[Summeroflove]

Yeah. Long as she’s a Christian and not interested in sleeping around and repented

[Asker]

You're amazing, a forgiving man ! 😊 There needs to be more men like you out there.

[Summeroflove]

Thanks

[Summeroflove]

I wouldn’t date someone who was currently like that or wanted to do that with me or cheated on me.

[Summeroflove]

But. Yeah nobody is perfect. Long as she has a walk with God

[glennos89]

Ofcourse I would date a girl who isn't virgin anymore! Those rules are very old fashioned but realise this is 2022 and times changes everything. Having no sex before marriege is something from the 1900's-1980's era 😂😂😂

[hahahmm]

Lots of guys date almost anybody. A better question is will a guy take you seriously if you have a high body count? Answer is: unlikely or you gotta work way harder to get a guy to do that than otherwise.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Many g@g users won’t date virgins, I don’t know why.

[hahahmm]

@HippieVeganJewslim Maybe it's similar to my opinion about women's weight... I used to be open minded but then feminist started claiming that all women are beautiful and men (basically) have no right to a preference & men should be happy with whatever they can get. At that point I decided F that and raised my standards. I was never into obese women.. I was open to those who were a little overweight tho. You give an inch and they take a mile. No point encouraging women to have body counts.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Interesting. A fellow philosopher posted how men are automatically beautiful and women often wear cosmetics to be equal to men. Not like I agree 100%, but I like women who wear no cosmetics and prefer black lipstick on men, as that’s quite groovy. As for me, I want to marry Noura, whether She’s virgin or not. Whatever happened in the past stays in the past.

[hahahmm]

@HippieVeganJewslim The problem is that usually these women are deep in their past in one way or another. They could still be doing the stuff they claim not to be OR they have a lot of mental baggage. It seems like the typical woman collects & keeps baggage easier than a man. A lot of dudes don't want the ghost of 10-30 failed relationships messing up his relationship.
But yeah, at my age (if I weren't married) of course I wouldn't be looking for a virgin. But the woman who had 1-2 really long relationships is a lot higher value than the one who had 10+ failures.. 20 failures... 40 short terms and 100 f buddies.

Far as women and makeup... Oh, I was never into the ones who need lots of makeup. I feel sorry for dudes who married a woman who actually needs all that paint just to look cute/good.

[hahahmm]

Higher value when all other things being equal, I mean.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

My longest relationship was with Dawn Marie, for about a year. I miss her, but can live without a relationship with her. Now, I don’t really care about her, as she doesn’t seem compatible with me and I can marry Noura, although She’s for polygamy.

[XTefi]

Deppends of her body count, if she isn't virgin and her body count is 1 then that's fine but if she isn't virgin and her body count is more then 10 and higher then nah. And deppends on age if she is 18-20 and her body count is to like 3 then fine but if at that age her body count is 10 then absolutely no

[Asker]

That's completely understandable! Would you marry a girl who has a body count of 1?

[Anonymous]

I dated a virgin in college who was saving herself for Marriage. She only did anal sex, blowjobs, handjobs and mutual masturbation. Turns out she had about 20 previous lovers but still a virgin.

[Asker]

She was not a virgin then. Doing any sexual act with another person means you're not a virgin.

[Opinion Owner]

Never had a penis in her vagina. In biblical terms she was a virgin.

[Kaneki05]

I would prefer that over a virgin so yes. Obviously though as virgin myself that sounds hypocritical but also to be clear I have no hard stance so of course I would take a virgin aswell.

[TroyDT2]

At my age and with my attraction to older women, I'd have a very, very limited dating pool if I restricted myself that way. Anyway the average age for losing virginity in the United States is just over 17.

[OneViewpoint]

I have and I would. A virgin is actually unappealing to me in the extreme. Inexperienced and scared to death has never been a turn on.

[CruelSun7]

What I care about a woman is not a tissue that is there to protect her from sickness while a child but who she is and what kind a person she is.

If she is not a slut, I'm okay with it.

[Berethor]

I rather not, I rather marry a virgin, dating a non-virgin is a huge compromise for me.

[Asker]

Why?

[Berethor]

Because I don''t want a ho, virginity is the best way to tell if a girl is a ho or a good girl.

[Asker]

Are you a virgin?

[Berethor]

I am not here to talk about myself.

[Asker]

Just saying that if you're not a virgin you're not worthy of a virgin. A beautiful virgin girl deserves a self controlling good virgin man.

[Berethor]

Religion-wise everyone should wait until marriage, but most women don't care about that.

[Asker]

Neither do men for some reason. They just sleep around and have no self respect whatsoever.

[Berethor]

When it comes to marriage most men prefer a virgin, but they might use slutty women.

