How do I make a guy who dosent love me, fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

he loves anime, plays ps3's and I did tell my feelings to him before ! they didn't workout ! I still love him ! what do I do?

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he has a lot of misconceptions about me, believed what people rumoured about me, and now he isn't actually ready to clear them too ! and so, he thinks i am a bad girl, dosent want to get along with me

[BrandnewSmith]

You have two options;
1) You can pursue a relationship which will probably only work one way. If you do this you could attract him by wearing semi-provocative clothes that will turn him on and lust after you. He likes ps3 generate a conversation and maybe try and see if you two could go to his and play together and see where that leads you,

2) If you realise it might not work out try and find closure tell a close friend to help you with your problem. You could also try and find someone else you like and see how it goes with him and this could make the original guy jealous and lead to the fantasy you desire

Hope this helps.

[Asker]

i am just not able to move on

[NotTheRegularNiceGuy]

Ill be dead honest with you. Unless you try to talk to him about the thing people said about you and change his mind about it, it probably won't happen. If you succed, try talking with him about ps3s and stuff like that. Look for games that he likes and make some references mid-conversation. Its your best shot. You can't make him fall in love with you but you can try to make a relationship and wait to see if he eventually feels the same

[Asker]

seriously?

[NotTheRegularNiceGuy]

Seriously. I believe it might not be as hard as you think. Be calm, try your best to show him the kind of person you are and do as I said. The worst thing that could happen is a stupid guy not believing you, so one day he may realize the chance he lost. Of course, it will hurt, but thats something we are always up to when we start loving somebody...

[Victoria14]

you can't make anyone fall in love with you. thats all based on their personal mindset and if he thinks you're a bad girl, then so be it.

you can, however, try to show him that you aren't (unless you really are bad in which case you'll just look desperate). but try to hang out with him or hang out with some mutual friends and be yourself and then hopefully he'll see whether or not the rumors are true and maybe you'll have a chance with him. if not, you should probably just move on even though itll be hard.

[Ildskf]

I'm sorry...but I don't think it's possible to make someone fall in love with you...as many others have said...chemistry is either there or it isn't. Think about it though...would you really want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't truly love you? I'm sure you someone will come along that has mutual feelings for you.

[findingdreamland]

Sorry to hear that :( I am sorry there is no way that you can make him fall in love with you :( If there is flame, there is flame. You can not fake it.

Yo have to accept the harsh truth. In the future you will meet your dream guy, whom you will not be worried to make fall in love with.

[Asker]

i am just not able to move on ! its been 4 years !

[findingdreamland]

:( 4 years. Girl you are consuming your precious time with something impossible. Seriously.

How about cutting some contact , be away from him for a while? A serious distancing?

[Asker]

I didn't contact him, but, neither It mattered to him too
even he didn't contact me ! but after a long time, just got a friend request from him !
but he never made an effort to text me himself !

[findingdreamland]

Did you contact him, i mean, texted him?

[Asker]

I initiate the chat always ! we are friends now ! but only on fb ! our convo consists of only 4 lines...

[findingdreamland]

Well initiating is not a bad thing. It is good to be friends. Hang on there in my opinion. Spend some time and try to know him better. Maybe you will not be fond of him as before? So you will see. You will decide it later.

[Asker]

I used to always feel inferior of him before ! I always thought, that he was better than me in all ways ! what happened one day, is I just chatted with him without feeling inferior him and pretended as if I didn't love him and chatted normally...my problem is I really can't show attitude to people whom I love ! I don't like showing attitude to people ! I don't have that thing in me...I am scared that I may hurt people if I show attitude ! I am a softhearted girl ! that day I really felt better than I am no less ! but I feel, I question myself if I overdid it !

[findingdreamland]

Nobody is better than you. Nobody.Aw you are so sweet. You will not hurt somebody. In this way you will hurt yourself?
Don't you feel?

People comes people goes. There is always some reason behind that. Yes it is very painful, you want the same feeling in return. What is love about you know? Loving without any expectation but knowing the distance that you can hurt.

I think you are passing that line. Don't hurt yourself girl. Don't.
Let him go. He is ghost, he is not the main character in your journey. Let this ghost GO AWAY. You did already what you could do.

Now it is time to move on. Just move on. Don't overthink about it.Why it happened why he doesn't? It is not your business any more. Set yourself free. Just FREE.

[Asker]

yeah sweetheart ! can I say something? I really don't expect a hug, or a sweet lovely kiss from him or I don't expect anything else in return from me ! It really dosent matter me, if he even says I love you everyday ! but I will tell him because I love him ! and love shouldn't have expectations ! its just that, i just wana make him realize for a second and it should just strike him that how so much i loved him and he is loosing someone really precious ! i just wana make him know ! and everything will be smooth after that !

