How to make him fall in love with me?

[Anonymous]

I have been seeing this guy for 3 Months now we talk every day, we call each other baby, boo all those sweet names but none of us has ever said I LOVE U to another. we behave like we are in a relationship if I don't text him the whole day he calls and gets mad for that and i do the same. I have fallen in love with him how do i go about it? How do i make him feel the same because i dont know how he feels?

[Datboi65]

Short answer, you don't.

Long answer is, you cannot "make" someone "fall in love" with you. They either do, or they don't. That is based more of how they react to you, and less about your influence. Now granted, if you are good to them it will definitely help your chances significantly, but there could also be a situation where that is unidirectional and not reciprocated.

Another thing to consider is that this is not a contest of "who says it first". You have to be direct and honest in your communication. If that's how you feel, then you should let him know. If he doesn't feel the same way, then he would tell you. If he does feel the same way, then he will of course tell you. It will save you so much time actually talking to your guy rather than asking strangers about how to make a person they don't know fall in love with you. Have confidence in yourself and accept the outcome.

Best of luck 👍🏾

[DoctorSex]

Everyone has different love languages. Some people will show they love you by their actions more than their words. It all has to do with upbringing.
Forget the words for now and focus on the actions. Is he moving in the direction you'd like him to move in? Is he behaving like he wants to take you seriously? These are the most important questions, not whether he says I love you or not. Many people say the word and don't mean it.

One of the clearest ways to know that a man loves you is that he spends huge amounts of his time talking and spending time with you, he also tries to bring structure to your life. The latter is one of the clearest ways that he's taking you seriously.

Kind regards,

[BlueScorpio]

You can't make or force anyone to love you. It has to come naturally for the both of you, when love happens naturally it makes it a whole lot more special. anyway you can express how you feel or ask him but I take a little bit more slowly since you've only been together for 3 months. He nay feel that's too fast.. so just wait cause you're still getting to know one another.

[Milonaa]

Plan romantic dates or participate in his hobbies (without trying to 'infiltrate' hid boys' nights).

[FilmGuy93]

Just keep doing what you're doing. It sounds like he is falling for you. Don't complicate things.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Well like all the girls said… you can’t make him love you. You can however help him decide that he does. As they say the man may be the head of the house but the woman is the neck and you can turn his head most ways if you know what you are doing. Fhe thing is you are acting like you are dating but has he asked you out on a date yet? Has he suggested anything g about dating? Do you have any real conversations? You need to start forcing him to take you more seriously. Ask if he is taking you on a date. Or mention that something might be a nice date…tell him that you want to date some one… you know the drill. Work him up a bit.

[Anonymous]

You put your pride in a box, and give that box a good kick, so that it reaches a place near enough for you to be spontaneous in your demeanour toward him.
Therefore, you tell him "I love you" as soon as that is what is within you.

And see what happens.

[Belgie]

You can't make someone fall in love with you. You need to really take that on board if you've somehow made it into your twenties believing that you could.

[dustybiker]

The age old question.

You can’t force love.

[spartan55]

Have you agreed to be in a committed, exclusive relationship with each other?

[tonamimargaux]

We can’t make them fall for us. He must feel that naturally

[Evan64]

You have some growing up to do. You can't force anything in this life... except maybe a fart. I wouldn't reccomend doing that, either.

[Anonymous]

The only way you can make him love you is if you become a stripper or a porn star.

[bean2k21]

Suck it like you're getting paid.

[katestar]

Make him happy and excited.

[Fuentes]

It can't be forced lol

[Nominal]

You say the į love you. Is that simple.

[Summeroflove]

Give it time

[User3191989]

It ain’t love

[notwoke]

anal