How can I make a guy fall deeply in love with me?

[Larissa090]

There’s a guy in my class who keeps looking at me. He’s handsome and very friendly with everyone. We haven’t talked directly yet, but I can clearly feel that he’s interested in me, especially physically. About me: I’m more on the cold and calm side. I have blue eyes, black hair, fair skin, and I don’t like unnecessary talk or people who talk too much. I usually stand out without trying. I’m also doing well academically. I want to understand men better.

What actually makes a man fall in love?

What really attracts you emotionally, not just physically?

How can I leave a strong impression without chasing or forcing anything? ’I d really appreciate honest answers. I’m not the type to be friendly with everyone

Updates

5 mo

He has feelings for me; he keeps looking at me and tries to talk to me. I want to speed things up.

[egan3141]

• Tell him he interests you and you'd like to go on a date
• Figure out what interests you have in common and do those things with him
• If you don't already know how to, learn to cook
• Truly listen to what he says and tell him about yourself as well

• You can still make him plan it, just let him know you are interested

• As they say "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

That's about it. Sounds like you don't want to be direct like the first step, but if there is no personality problems between the two people, this would work for just about any woman on just about any guy.

[egan3141]

It seems GAGs bullet point system sucks, the extra spacing bullets are suppose to be indented on previous bullets. Make him plan is part of the first bullet and the expression is for cooking

[egan3141]

Based on your update, I refer back to the above. Just VERBALIZE that you are also interested. You can make him do the work, just let him know you want that work.

[aaron13547]

Be yourself and just enjoy being around him. Don't try. Just enjoy interacting with him however you manage to. Energy flows where your attention goes.

Be vulnerable and trust you got this! Trust he is going to like you as much as you do him, and just live in the moments.

Love isn't something we can "make" but it is something we can grow 😉

[aaron13547]

Thank you for the mho. i'll be wishing you two the best!

[Larissa090]

Thank u so much❤

[bowenw]

You can't make anyone love you. It has to happen organically.
I suggest you start talking to him to see if there is a connection.

[bowenw]

He may be shy and talking to him first would help.

[NathanDavis]

BBQ ribs...

will go straight and right into his heart...

[Anonymous]

Why do u want him to fall for u? Sounds narcissistic

[Opinion Owner]

How does he look?

[Larissa090]

He is perfect, so handsome.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh what makes him perfect?

[Opinion Owner]

How can u love a person without talking to them

[Larissa090]

He’s both intelligent and handsome, and he seems genuinely interested in me. He’s tried to talk to me and we work together in lab sessions.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh how tall are u both? What are his areas of interest

[Larissa090]

I’m 172 cm tall whereas he stands at 182 cm... We both study medicine in the same department

[Larissa090]

187**

[Opinion Owner]

What he’s that tall?

[Opinion Owner]

Why do u like him. Sounds like u want him to like u , want an ego boost that bad?

[jahaims]

You want a guy you haven't even spoken to, to fall in love with you? That is mental

[Anonymous]

Have sex with him. If you're hot and good at sex that will win him for sure.

[DryGermanGuy]

Watch Bruce Almighty - in short, you can’t.

[Larissa090]

Why?

[DryGermanGuy]

Because you can’t mess with free will.

https://youtu.be/6et2ZSodS0g?si=tlhSQonB3_5SCbVz

[In_Trance]

Be someone he wants to fall deeply in love with

[Larissa090]

How?