[Asker]

Most virgin women prefer a virgin man when it comes to marriage. 😊

[Berethor]

It's not true, many women want someone "experienced", while many men want a virgin.

[PinkRose24]

I'm a virgin and I want a virgin man.

[Berethor]

Good, religion supports it, but most virgin women don't look for a virgin man.

[PinkRose24]

You're not a virgin so stfu

[Berethor]

How you know? I am not here to talk about myself.

[Asker]

Bruh most virgin women want a virgin men. It's facts

[Berethor]

You welcome to make a question about that, many virgin women don't want a virgin man.

[Asker]

According to what?

[Berethor]

According to what I seen, virgin girls who look for virgin guys are fairly rare.

[Asker]

Name one.

[Berethor]

I am not going to give names but as I said virgin girls are free to do that I don't mind.

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, that's all I've ever had! Two of the three girls I've fucked were pregnant years before I met them!

[Asker]

Oh but I meant like long term.

[FunkyMonkee]

The first one I was with for 3 months, the second I was with for about 5 months, the third I was with for 10 years. The 2nd was the only one that didn't have a kid. All 3 had been married before I had them.

[RavVid]

I don't think you have much choice. After a certain age, depending on locale, it's illegal too date virgins.

[MCheetah]

Yes, of course. As long as she's not an outright slut.

[Cubus]

Depends how many sex partners she would before me.

If she had 1 or 2 and she would accept my beliefs then yes

[Asker]

That's good! There needs to be more men like you out there.

[Cubus]

Thank you girl

[Cubus]

If I may ask: what made you ask this question? Are you a virgin?

[Asker]

No I'm not, I have masturbated so I've broken my hymen.

[Cubus]

Masturbation doesn;t mean you;re not a virgin anymore. You have to have sex in order to do so

[Asker]

Biblically I'm not a virgin.

[Cubus]

Bible doesn;t say anything about masturbation from what I know

[slatyb]

Of course at my age I would be leery of dating a woman who was a virgin.

[Andres77]

That was my preference. If I dated a virgin and knew I couldn’t commit to her then I’d break things off.

[exitseven]

I think they are few and far between so I would.

[Fireguy17]

sure I have and it isn't a big deal, at least to me.

[Anonymous]

I would never date a virgin, male or female.

[Asker]

Why not?

[Anonymous]

Uh yeah, not to many virgins my age🤣. But without a date her dating history IS a factor. I won't date a woman whose history is... questionable.

[DailyAsk]

No, because I’m a virgin.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. You have to be realistic. Virgins are very difficult to find especially if she is pretty and past a certain age.

[haooy]

Maybe if you are 16 and a guy who have always liked you would care. I think most of the adults don't.

[9214xs]

I’d prefer it. The higher the body count the better

[Asker]

I meant long-term. 😅

[9214xs]

You mean date long term? Well yeah I’d prefer someone with a lot of experience

[Asker]

Yes like someone you'd eventually marry

[9214xs]

Then yes I'd prefer a high body count, higher the better

[Twalli]

Yeah. I didn't expect my girlfriend to be one. I was glad she was, but I wasn't expecting it.

[Asker]

Okay!

[JohnK123]

Ya ofc. I’m one lmao but wanna lose it. How old ya 💀

[Asker]

I think I've seen you say before that you're a Catholic... so why are you saying you want to lose your virginity here?

[JohnK123]

I’m not like an orthodox catholic or Jew 🤣 not all Catholics are hardcore whatever

[Asker]

Then you're not Catholic. Sex outside marriage is a mortal sin and teached to be wrong, if you willingly just go out and try to committ this sin you're not a Catholic. A Catholic will follow God's rules, a non Catholic wouldn't. Sorry but you're not a Catholic then. Go and repent, I see you try to get girls to talk to you all the time and I know what your attention is. Go confess your sins to God John.

[JohnK123]

Lmao 1) not every single religious person (doesn’t matter what denomination) believes in everything about their religion.
2) I’m still a catholic because I go to mass and pray and worship God and ask for his help and glory and I have communion 3) even Orthodox Jews don’t always follow god’s rules

[Asker]

You can't say that you're a Catholic and go and commit mortal sins all the time, how the heck are you ever going to become a saint in that way? M O R T A L S I N. It's not something small, you're aware that if you died right now you'd go to hell? It's the same if I said "I murder and rape people but I'm still Catholic because I go to mass and I pray and worship God" it doesn't work like that. You can't be Catholic and live like a sl0t or in any other mortal sins.
You do realize that you're not worshipping God but infact you're disrespecting Him. You're taking advantage of God's grace and forgiveness. You think that "oh I can lose my virginity outside marriage but it doesn't matter because God will forgive me anyway" NO! It doesn't work like that, God won't forgive you if that's what you go around thinking.
Jesus says in Matthew 5:28 : "But I say to you, That whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." Jesus clearly stated that this is wrong, this is a sin. And yet you fully know that and want AND TRY

[Asker]

to commit this sin all the time. You KNOW that God forbids this, and you still go and disrespect Him. You know that if you take advantage of God like this, He won't let you die in mercy. One day God will see that you commit a mortal sin again and see your thoughts thinking "it doesn't matter because God will forgive me anyway". God will LET YOU DIE in the state of mortal sin and you'll be in the pains of hell for eternity away from God because temporarily pleasure on earth is more important to you.