[findingdreamland]

You killed me girl! Literally killed me :( How i can survive today.. LOL You are such a sweet person such a lovely person. You LOVE him. That is why you don't expect anything.

Well go and yell him! Shout at him like a last time you will see him. Say what you want to say. And if he still doesn't get , well, he is missing such a lovely human being! Shame for him:p

[Asker]

i don't know sister ...i am really scared near him ! because he gets hyper easily ! i can't actually say that..i don't know that quality of his, but i love him blindly ...i already proposed him and in return he said "so what if you love me".. ! and now, i am feeling like should i really mess up things between us !

[Asker]

what to do...

[findingdreamland]

My opininion is same, girl. You have to gorget him. He seems like total douchebag. At this point love doesn't count anymore. Well decide yourself, you deserve someone more than a douchebag or what?

[Anonymous]

To put it simply, you can't make him love you. Love is a choice of one's own heart, it can't be taken or given unless that heart decides it is so. You've already told him how you feel, and he doesn't have the same feelings. Unrequited love hurts. Time to move on.

[Jordahn]

Well you obviously have to work on attraction and comfort and not even think about love. You have to demonstrate through your actions and bearing that you really are a good girl. Just don't think too much about it: if you really like him your good qualities will come out on their own.

[Asker]

i know ! he is not even caring to look at me or talk to me ! how will he know?

[Jordahn]

A lot of times it takes patience. Just always be sincere and down to Earth and it will affect how people feel around you.

Well did anything happen to make him feel like you betrayed him or let him down. And for one, has he given you reason to believe he likes you, or do you think it's possible he isn't that into you?

[Asker]

i didn't get the second paragraph ! if you don't mind...

[Asker]

what is working on attraction?

[Jordahn]

You have to not only attract him, but you need him to feel comfort when he's around you as well. You must have both if you ever hope to get someone to fall in love you with.

[Asker]

and how do i attract him?i am beautiful, i am smart, but i have never made use of my beauty in purpously attracting someone ! and i am skaid ! because, i don't know exactly that, he is one short-tempered ...i am telling something on the basis of his chats ! he isn't always like that, but gets hyper immediately ! soo..

[Jordahn]

awomanscornd.blogspot.com/.../...tion-victims.html

That's an excerpt from the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene. You can read that webpage, and hopefully figure out what type of person he is. I'd suggest reading the whole book though, it's a very well-written book.

[jesseray]

If he knows your feelings and isn't make a move on you, then you and him are just not going to work out. I mean, even if you somehow manage to persuade him to date you, the relationship would just fizzle out. You need to move on and find a man who is more receptive.

[DodgersGM]

There isn't anything you can do to make him fall for you, and even if you could, would you really want it that way?

Find someone who loves you for YOU. It'll be infinitely more meaningful and fulfilling.

[Asker]

I know...but he dosent know me ! so to accept me, the way I am, he has to know me !
but he isn't even initiating the chat...he is just ignoring ! I wana let him know even from different sources ! but I just can't trust people in this matter right? if they will really help me get him or just make fun of me!!! what do I do? ! :(

[skorzeny75]

You cannot make someone fall in love with you. As long as you told him what you feel, that's all you can do. You may just need to move on.

[teasegirl]

This

[skorzeny75]

this? this what?

[Asker]

i am just not able to move on ! its been 4 years !

[chessqueen]

You just cant... I tried it before. Once somebody has his mind made up about you, then it's his loss

[Asker]

can't we change it?

[chessqueen]

Honey I tried... I was in love with a guy for 6 years and he never ever loved me. I go over it.

[Asker]

its soo damn painful ! its kinda irritating me !

[bleedingquadrophenic]

https://www.nirmalbaba.com/

That guy can help

[sherlocked]

Listen. Don't make fun of Nirmal Baba. He has helped me a lot, ok?

[bleedingquadrophenic]

I was at work today, and someone thought it was a good idea to put on IBN fucking 7. Nirmal Baba was on. What really struck me though was how bored that guy seems

[Giraffe94]

You can't make anything happen when it comes to love. You either have the chemistry with them or you don't.

[Yeahhh234]

You cannot make someone love you, unless there's some sort of magic potion

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

You can't make no one love you, who fell out of love with you
impossible thing to do

[anjaan]

keep going..some or the other day he realizes.. then after it is in your hands !!

[CommieDearest]

Um...move on. If you already told him and he's not interested, then he's not interested.

[Anonymous]

Set up some hentai and PS3 games under a net and catch that pussy.

[Asker]

i didn't get you!

[Opinion Owner]

I was making a joke because I thought this question was one.

[Asker]

no dude ! i am just not understanding !

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

You can't make people fall in love with you

[teasegirl]

You go to a witch

[Anonymous]

You cannot force attraction or feelings.

[Le_Franglais]

Roofie him.

[Metal189]

u dont. u move on

[Anonymous]

you can't , move on

[Anonymous]

Tell him how u feel