I've been friends with this guy
(we'll call him T for now), for a few months online. We're in our early 20s, and he's truly everything. Me and him are compatible; I feel it. We live 7 hours from each other. He's told me before in a random conversation that he doesn't think he'd ever online date.. but I don't believe that considering I met many guys that have said that and then that suddenly changes. I can't stop thinking about him, and he's saved my life numerous times. I have BPD, and he's my favourite person. We're not toxic, and we get along well. I've had my fair share of abusive boyfriends, and he always tells me I deserve more and he's mentioned that he wants a girlfriend... and I feel like everything makes me think of him. It hurts me when our other friends try and get him to start talking to other girls, or he talks about other girls. I get incredibly jealous but I don't like being openly toxic in regards to feelings so I keep quiet. Me and him share the same morals, and I know we'd be happy; something just feels right? Please can someone give me advice, tell me what this feeling is? what should I do next? No jokes please.
(we'll call him T for now), for a few months online. We're in our early 20s, and he's truly everything. Me and him are compatible; I feel it. We live 7 hours from each other. He's told me before in a random conversation that he doesn't think he'd ever online date.. but I don't believe that considering I met many guys that have said that and then that suddenly changes. I can't stop thinking about him, and he's saved my life numerous times. I have BPD, and he's my favourite person. We're not toxic, and we get along well. I've had my fair share of abusive boyfriends, and he always tells me I deserve more and he's mentioned that he wants a girlfriend... and I feel like everything makes me think of him. It hurts me when our other friends try and get him to start talking to other girls, or he talks about other girls. I get incredibly jealous but I don't like being openly toxic in regards to feelings so I keep quiet. Me and him share the same morals, and I know we'd be happy; something just feels right? Please can someone give me advice, tell me what this feeling is? what should I do next? No jokes please.