Jesus also says in Matthew 7:21 : “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven." So you might say that you pray to God, go to mass and worship Him, but if you don't do the will of God none of that matters.

Also in Galatians 5:19-21 it says: "Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God."

[Asker]

Here it says that people who do any of these things will NOT inherit the kingdom of God. You are living in sexual immorality.

In Corinthians 6:9 it says: "Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality"

In Ephesians 5:5 it says: "For you may be sure of this, that everyone who is sexually immoral or impure, or who is covetous (that is, an idolater), has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God."

You are sexually impure, and I proved that to you. Stop your sins and repent now truly. Do penance and ask God for forgiveness my friend, God bless you

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If she can’t help not being a virgin, it ain’t her fault anymore.

[Pudsmucker]

If I was a dating person. Yes. She is a beautiful spirit kind and loving.

[zagor]

Yes. I would wonder about anyone close to my age who is one.

[Jerre]

Yes I would. Her either being or not being a virgin makes no difference to me.

[bamesjond0069]

Sure but not for marriage. Virginity is a requirement for marriage as far as I'm concerned.

[LordOfThePines]

Of course I would, I don't value someone for their virginity status.

[Reign1]

I just think it’s not relevant. If there is chemistry then go on a date!

[KrakenAttackin]

Young men will date non-virgins, but overwhelmingly they would PREFER to date a virgin.

[Hardworkingguy]

Of course. That's something that doesn't matter at all to me

[Anonymous]

Nope. I broke up with my wife as soon as I found out she lost her virginity to me.

[Asker]

What? 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I’m kidding. 😃 I would’ve felt pretty insecure if I had dated someone who lost their virginity before me but I wouldn’t have if she had taken my virginity and I was like her third or fourth she had been with.

[Solitario_94]

I prefer that she not be a virgin.

To be blunt, I don't want my penis to turn red.🩸

[Anonymous]

Of course. Most guys don' want a virgin; they just don't want a ho.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

I don't think, I've been w/a virgin. Besides, I like Hoes..

[Mrcool001]

Yes. But if the sex she had was a mistake and it only happen once and also by mistake.

[Cheyanne178]

I think most guys would

They don't place that much importance on virginity

[Anonymous]

Yes but honestly I'd find that quality to be a bit unappealing.

[Anonymous]

Yeah obviously because I’ve never met one over 16 back in my day

[bigmatt98]

I actually won’t date a virgin 🤣🤣

[Robert_]

I would prefer het not to be a virgin.

[AviatorTom]

At my age, I prefer a non-virgin.

[jeremy_09]

It's not a big factor.

[Asker]

Really?

[jeremy_09]

Yeah I mean what happened before a certain guy is your business. And most girls past age 14 15 16 are not virgins anyway.

[User3191989]

As long as she's not a minor

[Asker]

Would you marry a non-virgin? (Say she has had sex with one man before)

[User3191989]

I don't want marriage, or kids

[KostasKouvalis]

At my age, I don't have much of a choice

[LimitedBenefits101]

A virgin girl doesn't exist.

[Asker]

My sister is

[boobliker]

why not she may teach me something new

[BJP21]

doesn't change who you are.

[Sabretooth]

Not my first choice... But I'm 32... So...

[Asker]

Okay.

[Avatar74]

Its not an issue with me in the slightest

[driven159]

Does not make any difference

[AngryCarl]

Either that or give up dating. lol

[NaughtyInnocent]

I will.
but won't marry.

[Asker]

Even if her body count is only 1?

[NaughtyInnocent]

I will date her with honesty and being loyal.
but tbh I can't marry her.
but if she is very guilty. and regretting then I can thing for marriage but it can happen only being in relation after seeing her loyalty and honesty

[Asker]

Ok, are you a virgin?

[NaughtyInnocent]

Yeah of course

[NaughtyInnocent]

and I think you were talking abput yourself

[Asker]

Then you deserve a virgin girl! I hope you find one, good luck!

[NaughtyInnocent]

you aren't virgin but had sex with only 1 guys

[NaughtyInnocent]

if the girl is honest and my type but not virgin and is feeling guilty. then why not. of course.